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Why do so many women lose interest in sex—and why is the blame so often placed on them?

In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, Annette is joined by Dr. Trina Read to unpack what women are really saying when they say, “I just don’t want sex anymore.”

We talk about:

• Why low desire is often a reasonable response, not a personal failure
• How pressure, routine, and male-centric sex shut down arousal
• What’s happening in the body and mind during long-term relationships
• Why orgasms alone don’t guarantee satisfying sex
• Small, practical shifts that help women reconnect with desire

This episode is for:

• Women questioning their libido
• Partners who want to understand what’s beneath the surface
• Anyone tired of being told to “fix hormones” instead of fixing the experience

By the end of this conversation, you’ll have a clearer, shame-free framework for understanding women’s desire—and how to start changing it.

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In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I’m breaking down three specific positions that are more orgasm-friendly by design—because they support anatomy, nervous system regulation, and clitoral engagement instead of rushing straight to penetration and hoping for the best.

And I want to be clear right from the start:
 This episode exists because my audience voted for it.

Every week, I run a poll on my YouTube channel where you help decide which how-to I cover next.
 If you want a say in future topics, make sure you’re subscribed on YouTube and signed up for my e-newsletter—that’s where the voting happens.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• How angle, pacing, and connection dramatically change orgasm likelihood
• Three positions that support female orgasms without relying on speed or force
• How to use eye contact, sensual touch, and clitoral stimulation without breaking flow

This episode is for women, their partners, and anyone tired of feeling like orgasms are random, rare, or out of reach.

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We talk about blowjobs like they’re a performance — like there’s a “right way,” a secret move, or something you’re supposed to magically know.

But most advice doesn’t actually make oral sex feel better.
 It just makes people anxious.

In this episode, I’m joined by Girls Gone Deep for a real, explicit, shame-free conversation about giving oral sex that actually feels incredible — without porn scripts, pressure, or performative nonsense.

We talk about:
 – Where confidence actually comes from
– Why enthusiasm matters more than technique
– Communication during oral (yes, during)
– Givers vs receivers: etiquette, consent, and boundaries
– Rhythm, variety, and why switching it up matters
– Circumcised vs uncircumcised anatomy
– Positions that make oral easier (and hotter)
– What people get wrong about “being good at it”

This episode is explicit, honest, and deeply sex-positive — meant to help you enjoy giving and receiving without anxiety or shame.

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Foreplay shouldn’t feel inconsistent.

If you’ve ever taken your time and still felt like her body wasn’t fully responding — this episode is for you. And if you’ve ever wanted to be into it but felt tense or distracted instead, this one’s for you too.

In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I break down 9 foreplay moves most guys skip — not because they don’t care, but because no one ever taught them how arousal actually works.

We’ll talk about why foreplay “sometimes works,” what’s really happening in the nervous system when desire shuts down, and how to lead her body into arousal without rushing, pressure, or performance.

This isn’t about tricks or trying harder.
 It’s about pacing, presence, and learning how to keep desire open instead of overwhelming it.

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In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, we explore why solo pleasure is becoming a major cultural shift—and how it’s actually improving partnered sex, not replacing it.

Joined by Sarah Tomchesson, Certified Intimacy Coach and Director of Marketing at Magic Wand, we break down insights from the 2026 Sexual Wellness Trends Report based on data from 1,000 participants. The findings reveal how solo sex supports desire, confidence, nervous system regulation, and deeper intimacy with partners.

We cover:

• Why solo sex is increasing across generations
• How pleasure-focused practices improve partnered sex
• Why orgasm isn’t the goal—and why that leads to better sex
• Simple ways to start a solo pleasure practice that supports real connection

This conversation blends culture, science, and real-life experience to reframe pleasure as a powerful tool for better sex and stronger relationships.

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Losing an erection during intimacy is far more common than people admit — but what you do next is what actually defines great lovers.

In this episode, I walk you through exactly what to do when an erection is lost, how to stay confident and connected in the moment, and how to continue sex in a way that still deeply satisfies her.

Because sex isn’t penetration-based — it’s presence-based.

This is a grounded, science-informed how-to that shows you how to:

• Respond calmly instead of panicking when arousal drops
• Stay erotically present instead of pulling away
• Shift the moment so intimacy doesn’t collapse
• Redefine sex beyond penetration
• Satisfy her in ways that women actually remember

We’ll also talk about why pressure shuts arousal down, how adaptability builds desire, and why confidence isn’t about performance — it’s about leadership in unexpected moments.

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This episode is for anyone who wants to feel more confident, connected, and unforgettable in bed — even when things don’t go exactly as planned.

If this helped reframe something for you, consider sharing it with someone who needs to hear it.

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Every January, men promise to fix their bodies and stop worrying about performance in bed. But what if trying harder is actually the problem?

In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, we dive into the 2026 Sex Reset for Men with sex and relationship coach Caitlin V, host of Good Sex on Discovery+ and HBO Max, and author of Harder, Better, Longer, Stronger.

We explore why performance anxiety disrupts confidence, arousal, and connection, how the nervous system plays a bigger role than most men realize, and what actually helps men feel confident and present in bed again.

This episode is for men ready to move out of performance mode—and for partners who want better, more connected intimacy in 2026.

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Most people think they know how the clitoris works.
 They don’t.

In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I break down the one clit move that quietly kills orgasms—and the simple shift that changes everything.

We’re talking about why overstimulation backfires, how the nervous system actually responds to touch, and what creates arousal that builds instead of shuts down.

If orgasms feel inconsistent, muted, or harder to reach than they used to be, this episode will change how you think about pleasure.

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In 2022, I made a decision that changed my life.

I committed to 365 Days of Orgasms — and what began as a personal experiment became a radical return to pleasure, embodiment, and self-trust.

In this episode, I’m inviting you into a new version of that journey for 2026:

365 Days of Orgasms: Pleasure Is the Resolution.

This is not a challenge.
It’s a daily pleasure practice and an erotic journey designed to help you reconnect with your body, your desire, and your sense of aliveness — without pressure or performance.

*Throughout the year, we’ll explore:
*Orgasm as awareness, energy, and emotional release
*G-spot, A-spot, and blended pleasure pathways
*How desire returns when the body feels safe
*How pleasure deepens confidence, creativity, and connection
*How erotic energy expands into the rest of your life

This journey is designed for Everyone.

Here’s all you need to do:

Subscribe to this podcast and follow me on social media — that’s where I’ll be sharing daily guidance, reflections, and weekly practices.

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Everything for the journey will live there.

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Starting January 1, 2026, simply check in once a day for the next 365 days.

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Clear guidance.
Gentle practices.

✨ Come with me every day this year. ✨

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When sex starts feeling like work, it’s not because desire is broken.

It’s because the body has learned to brace.

In this episode, I teach a five-minute pleasure practice that helps the body relax out of performance mode and back into genuine arousal — without pressure, goals, or trying to “make” anything happen.

This is the exact kind of practice I’ll be guiding inside 365 Days of Orgasms, my upcoming daily pleasure journey for 2026.

You’ll learn:

• Why many women stop wanting sex even when attraction is still there
• How goal-oriented touch shuts arousal down
• The nervous-system reason sex starts to feel draining instead of nourishing
• A simple, repeatable five-minute practice you can do solo or with a partner
• How steady, non-demanding touch helps desire return naturally
• Why this approach trains partners to become better lovers without learning more “moves”

This practice is especially powerful if sex has started to feel heavy, pressured, or avoidable — or if you’ve noticed pulling away, shutting down, or feeling disconnected when erotic touch begins.

You’ll also hear how this work becomes the foundation for deeper pleasure, internal arousal, emotional release, and embodied connection inside 365 Days of Orgasms — a year-long invitation to explore pleasure without pressure.

No performance.
 No fixing.
 Just five minutes of touch the body can actually receive.

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Because pleasure doesn’t come from trying harder.
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