Welcome to Part 2 of “Body-Ody-Ody: BFF or Frenemy? Self-Love or Self-Loathe?” Body image is an issue within the gay community…period. It can be a huge barrier in your personal growth, development, and in your capacity to find and keep your gay man. In episode 16, the Matts discuss the 3 toxic things imbedded in the gay culture construct: objectification, comparison, and ageism. Also discussed are the "why” behind our struggle with body image (and the science to back it up,) how social media has compounded this issue for us, what The Matts refer to as “The Comparison Project,” acceptance of the old adage “life isn’t fair,” and the 7 ways for gay men (specifically) to have a better body image.

We go deep on this one. DO NOT MISS THIS EPISODE.

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