Are we so consumed by what others have and what we lack? Are too focused on what the world claims we should have accomplished or who we should be by a certain age?  Have we been crippled by lost or failed dreams that we attach ourselves to someone's else dream because we are unsure whether or not we can transform our own dreams and passions into reality? Principles 3 & 4 of this book highlights how important it is follow our own dreams and passions, along with viewing our losses as lessons for the next opportunity.