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Content note: this episode discusses sexual violence and assault.

We all absorbed a set of ideas about women and sex so early we never thought to question them: that women want it less, that desire fades with age, that if it hurts, that’s just how it is. Most of it came to us dressed up as fact, and most of it is quietly wrecking our sex lives.

This week I sit down with Natasha Sinjanovic, an award-winning journalist, former NPR producer, and creator of the podcast Women Like Sex, who decided to actually fact-check the myths about female sexuality and hold them up against the evidence. Together we unmask nine of the sex myths women are still taught, where they come from, why they’re false, and what believing them is costing all of us in the bedroom.

In this episode, we debunk:

• Whether women really want sex less than men (and where that story actually came from)
• The “men can’t control themselves” myth, and the real harm it does
• Why sex is not inherently violent, no matter what we’ve been taught
• Whether the vagina or the clitoris is actually the sex organ
• The damaging myth that sex is supposed to hurt
• Whether “internal orgasms aren’t normal” holds up (it doesn’t)
• And more, including the truth about virginity

This one went somewhere I didn’t expect, and it may be the most important conversation I’ve had on this show. Because these myths don’t stay in our heads, they walk into the bedroom with us, and you can’t have the sex life you want until you name them.

Want the full breakdown of all nine myths, with the evidence that debunks each one? Read the complete guide on my website:
 🔥 9 Sex Myths About Women That Are Wrecking Your Sex Life

Guest: Natasha Sinjanovic, host of Women Like Sex. Find her at womenlikesex.com and @WomenLikeSex.

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If your bedroom has gone quiet, settled into the same couple of moves on the same couple of nights, the fastest way back to heat isn’t a new position or a new toy. It’s fantasy. This week I’m giving you real, do-it-tonight tools for exploring fantasy together: how to figure out what your fantasies actually are (even if your honest answer right now is “I don’t know”), how to share them in a way that feels safe instead of scary, and a whole menu of low-pressure ways to start playing together.

In This Episode, I Mentioned CHEEX.
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CHEEX is a sexual wellness platform where you can explore pleasure, desire, and sexuality in an open, aesthetic, and shame-free space. From beautifully made content to genuine sex education, CHEEX is built to help you discover what turns you on and feel good about it. New customers can try the annual membership free of charge for 7 days using my code. There’s no minimum term, you can cancel anytime, and you can choose the annual membership that fits you. And it’s the perfect companion to this episode, because CHEEX brings together everything you need to explore fantasy together in one place:

• Films , ethical, high-quality visual content you can watch side by side to discover what lights you both up.
• Audio , erotic audio stories to listen to together when you’d rather let someone else’s voice set the scene.
• Pleasure Academy , real sex education and courses to help you learn, grow, and bring new ideas into the bedroom.

So as you work through today’s steps, CHEEX is a genuinely great tool for that “explore it together” part, watching, listening, and learning side by side with zero pressure.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• Why fantasy is the fastest way to reignite desire in a long-term relationship
• How to find your own fantasies, even if you’ve never been able to name them
• How to have the conversation “with your clothes on” so it feels safe, not high-pressure
• How to build a no-judgment container so your partner actually opens up
• A full menu of low-stakes ways to explore together, from erotica to audio to scenes

Want the full written guide, plus all my other resources on dirty talk, kink, and keeping desire alive? Read the complete guide on my website:
 🔥 How to Explore Fantasies With Your Partner (and Reignite Desire)

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Think a dom is just leather, whips, and someone kneeling on the floor? You’re missing almost everything.

Dominance isn’t one thing, it’s a whole spectrum, and this week I’m decoding all of it with Amanda Dames, better known as The Kink Consultant: a certified somatic sex and relationship coach, certified sexologist, and former professional dominatrix who’s been featured in Cosmopolitan and Women’s Health. Together we break down every type of dom so you can finally figure out which kind you are, or which kind you’re looking for. (And I’ll be honest, this one got personal, because I’m on my own search for my dom right now.)

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• What actually makes someone a dom (hint: it’s not the whip)
• The real difference between a dom and a top, and a dom, domme, and dominatrix
• Every type explained: caregiver, master/mistress, sadist, primal, soft dom, service dom, disciplinarian, findom, and pleasure dom
• Why the “daddy/mommy dom” dynamic is so misunderstood (and usually has nothing to do with age play)
• How to figure out which kind of dom is authentic to YOU
• Where to actually find a dom, and the green flags and red flags to watch for

Whether you want to be a dom or find one, you’ll walk away knowing exactly what lights you up, and how to go get it.

Want the full breakdown, every type explained in detail, plus how to find your match? Read the complete guide on my website:
 🔥 Types of Doms: Every Kind of Dominant Explained

Guest: Amanda Dames, The Kink Consultant, @The_KinkConsultant on Instagram.

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What gets you off probably isn’t nearly as rare as you think.

We’re halfway through Kinktober, so this week I’m pulling back the curtain on the 10 most common kinks, from the mild to the wild, with real science-backed research along the way. I’m talking BDSM, foot fetishes, cuckolding, exhibitionism, furries, sploshing, sensory deprivation, medical play, age play, and yes, balloon-loving looners. Some of these will surprise you, some will make you laugh, and at least one will probably make you feel a lot more normal than you expected.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• Which kink tops the list (and why it’s not even close)
• The surprising research on why foot fetishes are wired into the brain
• How some of the most “taboo” kinks actually strengthen relationships
• The real numbers behind what people fantasize about, from the largest study of its kind
• Why having a kink is normal, and good for you

Whether you’re into bondage or balloons, you are not alone, and there’s probably a study explaining exactly why you’re into what you’re into.

Want the full breakdown with all the research, every kink explained, and how to start exploring yours safely? Read the complete guide on my website:
 🔥 The 10 Most Common Kinks (and the Science Behind Them)

And if you want to explore your own kinks or figure out how to bring them to a partner, my intimacy coaching books are open, learn more at https://talksexwithannette.com.

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Your sex life isn't broken, it's just gone quiet. And quiet is fixable.

This week I'm handing you an actual plan: a 31-day sex challenge to reignite desire, reconnect, and get curious again, no dramatic overhaul, no painful heart-to-heart, just one small, low-pressure invitation at a time. My guest is Alicia Sinclair, a certified sex educator with nearly 25 years in intimate wellness, founder and CEO of COTR (the company behind B-Vibe and Le Wand), and 2026 XBIZ Sexpert of the Year. Together we built you a real calendar you can follow, one nudge a day.

In this episode, we break down:

• Why sex goes quiet in long-term relationships (hint: it's almost never the love)
• The biggest mistake couples make when they try to spice things up, and how it backfires
• The yes/no/maybe list: the single best place to start when you're in a rut
• How to share a fantasy, or receive one, without shutting each other down
• How to bring in toys and novelty without feeling overwhelmed
• How to map a whole month, from conversation to sensation to power play to blending it all

Whether you've been together fifteen years or fifteen days, you'll have somewhere to start tonight, and a whole month mapped out after that. Most days cost nothing. All of them are low-pressure.

Grab the full 31-day calendar, every prompt, plus the toys and discount codes we mention, right here:
 🔥 How to Fix a Dead Bedroom: The 31-Day Sex Challenge (Full Guide + Calendar)

🔥  BDSM Checklist: 107 Kinks and Limits to Rate With Your Partner

Guest: Alicia Sinclair, @aliciasinclair. Her brands: B-Vibe, Le Wand, Cowgirl, and Together Toys.

Grab my codes and every toy we talk about in my e-newsletter at talksexwithannette.com. My listeners should never pay full price for their pleasure. Until next time, I'll see you in the locker room. Cheers.

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Yes, nipple orgasms are real, and you can learn to have one.

This week I'm breaking down the nipplegasm: a full orgasm, felt in the genitals, that starts entirely from nipple play. I had my first one through my own self-pleasure practice, so everything here comes from real experience plus the research. No gear required to start, and it works on any body with nipples.

In this episode, I break down:

• What a nipplegasm actually is, and the brain science that makes it possible
• The step-by-step: setting the mood, warming up, and massaging the breasts right
• How to touch a nipple like a clit, circling, rolling, tapping, and more
• The training method I used to teach my body to climax from nipple play alone
• The toys that make it easier, from hands-free suckers to suction toys
• Why it's okay if nipple play isn't for you

By the end, you'll know exactly how to have, or give, a nipplegasm, and have a whole new way to orgasm in your toolkit.

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 💦 How to Have a Nipple Orgasm (The Full Guide)

More from my clitoral pleasure set:
 💦 20 Ways to Touch a Clit
💦 How to Touch Her Breasts

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Most people think dominance and submission means a dungeon full of gear, and they never get past the shopping list.

This week I'm showing you the part that actually builds the heat. This is a foundational episode with power-exchange couple Auntie Carmen, the Desire Midwife, and her dom Linwood, the "dom domestic" who cooks, runs the house, and hands the power right back to her. You almost never get both halves of a real D/S couple in one room being this honest, and they hold nothing back (there's a zucchini story you won't forget).

In this episode, I break down:

• Why the feeling you're chasing matters way more than the gear, and how to name it
• How to figure out what you actually want, even if you always say "I don't know"
• The everyday rituals that keep the dynamic running all day long, no toys required
• Dominance through service, and how to flip who's in charge
• Why this is the fix for sex that's started to feel like one more job
• The golden rules: consent, building slow, and never a cold spank

By the end, you'll have a real on-ramp into power exchange instead of a scary idea you never act on, and it's landing just in time for Kinktober.

Want to see the full conversation? The video version is on my website, and you can grab every toy, lube, and discount code I mention in my e-newsletter at talksexwithannette.com. My listeners should never pay full price for their pleasure. Until next time, I'll see you in the locker room. Cheers.

Guest: Auntie Carmen, the Desire Midwife, Find her at: https://shameproofyourdesires.com/
Insta: @shameproofyourdesires.
The Masterclass: https://midcenturymischief.com/

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• 🔥 How to Build a Dom/Sub Dynamic Into Everyday Life (The Full Guide)

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Most people know exactly one way to touch a clit, and they run it into the ground.

This week I'm giving you twenty. This is the third in my clitoral pleasure set, right alongside my fingering guide and my yoni massage guide, and now that I'm off YouTube I get to be completely direct with you. No code, no tiptoeing, just the real, explicit how-to, from the softest warm-up all the way to the finish.

In this episode, I break down:

• The indirect moves that get her off without ever touching the clit directly, including how to do it through her clothes
• The direct strokes worth knowing by name: orbiting, broadening, the Hail Mary, tapping, grinding, rolling, and accenting
• The one skill that separates a partner she tolerates from one she can't stop thinking about
• The lubes and toys I actually recommend, and where a good vibrator changes the game
• How to read her and stage every touch so she finishes, instead of hammering one move and hoping

By the end, you'll have a full toolkit instead of the one move you've been repeating, and you'll know how to give her the kind of orgasm she reschedules her whole week for.

Want to see these demonstrated? The visual version of this episode is on my website, and I demo several of them live over on my OnlyFans. Grab my discount codes and every lube and toy I mention in my e-newsletter at talksexwithannette.com. My listeners should never pay full price for their pleasure. Until next time, I'll see you in the locker room. Cheers.

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• 💦 20 Ways to Touch a Clit (The Full Guide)
• 💦 How to Finger Her (The Fingering Guide)
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Curious about male chastity but have no idea where to start? This one's your guide. My resident dominatrix Lucy is back, and for the first time she's on camera showing the gear, to walk us through Locktober: the month-long challenge of keeping a cock locked up.

We get into what male chastity actually is, why people love it (more affection, more anticipation, and yes, more chores getting done), and the part most people rush: how to choose a cage that actually fits without hurting anyone. Lucy breaks down the different cage types, the safety rules that are non-negotiable, keeping a key accessible, building up wear time slowly, watching for warning signs, and all the playful ways to keep both partners satisfied for a full month, from sheaths to teasing to handing over control for the day.

Whether you're cage-curious or ready to lock up for the whole month, you'll leave this episode knowing how to do Locktober safely and actually enjoy it.

In this episode:

• What male chastity is and why couples try it
• How to choose a cock cage that fits (and why fit is a safety issue)
• Cage materials, from beginner plastic to surgical steel
• The safety rules you don't skip
• What to do all month besides wait
• How to start if you're brand new

Watch the full episode and read the complete guide at talksexwithannette.com.  Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/advice/kink-bdsm/locktober-male-chastity/

Want the full video and written guides? Read them here:

• 🔒 How to Try Male Chastity (The Full Guide): https://talksexwithannette.com/advice/kink-bdsm/how-to-try-male-chastity/
• 🔒 The Male Chastity Buying Guide: https://talksexwithannette.com/advice/kink-bdsm/male-chastity-buying-guide/
• 🔒The benefits of Male Chastity with Lilith: https://talksexwithannette.com/advice/kink-bdsm/benefits-of-male-chastity/

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What if the hottest thing he could do for you was not come?

That's the whole dare of Locktober, and this week I'm walking you through male chastity from the ground up. It's one of the most misunderstood kinks out there, and also one of the most magnetic, because when you stop treating his orgasm as the finish line, sex turns into a shared playground and a whole lot of couples say they've never felt closer or more connected.

This one's for the curious on both sides of the lock: the person thinking about wearing the cage, and the one who wants to hold the key.

In this episode, I break down:

• What chastity actually is, and why it's erotic power exchange, not punishment
• The science of staying turned on: why denial keeps desire high instead of killing it
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