Blame vs contribution -- the differences are straightforward to grasp intellectually, yet sometimes tricky to employ effectively in conflict situations. Here are a few ways to shift a conversation from blame to contribution without appearing to blame the victim.

Show notes

Evolutionary roots of blame

Fake apologies

Why it's harder to see our own contribution

My book, The Conflict Pivot

Gaslight, the film

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