#079 Who's got it tougher in a D/s dynamic, Dominants or submissives?

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We're tackling this hot topic, and it might just surprise you. We're getting into the nitty-gritty, highlighting the weight on a Dom's shoulders—like planning and managing emotions—and the trust and mental hurdles subs navigate. Whether you're leading or letting go, there's a lot to consider! Got an opinion? Tune in and join the friendly debate.

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In this episode, we're sharing the audio from 3 Keys to Creating a Killer D/s Dynamic. You’ll learn how to build confidence, create deeper connections, and add structure to your dynamic—whether you’re a Dom, sub, or switch. These steps have already transformed so many lives, and now it’s your turn.

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#078 If you don’t trust your own Dominance, your submissive won’t either.

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Confidence isn’t about being loud or forceful—it’s about presence, control, and certainty. In this episode, you’ll learn how to command attention without overcompensating, use body language to reinforce your authority, and lead in a way that makes your submissive feel safe, secure, and deeply connected to you.

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#077 After 10 years of experience in the BDSM lifestyle—teaching, coaching, and living it 24/7—here are 50 game-changing BDSM tips in just 15 minutes!

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Whether you’re new to the scene or a seasoned kinkster, these insights will help you navigate power exchange, play, communication, and more. Hopefully, at least one of these tips will be a game changer for you!

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#076 Is your bondage routine feeling a bit stale? By the end of this episode, you'll be itching to try something new.

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Alesandra and Jay dive into the world of bondage from last year's Dom/Sub Dynamics Summit. They chat about everything from ropes and cuffs to the psychological side of things like power play. Whether you're new to bondage or a seasoned pro, there's something here for everyone. Plus, learn how bondage can bring you closer and boost your dynamic. Listen now and transform your BDSM journey!

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#075 Think your kink is too weird or too basic? Spoiler: It's probably more common than you think!

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We're uncovering the top 10 kinks that captivate and connect people worldwide. From sensation play to intense power exchanges, we dive deep into what makes these kinks so popular. We also explore role-based dynamics like DD/lg and the broad world of BDSM. Whether you're new to the scene or a seasoned explorer, there's inspiration and insight for everyone. Get ready to discover your next favorite kink!

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#074 Discover game-changing sensation play techniques!

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Ever wondered how to make your BDSM scenes 10 times more intense? Spoiler: it's not about hitting harder or using fancier toys. Dive into this episode where we reveal how sensation play can transform your experiences! Explore contrasting sensations, the magic of slowing down, and creative tools like frozen grapes. Plus, uncover the unexpected power of breath, voice, and sensory deprivation in your play. Get ready to upgrade your BDSM scenes!

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#073 Are you guilty of these biggest BDSM blunders? You're not alone!

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We're revealing the surprises and challenges we encountered when we thought we had it all figured out. Worried you might mess up on your BDSM journey? Tune in now to avoid these common missteps and navigate your dynamic with confidence!

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#072 Can you balance a power exchange with everyday life? What about raising kids in a D/s relationship?

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In this episode, listen in as Alesandra sits down with Auntie Vice on Fat Chicks on Top to talk about BDSM beyond the bedroom. We cover behavior modification, the psychology of kink, navigating D/s dynamics with kids, and why communication is key in a power exchange relationship. Plus, Alesandra shares how she went from Beauty Blogger to BDSM Educator.

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#071 Why do forbidden things turn us on so much? It's not just about pleasure—it's psychology.

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We're unravelling the psychology behind BDSM, exploring misconceptions about trauma, the science of endorphins and dopamine, and the vital role of trust and control. Delve into why anticipation feels so good, the allure of taboo desires, and how kink can serve as emotional release and even healing. Join us and discover what makes BDSM exciting beyond the physical!

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