In this bonus episode of The Kink Compass, Chris explores what makes a sadist trustworthy, caring, and genuinely exciting to play with. From valuing consent above all else, to understanding pain in all its shades, to offering aftercare that transforms intensity into connection — these ten “green flags” show what healthy sadism looks like in practice. Whether you’re curious, cautious, or already deep in the world of kink, this episode celebrates the artistry and heart that a good sadist brings to the scene.