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Lifestyle Education: Playroom Etiquette 101: Do’s & Don’ts for Lifestyle Events | Episode 187

In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy break down the do’s and don’ts of playroom etiquette at lifestyle events.

From how to ask to join in to knowing when to step back, they cover everything you need to navigate play spaces with confidence and respect. They discuss consent, the importance of hygiene and boundaries, and how to gracefully handle rejection—all while ensuring the best experience for yourself and those around you.

Whether you’re new to the lifestyle or a seasoned swinger, this episode is packed with essential tips and real-world advice to help you make the most of your playroom experiences. Don’t miss this candid conversation on how to keep things sexy, smooth, and drama-free!

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Tuesday Talks – Managing Anxiety in the Lifestyle| Episode 51

In this Tuesday Talks episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, Dan and Lacy tackle an important and often overlooked topic in the lifestyle—anxiety. Caller David and his partner, "Random Girl," reach out to ask how Lacy manages her anxiety while navigating non-monogamy and how Dan supports her through it.

Lacy gets real about her personal experiences, sharing the challenges, coping strategies, and mindset shifts that have helped her embrace the lifestyle with more confidence. Dan offers his perspective on being a supportive partner, communicating through anxious moments, and creating a safe space for both partners to thrive.

Whether you’ve dealt with lifestyle-related anxiety yourself or want to learn how to better support a partner who does, this episode is packed with honest insights, practical advice, and real talk about the emotional side of swinging.

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Lifestyle Stories: Kinky Cabin Adventures – A Wild Weekend in Chattanooga | Episode 186

In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, Dan and Lacy take you along for a steamy weekend getaway at The Kinky Cabin in Chattanooga, TN! Joined by their lifestyle friends, Adventurous4FunCouple, they kicked off the trip with a fun night out at a local gay/drag bar, where they met up with not only their friends but also the owners of The Kinky Cabin. Things took an unexpected turn when a tipsy Dan extended an invitation back to the cabin—leading to a night of fantasy exploration in the dungeon (with a little help from some intimacy gummies) that didn’t wrap up until 4 AM!

After a much-needed recharge, the weekend continued with a content and photo shoot, followed by a Hot Tub TikTok Live and an OnlyFans Live session in the dungeon. From wild nights to behind-the-scenes moments, this trip had it all!

Tune in as Dan and Lacy share the juicy details, unforgettable memories, and maybe even a few surprises from their Kinky Cabin adventure! 

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Tuesday Talks – Finding Pegging Partners in the Lifestyle | Episode 50

In this Tuesday Talks episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, Dan and Lacy dive into another round of listener questions—this time tackling a topic that doesn’t come up every day! A caller who goes by Hard Cock 74 reaches out looking for advice on how to find females in the lifestyle who are into pegging. He shares his frustration about how strap-on play between women is widely accepted in the swinging community, but when it comes to women pegging men, it seems much harder to find.

Dan and Lacy break it all down—why this dynamic might be less common, how to approach the conversation with potential partners, and tips for finding like-minded people who share this interest. Whether you’re curious about pegging or just love hearing real and unfiltered discussions about the lifestyle, this episode is sure to be both insightful and entertaining!

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Lifestyle Stories: Miami Heat: Inside Our Sugar & Spice Takeover at Club Miami Velvet | Episode 185

In this steamy episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, Dan and Lacy take you inside their unforgettable Swinger Society Sugar & Spice Takeover at Club Miami Velvet! The weekend kicked off with a visit to their good friends and favorite photographers, Wings of Glory, in Orlando—where a sizzling couples' swap unfolded on camera after an incredible photoshoot.

From there, Dan and Lacy headed to Miami, making an important stop at I Know My Status Lab with Stacy to get tested and film a behind-the-scenes YouTube video showcasing the entire process. Then, it was full steam ahead as they hosted one of their hottest club takeovers yet! Despite a hectic start scrambling to set up and film a club tour, the team pulled everything together just in time for an electrifying night at Club Miami Velvet. With DJ Life of Spice and Cereno setting the vibe across multiple dance floors, the energy was off the charts. And yes—Dan and Lacy even found time to slip away for some playtime with a few of their favorite couples.

The weekend didn't stop there! Saturday brought a sun-soaked beach party at Miami’s legendary Haulover clothing-optional beach, followed by an epic night at the club that lasted until 5 AM. Tune in as Dan and Lacy share all the wild details, behind-the-scenes moments, and unforgettable memories from this incredible Miami takeover! 🔥🎉

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Tuesday Talks: Holding Out or Missing Out? The Struggle to Find a First Swap | Episode 49

In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy dive into another "Tuesday Talks" segment, where they tackle listener questions with honesty and experience.

This week, Wendy calls in to share her frustration after a year in the lifestyle without finding her first swap. She and her husband are committed to not "taking one for the team," but they’re struggling to find a couple where mutual attraction aligns. Wendy fears that forcing the experience just to check a box could lead to resentment.

Dan and Lacy offer their advice on managing expectations, redefining attraction beyond just physical looks, and focusing on trust and connection as key factors in chemistry. They explore how prioritizing genuine vibes over rigid standards can lead to more fulfilling experiences in the lifestyle. If you’ve ever felt like the stars just won’t align, this is an episode you won’t want to miss!

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Lifestyle Education: The Truth About GLP-1 Weight Loss Drugs in the Lifestyle | Episode 184

In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy sit down with Dr. Stoehr, a gynecologist specializing in pelvic and sexual pain, sexual dysfunction, and the intersection of medicine and alternative sexual lifestyles.

Together, they dive into the explosion of GLP-1 weight loss drugs in both society and the lifestyle community. Dr. Stoehr shares her personal journey of losing over 100 pounds using these medications and the success stories she’s seen with her patients. But it’s not all smooth sailing—Dan, Lacy, and Dr. Stoehr also break down the risks, side effects, and important considerations for those thinking about using these drugs.

Whether you're curious about how weight loss can impact confidence, attraction, and play in the lifestyle or just want to know more about these trending medications, this is an episode you won’t want to miss!

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Tuesday Talks: Struggling to Find an Orgy? Justin’s Dilemma | Episode 48

In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy dive into another Tuesday Talks segment, where they tackle listener questions with honesty and humor.

This week, Justin writes in, frustrated with lifestyle dating sites and struggling to find the motivation to travel an hour each way to his nearest club. He wonders if he’ll ever experience another orgy again—or if the lifestyle is just too much work. Dan and Lacy break down the challenges of meeting lifestyle connections online versus in-person, share tips for maximizing opportunities, and offer advice on keeping the excitement alive.

Tune in for a candid discussion on making the lifestyle work for you—without burning out!

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Sex, Drugs & Swinging: What You Need to Know with Ashley Manta | Episode 183

In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy sit down with Ashley Manta, a certified sexologist, award-winning pleasure & intimacy coach, and the creator of the term CannaSexual—the practice of mindfully combining sex and cannabis to enhance intimacy and pleasure.

Together, they dive into an open and honest conversation about drug use in the lifestyle, exploring the most common substances, their potential benefits and risks, and the impact they can have on consent, health, and safety. They discuss how different substances affect judgment, communication, and play experiences—and most importantly, how to navigate these situations responsibly.

If you’ve ever wondered about the role of substances in the lifestyle, how to stay safe while exploring, and what mindful consumption looks like, this episode is a must-listen!

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Tuesday Talks: Using the Dick Shot in the Lifestyle – Do’s & Don’ts | Episode 47

In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy dive into another "Tuesday Talks" segment, where they tackle listener questions with honesty, humor, and real-world advice.

This week, a listener named "Bent" calls in with questions about the stigma surrounding performance-enhancing injections like Trimix. While many are familiar with pills like Viagra, Bent wonders how women and other men in the lifestyle feel about injectable solutions for erectile performance. Is there judgment? What’s the etiquette around using Trimix in play settings?

Join Dan and Lacy as they break down the myths, share insights from the lifestyle, and offer advice on navigating performance anxiety with confidence. Whether you're curious about Trimix or just want to hear a candid conversation about sexual health in the swinging world, this episode is a must-listen!

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