In this episode, Carlos and I are back on the couch answering your kinky questions again.

We talk about all things communication, playfulness, sex parties and libido.

Want to learn more about these topics? Head to subinthecity.com to find online workshops and details about in-person events for you to expand your curiosity and get top tips from leading professionals in the field of BDSM.

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In this episode, I share with you the ways in which BDSM & Kink can allow us to welcome in our shadows. Whether it be limiting beliefs, insecurities, fears or shame, I explain how eroticising these feelings helps us take back control and embody our most authentic selves with confidence. I’ll also share with you how to get started or to reflect on how kink is already supporting you to release the beliefs that commonly hold us back in life!

You can download your limits and boundaries checklist for free on my website -  What are your kinky shadows, and how have you brought them into the light? I’d love to know! 

If you found this episode useful, please give it a like and a follow and a review on Spotify goes a long way to helping me spread the kinky love and education. 

Also, if there’s anything you want to hear, or a burning kinky question you’re dying to have answered (it can remain anonymous), then drop me a DM on insta or email me, my inbox is always open. 

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BDSM – an acronym that can sound incredibly intimidating.

In this quick and dirty episode, I talk about the barriers to entry that come with the term BDSM, define what kink actually is, and explore what it truly means to explore the BDSM lifestyle. 

Let’s challenge what we’ve been taught about sex and start to uncover our true desires, bringing those shadows into the light!

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In this episode, I discuss BDSM collars, their meaning, and why we use them. I also touch on the collars I wear, and how you can start to consider using a collar that feels aligned to you in your power play dynamic.

In this episode, I talk about my stainless steel collar that  I got from Him and Her Erotic Steel.  I also speak about my day collar that I got from Creidhne Studio on Esty.

If you'd like to learn more about the upcoming couples retreat, please visit my website.

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In this episode, I am joined by my Dom/fiance as we answer some of your questions about our D/s dynamic and kink in general.  We go into topics such as navigating your kinkiness in dating, long-distance must-dos, coming out about your kinks, working with your cycle in D/s, communication and so much more. We really enjoyed answering these questions and there will definitely be a part 2!

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Welcome back to season 2 of Bonding! In this episode, I open up about my own kink journey, where it began, some of the mishaps and learnings along the way, and give you some of my biggest insights I wish I knew in my early days. I also share how my journey led me to become a BDSM Coach & Kink Educator, AND how letting go of unrealistic expectations led me to find the love of my life. 

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What TF is Conscious Kink? This term “conscious” has become a bit of a buzzword in the spiritual and sexual wellness spaces, but it’s not as intimidating as it sounds! In this episode, I debunk the idea that Kink can’t be conscious, and explain how more likely than not, you’re already practising conscious kink!

Join me for an evening of Conscious Kink in London on Thursday 29th June. 

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Have you been feeling stuck recently? Perhaps your kinky play sessions are not quite hitting the spot or you're feeling uninspired and not sure where to go next? In this episode, I discuss some common roadblocks in BDSM & Kink and how to navigate them. 

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How do you keep things fresh when you’re in a long-distance D/s dynamic? BDSM requires commitment and consistency which means LD dynamics can be difficult to navigate at first. Whether you’re fully LD or you need some tips for when you’re apart from your partner, check out this episode on how to keep the kink alive when you’re not together physically.

Check out my sexy summer event: Cocktails & Kink - Earlybird tickets on sale now!

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Isn’t BDSM meant to be painful? Isn’t the risk all part of the fun? …yes and no. There are so many misconceptions around BDSM and how it should be experienced. In this episode, I debunk some common stereotypes and talk about my own experiences of how these misconceptions are only reinforcing the stigma attached to kink.

Join me on March 16th in the Dungeon for my BDSM Scene Building Workshop.

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