#075 Think your kink is too weird or too basic? Spoiler: It's probably more common than you think!

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We're uncovering the top 10 kinks that captivate and connect people worldwide. From sensation play to intense power exchanges, we dive deep into what makes these kinks so popular. We also explore role-based dynamics like DD/lg and the broad world of BDSM. Whether you're new to the scene or a seasoned explorer, there's inspiration and insight for everyone. Get ready to discover your next favorite kink!

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#074 Discover game-changing sensation play techniques!

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Ever wondered how to make your BDSM scenes 10 times more intense? Spoiler: it's not about hitting harder or using fancier toys. Dive into this episode where we reveal how sensation play can transform your experiences! Explore contrasting sensations, the magic of slowing down, and creative tools like frozen grapes. Plus, uncover the unexpected power of breath, voice, and sensory deprivation in your play. Get ready to upgrade your BDSM scenes!

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#073 Are you guilty of these biggest BDSM blunders? You're not alone!

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We're revealing the surprises and challenges we encountered when we thought we had it all figured out. Worried you might mess up on your BDSM journey? Tune in now to avoid these common missteps and navigate your dynamic with confidence!

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#072 Can you balance a power exchange with everyday life? What about raising kids in a D/s relationship?

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In this episode, listen in as Alesandra sits down with Auntie Vice on Fat Chicks on Top to talk about BDSM beyond the bedroom. We cover behavior modification, the psychology of kink, navigating D/s dynamics with kids, and why communication is key in a power exchange relationship. Plus, Alesandra shares how she went from Beauty Blogger to BDSM Educator.

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#071 Why do forbidden things turn us on so much? It's not just about pleasure—it's psychology.

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We're unravelling the psychology behind BDSM, exploring misconceptions about trauma, the science of endorphins and dopamine, and the vital role of trust and control. Delve into why anticipation feels so good, the allure of taboo desires, and how kink can serve as emotional release and even healing. Join us and discover what makes BDSM exciting beyond the physical!

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#070 Total power exchange sounds intense, right? But it's not just about control; it's about trust, intention, and freedom.

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Join us as we debunk myths surrounding 24/7 total power exchange (TPE) and share our journey into this fulfilling dynamic. Explore the foundational steps: from education, defining roles and boundaries, to creating contracts and establishing rituals. Learn how TPE can empower both partners through trust and communication. Could this be the missing piece in your relationship puzzle? Follow along and step into your own TPE journey today!

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#069 "When my Dom secured the collar around my neck, it gave me a huge sense of belonging and trust like never before."

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In this episode, we explore the deep meaning of collars in a D/s dynamic, the practical aspects of wearing them 24/7, and the emotional significance they hold. Learn about different types of collars, why Alesandra chose her particular one, and tips for creating your own coloring ceremony. Curious about wearing a collar 24/7? Tune in now for insights and tips on embracing this powerful symbol in your D/s relationship!

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#068 Feeling like the passion in your D/s dynamic has faded? You’re not alone—but you can bring it back!

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We're sharing why losing the spark is so common and the key reasons it happens—like routine overload, lack of communication, and external stress. You’ll learn actionable strategies to reignite the fire, from revisiting your foundation to adding variety and deepening your connection. Plus, you'll get practical tips to overcome common objections and start small changes today.

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In this episode, we're sharing the audio from The 4-Part Framework for Mastering the BDSM Lifestyle. You’ll learn how to build confidence, create deeper connections, and add structure to your dynamic—whether you’re a Dom, sub, or switch. This framework has already transformed so many lives, and now it’s your turn.

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#067 Is it possible to balance love, family, and a Dom/sub dynamic?

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In this episode, we chat with Harlo and Adira, a Dom/sub married couple navigating parenthood, health challenges, and everyday life—all while deepening their 24/7 D/s connection. They share the mindset shifts that transformed their relationship, how they handle challenges like chronic illness, and why communication and contracts are non-negotiable in their dynamic. Whether you're just starting out or looking to strengthen your dynamic, this episode is packed with real-life advice and inspiration.

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