2023’s greenest night started with Mr & Mrs. DTW getting a chance to listen in on us recording our episodes with Jim & Elaine.  We then head to a pre-party dinner with Stacy & Brett, Mr & MrsDTW, Jim & Elaine, Echo & Falcon.  Back at the Sexpartment, we change  where sneakers replaced heels before heading to the club. One lap around the club, Echo suggests to a wide-eyed younger couple the magic word: orgy. They might not join, but 10 of us do and Elaine wastes zero time dropping between Nessa’s thighs while Jim’s already tangled with strangers. MrsDTW calls shots like a swinger Spielberg; Falcon rails Nessa while Elaine rides her face. Cross-talk, blindfolds, and the first squirt tsunami hits when Elaine unloads on Jim.  Then G finger-blasts her into a room-crossing geyser that freezes eight other mid-thrust bodies in awe.

Post-nut, the room’s a puddle. The other couple bolts for a shower.  Falcon yanks on G’s boxers, frowns “these don’t feel right.” Echo hand him his own pair and Falcon returns them to G soaked. Underwear swap = official. Back at the bar, Curtis & Racheal, Grant & Morgan, Rock & Mandy, everyone lipstick-smeared and grinding. Ride home with Jim & Elaine in the backseat, crossing birthday fantasies off a very sticky list. 

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In this raw episode we dive headfirst into one of the lifestyle’s most nerve-wracking moments: the day a parent finds out and isn’t thrilled. Kicking off with the real life situation that just happened.  We ask the question, “Do you deny it? Defend it? Or just nod, smile, and change the subject?” 

We explore the emotional tightrope of denial (and why it rarely works long-term), the pitfalls of launching into a full-throated defense (it can backfire spectacularly), and the art of the graceful exit acknowledging feelings without inviting a debate.

Whether you’re newly outed to family, dreading the day it happens, or just want to feel less alone, this episode is a lifeline. Because in the lifestyle, the hardest part isn’t always the play, it’s the people who should love you most.

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In this episode we unzip a recent episode of the Naughty Gym podcast where hosts Scott and April, joined by guest Luna, dive into the art of handling rejection with grace and confidence. They unpack a real-life scenario, where a couple navigates the complexities of propositioning only one partner in a “hot wife” dynamic. The discussion explores whether couple play was always on the table, if rudeness played a role, or if mismatched expectations led to the awkward moment. With practical tips, they emphasize the importance of clear communication, setting realistic expectations, and exercising the “rejection muscle” to handle these situations peacefully without pointing fingers or creating defensiveness.

The trio also digs into the emotional side of rejection, stressing the value of empathy for the other couple and the confidence to say “yes” or “no” without pressure. They tackle the pitfalls of ignoring preferences—like pushing for a threesome when it’s not on the menu—or one partner taking the lead while the other disengages, potentially leaving someone feeling like they’re “taking one for the team.” Scott, April, and Luna share insights on avoiding these traps, fostering mutual respect, and keeping the vibe fun and sexy, even when desires don’t align. Whether it’s learning to handle rejection or setting boundaries with kindness, this episode is packed with advice for navigating those tricky “no, thank you” moments in any dynamic.

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In this episode of Hump Day Quickies : Swinger Confessions, we relive Jim and Elaine’s blindfold fantasy on Jim’s birthday, March 10, 2023, the most meticulously planned swap yet! What started with one drink and steamy makeouts between Nessa and Elaine escalated quickly: spooning neck kisses, Elaine blindfolding G, and Jim’s intense eye contact as he went down on Nessa with Elaine’s vivid play-by-play. Nessa rode Jim cowgirl while Elaine raved to blindfolded G about her perfect ass, leading to doggy-style action, wand-induced orgasms, and a full swap highlight, Nessa eating out Elaine in reverse cowgirl atop G, followed by missionary on the bed. Jim confessed he’s still mastering cumming with anyone but Elaine, and we learned this was their first full swap ever!

The night didn’t stop there, after swapping back due to G’s peroxide mouthwash-induced stomach cramps (which left him puking and sidelined), Jim and Elaine heated up the couch with her rare second-ever squirt. Elaine sat on G’s face, Nessa blew him, and G called Jim over for the “long cock challenge” from behind Nessa, culminating in G’s explosive finish in her mouth. Despite the pain, we chatted for 30 glorious minutes before they left, with Nessa caring for G on the drive home amid more puking and cramps. They returned the next morning to record session 3, episodes 2 and 3.

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Ahoy, mateys! In this sizzling podcast episode, we are back with a story time where we relive our pirate-themed escapade at a lifestyle club, starting with Ariel’s birthday dinner alongside Dominick, Ariel, Echo, Falcon, and new couple Stacy and Brett, whom we connected with online that afternoon and invited on the spot. Tensions bubbled early with Nessa in a funk that Brett’s knee-touching may be irking Dominick, but the group’s vibe carried into the club’s sexy pirate night. Not everyone embraced the theme, yet flirtation flowed from dinner chats. Early exits followed, Dominick and Ariel before midnight due to illness, Echo & Falcon soon after from tattoo pain, leaving the foursome primed. Brett’s bold playroom suggestion and despite no pre-room kisses (which G says would’ve supercharged him), they dove into a two-bed room, shedding tricky pirate costumes.

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This week’s episode of Hump Day Quickies is a wild ride through the inbox as we dive headfirst into listener emails that bring the heat, the laughs, and a few cringeworthy moments. From a candid request about my infamous “sex sounds” to unpacking some hilariously uncomfortable situations, we’re laying it all bare with our signature mix of humor and heart. The listener mailbag never fails to deliver, and we’re tackling your boldest queries with unfiltered honesty, giving you the juicy details you didn’t know you needed.

But that’s not all, we’re also pulling back the curtain on the future of the show, brainstorming fresh ideas and teasing some exciting potential plans that could shake things up. Whether it’s new segments, dream guests, or bold directions for the podcast, we’re dreaming big and inviting you along for the ride. We also discuss some potential live and in person events.  Expect plenty of laughs, a few gasps, and a whole lot of real talk as we connect with you, our listeners, and plot the next chapter of this wild podcast journey!

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In our unzipping of the third episode of Ron and Holly, we dive2 into the awkward, exhilarating, and sometimes noisy world of swinging, unzipping their evolving perspectives on the lifestyle. We kick things off by reflecting on their first-time play experiences, exploring whether that initial plunge is always a clumsy affair or if familiarity with partners can smooth the way. From the cringe-inducing moments of early encounters to the surprising comfort found in knowing your playmates beforehand, we share candid insights on how our opinions have shifted, proving that the swinger scene is as much about connection as it is about chemistry.

The episode takes a spicy turn as they dish on the cacophony of loud, performative sex echoing from other playrooms, sparking both laughter and critique. We tackle the art of curating the perfect group for a night of fun, emphasizing that the right mix of people can make or break the vibe! From navigating awkward moments to chasing redemption in the heat of the night, we keep it light but real, touching on the discomforts and thrills of the lifestyle. With pool parties and underwater antics teased for future episodes, this installment leaves listeners eager for more unfiltered swinger tales.

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We dive back into the electric world of Las Vegas with Ron and Holly, unzipping the juicy details of their second appearance on from Season 1, Episode 14. Holly steals the spotlight with her wild tales of uninhibited Vegas nights, where fun takes center stage, leaving safety-conscious Ron on edge, waiting for that crucial “I’m okay” text. The episode explores the highs and lows of their adventures, from boundary-pushing moments at clubs to unexpected experiences in the couples room, all while navigating the complexities of respect, communication, and trust in their dynamic.

The conversation takes a deeper turn as Ron reflects on feeling disrespected by Holly’s lack of communication, which Nessa is likening to parenting concerns, while Holly owns up to a big regret from her no-rules approach. They tackle topics like the challenges of going solo to a club, the reality of experiences not matching movie-like fantasies, and the absence of an exit word in their encounters. With humor and candor, the episode wraps up with a surprising discussion on glory hole rules and a lighthearted nod to even wilder recent experiences, leaving listeners buzzing about the couple’s evolving journey.

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After a fun group dinner, the Mardi Gras party cranked things up before a steamy playroom experience with a Michigan couple turned up the heat even more.

This week on Hump Day Quickies, we rewind to season 1, episode 11, revisiting Ron and Holly’s first visit to the “sexpartment.” The episode dives into their unconventional journey, exploring how a threesome helped them heal from infidelity, alongside discussions about “relationship chicken” and the thrills of people-watching at a sex club. From Ron’s quip about not claiming to be the best without delivering to their playful challenge of naming three Beatles, the couple’s chemistry keeps the conversation lively and engaging.

The episode also touches on deeper themes, like the validation of hearing others compliment your partner’s allure, and teases unanswered questions about Holly’s past infidelity and a threesome with the wife of the man she cheated on Ron with, leaving listeners hungry for more context. Ron and Holly’s vibrant presence extends beyond the podcast, as they’re now lighting up X with their new account, mooseymcmooseface, where they’re incredibly active. The episode wraps with a fun nod to their outfits, adding a flirty flair to their candid reflections. Packed with humor, heart, and a touch of mystery, this revisit sparks curiosity and sets the stage for deeper discussions.  And did someone say Vegas???

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This week we dive into a role-played lifestyle coaching session with Lauren Hayes, exploring the rollercoaster of emotions that come with navigating lifestyle choices. From emotional sovereignty to the challenges of lifestyle compromises, Lauren guides us through the complexities of managing feelings like joy, sadness, and jealousy. We discuss the power of “parts work,” drawing parallels to the movie Inside Out, to understand how our inner characters shape our experiences. Lauren’s insights on using “I felt when” statements instead of “you made me feel” offer a fresh perspective on emotional communication, while her recommendation to revisit rules and boundaries before dating separately provides practical tools for smoother transitions. Though this session was a blend of real issues we’ve heard from others, the role-play format kept things light, don’t worry, we’re not actual role-players! 😄 The episode wraps up with a nod to transformative retreats, leaving us eager for more sessions on navigating these emotional transitions.

We also unpack the courage and consideration it takes to confront unhealthy patterns in our lifestyles, spotlighting how the lifestyle has taught us to unlearn deeply ingrained beliefs from religious upbringings and societal programming. Lauren highlights the importance of check-in styles, whether it’s lying in bed together, holding hands, or even taking a break mid-conversation, and how these practices can make or break emotional connections. While the session ended smoother than reality often does, we touch on the raw challenge of defining a bad experience as just that: bad. We even ponder what a Catholic Inside Out character might look like and whether parts work could help us retell our stories with fresh clarity. This episode is packed with thought-provoking moments, practical advice, and a reminder that lifestyle dilemmas require ongoing reflection and boundary-setting to keep the journey fulfilling.

You can find Lauren Hayes at www.swinginglifestlyecoach.com

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