Why do so many women prefer taller men... and is that preference actually biological?

In this episode, we're going down the rabbit hole from sperm banks and height requirements to evolutionary psychology, dominance, social status, cultural conditioning, dating apps, and what research actually says about women's height preferences.

Are women looking for “tall,” or simply someone taller than themselves? Did evolution wire us this way, or has society taught us that men are supposed to be bigger? And why the hell are we apparently willing to shop for taller sperm donors?

We're breaking down the science, the stereotypes, and the fascinating difference between what we say we want and who we actually choose.

Because apparently, we decided the length of a man's skeleton was worth putting on the dating resume. 😂

🔬 Sources & Studies

Women Want Taller Men More Than Men Want Shorter Women — Stulp, Buunk & Pollet (2013)
A study of 650 participants examining sex differences in partner-height preferences and satisfaction with partner height. Read the study on ScienceDirect

Human Height Is Positively Related to Interpersonal Dominance in Dyadic Interactions — Stulp et al. (2015)
Three naturalistic studies examining whether height predicts dominant behavior during real-world social interactions. Read the study on PLOS ONE

The Height of Choosiness: Mutual Mate Choice for Stature Results in Suboptimal Pair Formation for Both Sexes — Stulp, Buunk, Kurzban & Verhulst (2013)
A huge speed-dating study involving 5,782 people and 128,104 choices, examining stated preferences versus actual romantic choices. Read the research

Are Human Mating Preferences With Respect to Height Reflected in Actual Pairings? — Stulp et al. (2013)
Examines whether people's preferences for partner height actually translate into the height differences seen in real couples.

University of Groningen Research Portal — Height & Mate Preferences
Additional research and publications from Gert Stulp and colleagues on height, attraction, dominance and mate selection.

Sex is weird. Like, really fucking weird. 😂 This week, we’re diving into the strangest sex news and research of 2026, from suicidal spider sex and exercise-induced arousal to the orgasm gap, disappearing kisses, sex myths, and a festival dedicated to giant penises. Science, sex, and absolute chaos… basically, a normal week on Blunt Bitch with Boobs. 🍆🕷️

Apparently, America has a lot of opinions about what we do in the bedroom... and some of those opinions actually became laws.

This week, we're scratching the surface of America's weirdest sex laws, separating facts from internet bullshit, and asking the important question:

Why the fuck does the government care so much about who we are fucking??

You thought Michigan was known for cherries and the Great Lakes? Think again. This week, we're diving headfirst into the state's most outrageous competition: the Prettiest Butthole Contest. Who came up with it? How do you even judge a butthole? And why did it become a viral sensation? Grab a drink and prepare to laugh, cringe, and question humanity, because yes... this is a real thing.

Penises, Parties & Poor Decisions: The Last Fling Before the Ring 🍆💍

Why do we celebrate getting married with matching outfits, questionable decisions, and an alarming amount of inflatable penises? This week on Blunt Bitch with Boobs, I’m diving into the hilarious history of bachelor and bachelorette parties, exploring why penis decorations have been around for centuries, comparing pre-wedding traditions from around the world, and asking the important question: why are penis jokes so funny?

Grab a drink and join me for a fun mix of history, psychology, sex positivity, and plenty of laughs as we uncover the surprisingly fascinating story behind the last fling before the ring.

Are you secretly committing bedroom felonies? This week, we're exposing the biggest turn-offs, bedroom icks, and sex mistakes that men and women wish their partners would stop making, based on real surveys, research, and brutally honest confessions. From starfishing to jackhammering, nobody is safe.

Is your libido actually low, or is your brain just overwhelmed?

In this episode, we're breaking down the connection between mental health and sexual health. From stress and anxiety to depression, burnout, and the mental load many of us carry, we'll explore how these factors can impact desire, arousal, and intimacy.

If you've ever wondered why your sex drive seems to disappear when life gets chaotic, this episode is for you. Because sometimes your libido isn't broken, it's exhausted!

This week on Blunt Bitch with Boobs, we're celebrating Independence Day by declaring freedom from red flags, situationships, mixed signals, and the ex who always seems to text at the worst possible time.

From Pontoon Playboys and holiday hookups to White Claws, bad decisions, and summer dating chaos, we're breaking down the biggest dating disasters of the season and how to spot the warning signs before they blow up in your face.

Grab a drink and join me for a patriotic deep dive into red flags, white claws, and blue balls.

These TikTok clowns are branding themselves as pro P*ssy Devourers like it's a career. Listen as Chelsi roasts where they got the massive audacity, the flex culture, and why most couldn't find the magic button with a map and a flashlight. Real eaters don't announce it; they just bury their face. Modern dating is now a horny performance review. Laugh, rage, and start to question every dusty MF you've swiped right on. Listen now, babe.

Let's be honest...most of us got sex education that left out a whole lot of context.

For this Pride Month episode, I'm joined by sexual health educator Kim Adamski to talk about queer sexual history, the influence LGBTQ+ communities have had on modern kink culture, and how community-driven education helped fill the gaps when mainstream sex ed wasn't cutting it.

We talk history, stigma, consent, communication, pleasure, and some of the stories that don't always get the attention they deserve.

It's thoughtful, fascinating, and exactly the kind of conversation that reminds us how much there still is to learn.

Guest: Kim AdamskiWebsite: Kim Adamski, Sexual Health Educator – Sexual health, wellness, and empowermentSubstack: Kim Adamski | Slut Culture | Substack

Episode sources:

LGBTQ+ folks and kink: https://www.researchgate.net/publication/370582976_The_Intersection_of_LGBTQ_and_Kink_Sexualities_a_Review_of_the_Literature_with_a_Focus_on_EmpoweringPositive_Aspects_of_Kink_Involvement_for_LGBTQ_Individuals

Kink and Mental Health: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/all-about-sex/202401/are-bdsm-players-psychologically-healthy

Here's an article about library bans in Connecticut that I was quoted in (You're going to have to put it in reading mode to get around the paywall): https://www.nhregister.com/news/article/ct-library-bills-lgbtq-books-parent-control-20187029.php