Bonnie After Dark

The day to day for us midnight ballerinas is one for the books. Each scenario we encounter is much different than the next and we dont know what we will see each night. The drama from certain dancersa, or the drama from a customer. Each scenario varies and has its on level of uniqueness. What will you do as a dancer to keep the drama to a bare minimal?

To do or to not do, we ask ourselves this question much more than we care to admit. Judging our own movements and constantly procrastinating can send our brains on a constant whirlwind. Is it fun to be consistently running on that hamster wheel inside of our own heads? Lets focus on what we can do to lead a productive and healthy to do or to not do in our own lives.

When do we consider the feelings of others? Do we stop and take a minute to think about the problems that we may cause with the actions that we are about to take? The effects that our words or actions have on someone can be positive or negative as we know. Lets dig in and discuss different ways to acheive positive outcomes rather than bringing yourself down or the people surrounding you.

There are many different types of men and women out there.... lets dive into ten types of men that may intrigue you and have you take a look or a step back at the relationships that you are currently engaging in!

We live our lives with many different stereotypes... from traditional to by the book stereotypes, they all linger in our lives more than we realize. Sexual stereotypes in relationships are a big one as we tend to stick with what we know and what we are told is okay when we learn who we are sexually. Yet we are never willing to try new things or jump off our regular seats and dive into different sexual roles. Lets dig deeper into sexual stereotypes and how we can put a stop to the views of men and women today!

Now days there are so many websites, so many stores and so many recomendations on where to make a purchase for a new dildo, sexy outfit, lube or accessories. Sometimes just listening to one of your friends choices is not neccesarily going to help. What works for one person and helps them hit that amazing orgasm may not work for the next person. Its not as difficult now days to access different varieties of toys... exploring different options and different websites helps with the crazy amount of choices out there. There are many budget friendly sites to help you find the perfect toy or the perfect gift for someone whos just a little to shy to try it out themselves.

We all find ourselves trying to make decisions on a day to day basis. Some are miniscule and have little to no meaning and some are much more serious. There are steps we should follow in order to make proper decisions, or decisions that will have a greater impact in life and it is important to focus on these decisions on a more in depth level. Using the five steps we discuss in this episode will help you on a day to day, to make proper and appropriate decisions.

Everyone has a comfort zone, everyone has things that bother us but we are sometimes afraid to simply jump out of our comfort zones. From gettting in our vehicles and just driving to that place weve always wanted to seee, to climbing a mountain or simply just leaving the p.o.s partner we cant simply seem to shake. Regardless of what "breaking through" looks like to you it could be as simple as just changing the way you brush your damn hair. Lets see what its like breaking through comfort zones in the entertainment industry as well as in simple day to day life.

The life of an exotic dancer is either frowned upon, or thought of as some form of taboo and its time to discuss the life of us dancers on a deeper level... the pros and cons and a few more details!

Well, well, well... its been way to long but I am not sparing any details in this episode.... lets chat about the gypsy life, how things have been going as a travel dancer in Canada!