This week, Florence is joined by the ultimate love duo — Asa and David, relationship coaches, partners, and parents, who are keeping it raw, real, and ultra practical when it comes to long-term love. From mismatched libidos to conflict spirals, morning routines to raising a baby, they’re spilling the kind of advice that makes you go, “Oof… why didn’t anyone tell me this sooner?”

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This week, Florence and Reed are joined by the powerhouse that is Sangeeta Pillai — creator of the award-winning Masala Podcast, author of her new book Bad Daughter and unapologetic queen of smashing South Asian taboos. From sex and shame to pleasure and power, we’re diving into the cultural scripts that shape us — and how to rip them up (with love, sass, and maybe a vibrator or two).

Sangeeta shares her journey growing up in a world of silence around sex, discovering her own voice, and now amplifying thousands of others through fearless conversations. We’re talking generational trauma, reclaiming pleasure, and why breaking taboos isn’t just radical — it’s healing.

Expect laughter, honesty, and more than a few “oh sh*t” moments as we ask: how do you rewrite the rules when your culture says “don’t even talk about it”?

Curious f**kers, whether you’ve battled shame yourself or just want inspo to live louder, this one’s going to hit deep.

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What happens when you trade “the one” for the many? This week, Reed is joined by sex educator, writer, and all-round babe Alice Lovegood to unpack the messy, magical, and oh-so-human shift from monogamy to polyamory.

We’re talking first steps, jealousy wobbles, compersion (yep, that’s a thing), and the realities behind the fantasy of “having it all.” Alice opens up about their own journey - from monogamous beginnings to thriving in poly love - with all the juicy highs and awkward lows along the way.

Expect real talk on navigating boundaries, building trust, and finding freedom in choosing a relationship style that actually fits.

Whether you’re poly-curious, monogam-ish, or still side-eyeing anyone who has more than one toothbrush in their bathroom, this one’s for you, curious f**kers.

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Green-eyed monster? Babe, we’ve been there and this week, Florence and Reed are dragging jealousy out of the shadows and into the daylight. From obsessively stalking your ex’s new boo to side-eyeing your partner’s “just a friend,” we’re spilling our rawest confessions, messiest moments, and the tips that actually help you stop spiralling.

We’re talking envy vs jealousy, ex etiquette, and why sometimes (don’t lie) you like it when your partner gets a bit possessive. Plus, how to handle friends who trigger you, why boundaries are inward not outward, and the little tricks that stop obsessive thoughts in their tracks. This isn’t just “don’t be jealous” nonsense - it’s honest, unfiltered, and yes, a bit unhinged.

Whether you’re in a monogamous bubble, navigating non-monogamy, or still creeping your ex’s sister’s Instagram… this one’s for you, curious f**kers.

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It’s time to talk about… PARENTING & PORN.

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It’s time to talk about… SUBMISSIVE MEN. 😈

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This week, Florence and Reed get curious about how our social wiring plays into horniness, hookups, and sexual satisfaction.

From voice notes and sex parties to social burnout and sober raving, they’re unpacking how your being an introvert or an extrovert might just be linked to your sex life, libido, dating style - and yes, even how much you orgasm.

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It’s time to talk about… BREAKUPS.

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This week, Reed is joined by her ultra-creative, beautifully-queer sister Flynn for an unfiltered heart-to-heart convo about growing up side-by-side, navigating sex and privacy in a shared household, and the surprising overlaps in their kinky little brains. Think BDSM, tentacle kinks, tickling obsessions, and the sweet, sensual power of a backstroke.

They get real about sisterhood dynamics, the trauma of shared childhood bedrooms, the secret art of masturbating in silence, and the emotional gymnastics of being parentified daughters. Plus: why Flynn might be your fave new creative crush — she designs gorgeous sets for Babestation, crafts chainmail necklaces, paints murals, makes rugs, and probably solves jigsaws faster than you cum!

This one’s got all the juicy bits: identity, intimacy, inherited shame, and what it’s like to explore your sexuality while trying not to think about your sibling doing the same...

So settle in. This is Come Curious like you’ve never heard it before — tender, raw, freaky, and full of sisterly care.

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It’s time to talk about… KINK.

Blindfolds, bondage, being a gang bang princess — this episode is dripping with all things freaky. Florence and Reed are diving clit-first into their favourite topic ever: kink. From tickle fetishes to golden showers, degradation to dentist gloves, it’s a wild ride through the buffet of BDSM and beyond.

They’re taking the ultimate kinky quiz, swapping filthy stories (shoutout to the sushi date turned “Mommy Dom” moment), and giving you the lowdown on how to explore your kinks safely — whether you're a seasoned switch or a curious newbie with a fresh pair of handcuffs.

Consent, safe words, self-pleasure tips, kink shame spirals — it’s all here. Plus, loads of listener confessions that prove: you lot are DIRTY. And we love to see it.

So… how kinky are you, curious f**kers? Get your ropes ready. Let’s find out.

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