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Tuesday Talks: How to Shoot Your Shot with Dan and Lacy | Episode 131

Ever wondered what the best way is to approach Dan and Lacy about playing together at a lifestyle event? This week on Tuesday Talks, a listener writes in with that exact question!

Dan and Lacy share what it's really like balancing their roles as event hosts with their personal lifestyle experiences. When they're hosting an event, their schedules are packed, making it difficult to find time to play. But when they're attending someone else's event, the odds might be a little better!

They also offer advice on how to approach them in person, why face-to-face connections are often the best way to get their attention, and why you probably won't find them spending much time chatting on lifestyle apps.

Whether you're hoping to connect with Dan and Lacy or simply want tips on approaching other couples in the lifestyle, this episode is all about making connections, reading the room, and understanding that timing is everything!

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A Weekend of Remembrance: Honoring Brandon of iCandy Events | Episode 267

In this heartfelt episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, Dan reflects on a weekend dedicated to honoring the life and legacy of Brandon from iCandy Events, a beloved member of the lifestyle community whose unexpected passing sent shockwaves through the people who knew and loved him.

While Lacy was unable to attend the celebration of life at Secrets Hideaway due to her son's homecoming, both Dan and Lacy felt it was important that one of them be there to pay their respects and show support for Brandon's family and the community.

Despite organizing similar events within the lifestyle, Brandon and his wife had always welcomed Dan and Lacy with open arms. Rather than viewing them as competition, they offered friendship, encouragement, and even mentorship, demonstrating the kind of unity and support that makes the lifestyle community so special.

Dan shares his experience attending the celebration of life, reconnecting with familiar faces, and coming together with others in the lifestyle to share memories, celebrate Brandon's impact, and honor the connections he built throughout his life.

This episode is a reminder that the lifestyle is about so much more than parties and events. It's about genuine friendships, lasting relationships, and a community that comes together when it matters most.

Join Dan and Lacy as they remember Brandon, reflect on his legacy, and celebrate a life that touched so many.

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Tuesday Talks: Anal Sex — Pleasure Without the Pressure | Episode 130

This week on Tuesday Talks, a listener writes in with a question for Lacy about her newfound love of anal sex! While she's interested in exploring it herself, she admits that concerns about pain, cleanliness, and simply getting out of her own head have made it difficult to fully relax and enjoy the experience.

Lacy opens up about her own journey from hesitation to enjoyment, sharing what helped her feel more comfortable, confident, and excited about exploring anal play. From preparation and communication to finding the right mindset, Dan and Lacy discuss how to take the pressure off and make the experience more pleasurable.

Plus, Lacy explains why she believes anal pleasure is something worth exploring if you're curious and comfortable giving it a try!

Tune in for an honest, playful, and educational conversation about overcoming fears, discovering new pleasures, and exploring what feels good for YOU!

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From the Pulpit to the Playroom: A Pastor & His Wife Tell All | Episode 266

In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, Dan and Lacy welcome back a former pastor who previously shared his journey into the swinging lifestyle. But this time, he's bringing his wife along to share her side of the story!

Together, the couple opens up about what happened when their involvement in the lifestyle was exposed within their church and eventually to their families. They discuss the emotional fallout, the challenges of navigating judgment and rejection, and what it took to begin rebuilding their lives on their own terms.

In an unexpected twist, they reveal how the swinging lifestyle introduced them to the very things they had always hoped to find within the church: genuine acceptance, unconditional support, and a strong sense of community.

They also discuss their journey into creating content on OnlyFans, the important role therapy has played in their healing and personal growth, and how embracing the lifestyle has helped them become more confident, connected, and comfortable with who they truly are.

This episode goes far beyond swinging. It's a powerful conversation about breaking free from expectations, reclaiming your identity, and discovering that sometimes the most meaningful connections are found in the places you least expect.

Tune in for an honest conversation about faith, relationships, vulnerability, self-discovery, and finding the freedom to live life authentically.

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Tuesday Talks: Squirting Without the Stress | Episode 129

This week on Tuesday Talks, Dan and Lacy are answering a listener question about something that can be exciting, unpredictable… and occasionally a little messy: squirting.

The listener explains that she has squirted during sexual experiences before, but she doesn’t feel like it’s something she can completely control. At some lifestyle events, she’s noticed designated play areas specifically for people who squirt in an effort to keep other play spaces a little drier. That leaves her wondering: Can you actually learn to control when you squirt? And if you know you might squirt, are you expected to only play in those designated areas?

Dan and Lacy share their thoughts on navigating squirting in lifestyle spaces, from communicating with play partners and being prepared to understanding your own body and respecting the rules of the venue you’re visiting. They also offer practical tips for making play more comfortable without feeling embarrassed or like you have to avoid certain experiences altogether.

Because sometimes the best way to handle a potentially messy situation is with a little preparation, communication…and a towel nearby.

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Secrets Part 2: Group Play, Motorbunny & Closing Down the Club | Episode 265

The Secrets takeover continues! In Part 2, Dan and Lacy pick back up with Friday and Saturday night at Secrets Hideaway Resort — and things definitely escalated.

They recap a night in the Secrets Playroom with a big group of friends, where the fun turned into some very memorable group play. Lacy somehow ended the night having played with seven guys, officially beating Dan’s total of six women… and yes, they have plenty to say about that.

The next day, it was time for the pool party, complete with games, friends, plenty of energy, and the return of the Motorbunny. Lacy also takes a moment to address some criticism she received about not mingling enough during the event and shares her perspective on balancing hosting responsibilities, friendships, and actually getting to enjoy the takeover herself.

Then Saturday night brings the weekend to a close as the group shuts down the club and makes the most of their final night together.

The episode ends on a more meaningful note as Dan and Lacy give a special shoutout and tribute to a friend who was lost far too soon — remembering them, the impact they had, and the importance of appreciating the people and moments that make this community so special.

From wild playroom stories and poolside chaos to honest conversations and an emotional goodbye, Part 2 wraps up one unforgettable weekend at Secrets Hideaway.

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Tuesday Talks: Fantasy, Fear & Finding Balance | Episode 128

This week on Tuesday Talks, Dan and Lacy tackle a listener question about exploring a fantasy while navigating the very real emotions that can come with it.

A husband writes in explaining that his wife has a fantasy of being dominated more—but they both recognize that his naturally “nice guy” personality makes it difficult for him to fully step into that role. He’s open to the idea of her exploring that dynamic with someone else, but there’s one fear he can’t shake: What if she forms a stronger connection with someone who can fulfill a kink that he can’t?

Dan and Lacy unpack why that fear is completely relatable when opening the door to new experiences. They talk about the difference between fulfilling a fantasy and replacing what you have with your partner, while offering practical ways this couple can explore domination in a way that prioritizes communication, boundaries, reassurance, and their relationship.

How do you give your partner the freedom to explore something they want without letting fear take over? And does your partner enjoying something with someone else mean you’re somehow not enough?

Dan and Lacy get into all of it in this week’s Tuesday Talks.

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Working for the Weekend at Secrets: Part 1 | Episode 264

The Swing Nation is headed back to Secrets! In Part 1 of Dan and Lacy’s recap of the Secrets “Working for the Weekend” Takeover, they’re breaking down the first few days of the trip—from birthday surprises and tiki bar hangs to group play, poolside games, and one unexpectedly vulnerable lifestyle moment.

The weekend starts with a mission: surprise Daphne for her birthday. With Daphne’s room connected to theirs, Lacy gets to work decorating before she arrives. But when a night of hanging out with friends under the tiki bar turns into some late-night group play, the clock starts ticking. Daphne still hasn’t arrived, and Lacy spends the entire play session keeping one eye on Daphne’s location, hoping they can wrap things up and get back to the room before she walks in on her own surprise. Thankfully, the timing works out—barely.

Dan and Lacy also open up about playing with a new couple that night. When the other guy struggles to perform, he handles the situation incredibly well and still makes sure Lacy has a great time. But afterward, he carries some insecurity about what happened and feels like he needs a “redo.” Lacy shares why, from her perspective, there was absolutely nothing to make up for—and why one moment of performance anxiety doesn’t determine whether an experience was good.

Then it’s back to takeover mode as Dan and Lacy host games by the pool, reconnect with friends, and spend another night partying under the tiki hut with the growing Secrets crew.

It’s only the beginning of the weekend, and there’s plenty more to come in Part 2.

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Tuesday Talks: Why You Should Book with the Group | Episode 127

This week on Tuesday Talks, Dan and Lacy answer a question from a couple who chose not to book their Hedo trip with The Swing Nation because they wanted the option to pay the resort directly while still being included in the hosted group.

So why doesn’t it work that way?

Dan and Lacy break down what actually goes into creating a hosted week at Hedo — and why booking through the group matters. The Swing Nation works with a travel partner and receives only a percentage of the bookings made through their group. That revenue is then reinvested directly into the experience, helping cover the extras that make a hosted takeover feel different from an ordinary week at the resort.

Think additional staff, DJs, entertainment, décor, special events, upgraded experiences, and all of the little details that go into creating the atmosphere guests have come to expect.

They also explain why allowing guests to book directly with the resort while still receiving all of the benefits of the hosted group wouldn’t be sustainable — especially when the group is paying to create those extras.

It’s an honest conversation about the behind-the-scenes costs of hosting lifestyle travel, what your booking actually helps fund, and why supporting the group you’re traveling with helps make the experience better for everyone.

Tune in for the full explanation on this week’s Tuesday Talks!

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Jealousy Isn’t the Enemy with Ally Iseman | Episode 263

Jealousy is one of those emotions almost everyone experiences—but in the lifestyle, it can feel like something you’re supposed to have already “figured out.”

In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, Dan and Lacy sit down with Certified Relationship Coach Ally Iseman for an honest conversation about jealousy, envy, and what these emotions can actually teach us about ourselves and our relationships.

Ally breaks down the difference between jealousy and envy and explains that jealousy isn’t just one simple emotion—there are actually four different types, each with its own triggers and underlying needs.

Together, Dan, Lacy, and Ally discuss why jealousy is completely normal, especially in non-monogamous relationships, and why pretending it doesn’t exist—or believing you should eventually “grow out of it”—can actually make it harder to work through.

Ally shares practical advice for recognizing what’s underneath jealousy when it comes up, regulating your emotions before reacting, and figuring out what you may actually be needing in that moment. They also dive into how to bring those feelings to your partner without blame, accusations, or turning jealousy into a fight.

Whether you’re brand new to the lifestyle, have been navigating non-monogamy for years, or simply want to communicate better when uncomfortable emotions show up, this conversation is a reminder that experiencing jealousy doesn’t mean you’re doing anything wrong. What matters is what you do with it.

Tune in for a thoughtful, honest conversation about jealousy, communication, self-awareness, and building stronger relationships in the lifestyle.

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