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In this episode, we’re breaking down exhibitionism — why being watched can feel exciting, how to tell if it’s your kink, and simple ways to explore it without making things awkward.

I’m joined by Laura Desiree, creative director of Sanctum and a powerful voice in performance and desire. We cover:

✨ What exhibitionism really is
 ✨ Why being seen can amplify pleasure
 ✨ Signs it might be your kink
 ✨ How to try it safely (solo or partnered)
 ✨ Tips for beginners, from mirror work to first-time events

If you’ve ever been curious about being watched—or just want to understand the psychology behind it—this is your Exhibitionism 101.

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Want to be the best she’s ever had… without needing a big anything?
You’re not alone. Most men secretly worry about size, performance, or whether they measure up to her past partners. But here’s the truth:

What makes sex unforgettable has nothing to do with what you were born with — and everything to do with what you do with it.

In today’s episode, I’m breaking down the real skills that make you her top-tier experience:
 ✔ rhythm
 ✔ pressure
 ✔ body reading
 ✔ psychological arousal
 ✔ confidence without ego
 ✔ and the technique every woman wishes more men knew

If you want deeper connection, better feedback, more confidence, and sex that she remembers… this is the episode to watch.

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Why are boyfriends suddenly embarrassing? A recent piece by Vogue titled “Is Having a Boyfriend Embarrassing Now?” sparked a global reaction, pointing out that some women are now hesitant to post their partners, claim relationships publicly, or even say “boyfriend” without flinching. 

In this episode, I chat with sex + relationship coach Sienna Sinclair about what’s really behind this trend. 

We explore:

• Why boyfriends may feel like a “brand risk” now
• The emotional labour and identity loss behind the trend
• What it says about visibility, desire & modern relationship expectations
• How to know if your hesitation is a red flag — or a signal for change
• And how real baddies post about their men

If you’ve ever thought “Why do I feel weird saying ‘boyfriend’ out loud?”, or you're a guy wondering why you haven't made her Gram — this episode is your answer.

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On today’s episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I’m answering one of the most common questions I get from men:

“How do I get my partner to want intimacy again — not out of obligation, but because she actually desires me?”

The truth is this:
 Most women don’t open from direct sexual touch.
 They open from nervous system activation, emotional attunement, and how your hands move across their body before anything intimate happens.

This episode gives you the exact four-minute blueprint for how to touch a woman so her body softens, melts, and naturally opens to deeper intimacy.

You’ll learn:
 • Why women disconnect when touched too quickly
 • The 3 zones that unlock feminine desire
 • The 4-minute sequence that warms her open
 • What to say to deepen trust and connection
 • How safety and presence create arousal

This method is for the men who are tired of feeling rejected…
 for the couples who miss the electricity they once had…
 and for anyone who wants deeper intimacy that doesn’t feel forced.

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Grindr isn’t just a hookup app—it’s where identity, secrecy, and desire collide. In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I sit down with Zach Zane, author of Boyslut and the official Sex & Relationship Expert for Grindr, to talk about what’s really happening on the world’s most infamous app.

We’re diving into the truth about discreet profiles, married and “straight” men exploring in secret, and how Grindr has evolved from quick meetups to a space where love, power, and vulnerability all play out in real time.

Zach also shares what bisexuality looks like inside gay spaces, how cruising culture started, and the surprising ways queer men are using Grindr to find connection, community, and even long-term partners.

If you’ve ever wondered who’s actually on the grid—and what it reveals about men, shame, and modern desire—this one’s for you.

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You know that moment when you think she’s into you… but you’re not sure?
Or maybe you’ve been with your partner for years and you’re wondering—does she still want me like that?

In this episode, I’m breaking down the three subtle, science-backed signs that show when attraction is real—and exactly how to respond when you see them.

This isn’t pick-up artist nonsense. It’s real neuroscience, psychology, and connection.
 Because desire doesn’t always use words—it shows up in breath, body language, and timing.
 When you know how to read those cues, you can stop guessing and start creating the kind of connection that leads to real, lasting intimacy.

You’ll learn:
 💫 How her body gives away attraction before she even realizes it
 💫 The difference between comfort, curiosity, and chemistry
 💫 What to do when she mirrors your energy, touches you, or locks eyes
 💫 How to turn subtle signals into opportunities for genuine connection

By the end, you’ll know how to read her body language with confidence—without being creepy—and build the kind of trust that reignites chemistry in any relationship.

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You want to bring toys into the bedroom… but every time you try, it feels awkward, forced, or like it kills the vibe. So the toys go back in the drawer and you go back to “just us” — even if “just us” has started to feel a little routine.

In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I’m joined by Kate Cova (In Bed With Kate) — sex educator, product developer, and one of the most trusted voices in the pleasure product world. Together, we break down exactly how to use sex toys without making it weird, and how to turn them into foreplay that actually brings you closer.

Whether your partner is hesitant, you’re scared of making it awkward, or you’re just tired of guessing what goes where, this episode gives you the language, the mindset, and the toy ideas to start tonight.

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If you’ve ever “faked it” just to wrap things up faster — you’re not alone.
 But what if your body could learn to create the kind of deep, full-body pleasure you’ve been pretending to have?

In this episode, I’ll show you how to train your pleasure rhythm — the real key to unlocking authentic, lasting orgasms. You’ll learn how rhythm shapes connection, syncs partners physically and emotionally, and helps your body respond naturally to real sensation.

I’m demonstrating it using the Kiiroo Fuse, a smart dual-stimulation vibrator with built-in touch sensors that respond to depth and pressure — helping you feel, not fake, your pleasure.

✨ You’ll learn:
 • Why rhythm is the secret to full-body pleasure
 • How to use breath and movement to deepen arousal
 • How to sync your rhythm with your partner (even long distance)
 • Why practicing with tech can make you better at real-life intimacy

This is about connection — not performance.
 When you train your rhythm, you train your body to feel again.

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In this episode we’re diving into Group Sex 101: The Real Rules That Keep It Hot (and Safe).

So you finally got the invite: the group chat is buzzing, the lube is packed, and you’re ready for your first play party, threesome, or poly adventure. But before you dive in, do you actually know how to keep it sexy and safe?

In this episode, I’m joined by Milla Impola, condom and lube expert from ONE® Condoms, to talk about what really goes down behind the scenes — from STI safety and testing to consent, communication, and pleasure tips that make group play fun, drama-free, and unforgettable.

We’ll cover:

• How to set boundaries that keep everyone turned-on and respected
• The lube and condom combos that actually work for group play
• How to stay safe without killing the mood
• What to look for in a play party (and red flags to walk away from)

This isn’t your high-school sex ed. It’s the real-world guide to adventurous, safer, more connected pleasure.

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Not all orgasms are created equally.
There’s a world of difference between a quick release… and the kind of deep, full-body orgasm that makes her melt into you. And here’s the kicker: it’s not about going harder or faster.

In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I’m breaking down how to create deeper, more connected pleasure through rhythm, pressure, and body awareness. We’ll cover what most people get wrong when they try to “go deep,” the science of how the body responds during arousal, and step-by-step techniques to help your partner experience more intense, unforgettable pleasure.

This is part two of last week’s episode on how to read her body—but this time, we’re going deeper. Literally.

✨ What you’ll learn:
• Why “harder” isn’t the answer
• The science behind deeper sensation and vaginal tenting
• How to use rhythm and angle to your advantage
• How to read her body for real-time feedback
• The one mistake that kills deeper pleasure—every time

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