Get ready for a tantalizing episode as we’re back with some steamy stories and candid insights! Jason and Amber come to the sexpartment to share the thrill of driving past places tied to past rendezvous and sparking “what if” thoughts about the butterfly effect of life-changing years. Whether it’s picking up someone at a bar, choosing the right app for your area, or ripping the band-aid off with a dance floor make-out, we emphasize there’s no one “right way” to navigate this lifestyle—think gas and brake to balance desire and caution. We’ll dish on confidence boosts after kids, playing with different body types and heights, and another trimix guy’s tale. The guilt of not feeling guilty when getting more playing time as well.

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After Amber’s jaw-dropping confession about her fling with Ben, G and Nessa bare all about their own past affairs! G reveals how innocent flirting spiraled into a less than steamy hotel room encounter with his best friend’s wife. Nessa dishes on her secret year-long romance with a co-worker. One got caught red-handed—guess who?—while the other’s partner remains in the dark.

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Drew and Amber return to dig deeper into their episodes "Enough" and "Soup" where Amber is caught cheating with her sexy gym partner "Ben".  When Drew wakes up early, he calls Amber to say good morning.  When Amber doesn't answer, her location shows that she is not where she was expected to be and Amber's cover story quickly unravels as Drew finds a year of sexual messages on Amber's computer.  Is a strong lifestyle relationship able to survive this breach of trust?

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Our first guests of season 5 are Drew & Amber from the Love with a Twist podcast.  The stop in to tell us all about how they got started in the lifestyle.  Drew has a lot of old flings that are eager to get a piece of him and Amber.  A threesome hook up in Vegas, then a random outreach beings them into the lifestyle.  The even share a few of their favorite moments as well!

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Season 5 begins and we start this season a little different.  After 4 years of shining a bright light on the lifestyle, we open up about some of the speed bumps we have faced over during our journey.  How much time should you spend in being active?  What should you push your partner to wear?  When should you share an issue with your partner?  And what happens when friends aren't acting like friends anymore?

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Season 4 comes to a close.  We talk about our accomplishments and a few failures we experienced this past year in the lifestyle.  Then we move out to story time.  First, we share our thoughts and some sexy sounds from our first 4some with Nick & Elizabeth.  Then we share the details of a 12 person orgy.  After having trouble recalling details for this experience, we start recording post play car talks and use that to recall a 6 person orgy during the BDSM event at the club. 

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Part two of our season 4 finale has us sharing our final two experiences from back in 2022.  First, we head to our second house party at John & Viv's.  While we both get plenty of sex, it does have a bit of an unexpected ending.  Then, we wrap up 2022 with a bang.  Our New Year's Eve party starts almost as crazy as the house party ended, but after a couple games, we get to listen in on some amazing action!

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As we start to wrap up our 4th season, we rewind one last time to unzip our favorite moments in the lifestyle before we started the podcast.  It's kind of humorous that 4 blow jobs in one night seemed so crazy then, compared to our group play now.  And then we hear how Nessa wanted more cocks, but our journey took a different path.

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Unzipping Ginger and Jose's 2nd episode leads to some much needed discussions around fantasies & squirting.  If you are a guy that likes to modify women's fantasies to meet your own or "make women squirt" you need to listen to this. 

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Unzipping our first episode with Ginger and Jose brings back a lot of fun memories.  What could have happened in Vegas for them, waits until they come to our club.  Some of their stories remind us of how our preparties got started.  

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