We're back!

After a whirlwind few months, Florence and Reed reunite to share some huge life update and trust us, a lot has happened.

Florence opens up about her traumatic birth experience, from preeclampsia and induction to the realities of labour, recovery and becoming a mum. Meanwhile, Reed spills the tea on ending a dishonest situationship, finding a healthy new polyamorous relationship, and what dating has taught her about attachment, communication and vulnerability.

The pair also dive into some of the biggest stories affecting sexual health right now, including NHS policy changes impacting trans healthcare, breakthroughs in endometriosis and PCOS research, and why menstrual products are finally being tested with real blood.

Plus, they answer your questions on:

Sex and intimacy after having a baby

Maintaining connection during major life changes

Dating, honesty and ethical communication

Talking about penis size before sex

Women's health research and medical advocacy

Raw, funny, emotional and completely unfiltered - this is Come Curious catching up on everything you've missed.

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This week on Come Curious, Reed sits down with kink theorist, power exchange mentor and educator Tripp Terrier to unpack one of the most misunderstood roles in BDSM: the dominant.

Together they explore why true dominance isn't about control, arrogance or entitlement but instead, it's about presence, responsibility and service.

Tripp shares his unique perspective on power exchange, explaining how authority is earned through knowledge, patience and skill rather than demanded through status or ego. They discuss the importance of integrating every part of yourself including the feminine and more uncomfortable aspects of your personality, and why self-awareness is one of the most powerful tools a dominant can develop.

Inside the episode:

- Why dominance is a giving role, not a taking one
- The difference between confidence and entitlement
- How power exchange can become deeply transformative
- Why consent is more complex than a simple "yes" or "no"
- The role of humility in healthy masculinity and leadership
- Supporting partners through subdrop and emotional vulnerability

Tripp also shares his essential reading list for anyone curious about kink, including The Topping Book and The Bottoming Book by Janet Hardy and Dossie Easton, alongside The Heart of Dominance and The Dominance Playbook by Anton Fulmen.

Whether you're dominant, submissive, curious or simply interested in healthier models of masculinity, this conversation offers a fascinating look into power, connection and personal responsibility.

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Ever feel like everyone else is having mind-blowing Os while you're still trying to figure out what all the fuss is about? 

In this solo episode, Reed dives into one of the most common questions in seggs: why can orgasms feel so difficult to reach? 

From cl"toral Os and G-spots to nipple Os, footgasms and everything in between, Reed shares her own experiences navigating pleasure, performance pressure and learning what actually works for her body. 

She explores the biggest O blockers — including stress, overthinking, hormones, shame, medication and unrealistic expectations — and explains why chasing an O is often the fastest way to stop one from happening. 

Plus, she tackles: 

💦 Why faking Os helps nobody 

🧠 The mind-body disconnect that kills pleasure 

🔥 How solo play can transform partnered seggs 

✨ What our Curious Fckers revealed about their O habits 

⚡ The difference between pleasure and performance 

Whether you O every time, rarely get there, or are still figuring out what works for your body, this episode is a reminder that pleasure isn't one-size-fits-all.

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Is being single actually lonely… or are we just taught to fear it?

AND it's a Watershed episode meaning our Patreon's get the secret second half where Reed goes in deep on fantastic sx stories… and the disappointing dates.

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M4sturbation May is officially here, and Reed is diving deep into the art of pl3asuring yourself.

From shame, fantasy and corn habits to discovering what actually makes your body feel good, this solo episode is an honest, hilarious and deeply relatable guide to self-pleasure.

She explores why “bigger” isn’t always better, how knowing your size can transform seggs, and why orgasms should never feel like a performance.

Plus, this episode is sponsored by The Bad Peach - your one-stop shop for toys, lingerie, b0ndage and all things solo pl3asure. Use code ComeCurious20 for 20% off your order and start building the pleasure toolkit you actually deserve.

Inside the episode:

– How shame impacts m4sturbation and 0rgasms

– Why corn taught Reed the wrong techniques

– Learning your real size preferences (and unlearning corn myths)

– Toys, wands, d*ldos, suction toys & discovering what works for your body

– The importance of fantasy, mood-setting and self-exploration

– Why mutual m4sturbation can completely change partnered seggs

Come get curious 💦

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Is being single really freer? 

Is marriage actually boring?

And does your sex life have to change once you settle down? 

This week on Come Curious, Florence and Reed unpack the assumptions we make about relationships, sex, and happiness — and why neither married nor single life is as simple as people think. 

From pregnancy libido changes and emotional intimacy to loneliness, rejection, freedom and validation, the girls get brutally honest about what their current realities actually look like. 

They also dive into your listener confessions about: 

– Dead bedrooms and relationship ruts 

– Ethical non-monogamy and opening things up 

– Why communication changes everything 

– How chronic pain, stress, kids and life impact intimacy 

– The pressure society places on both single and married people 

Plus, the episode is sponsored by Feeld celebrating their’s new Reflections feature — a tool designed to help you better understand your desires, boundaries, relationship style and sexual authenticity. 

Check it out here: https://feeld.co/reflections

And follow Feeld on IG @feeldco

Because whether you’re single, partnered, married, exploring, confused, horny, lonely or somewhere in-between… there’s no “right” way to build a fulfilling sex life. 

Come get curious 💫

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What does it actually mean to be a “better man” today?

This week on Come Curious, Florence is joined by Jerry Xzeng for a powerful conversation about masculinity, identity, and the pressures men are facing right now.From the rise of red-pill culture to the quiet crisis of male loneliness and mental health, they unpack why so many men feel lost and what needs to change.

Jerry shares his personal journey growing up in a traditional household, how he’s redefined masculinity on his own terms, and why emotional accountability is at the heart of being a better partner, friend, and human.

They also explore:

– The impact of toxic online spaces on young men

– Cultural expectations and masculinity across different backgrounds

– Why awareness is the first step to change

– Rethinking responsibility in relationships (including Jerry’s decision to get a vasectomy)

This episode is honest, nuanced, and an essential listen for anyone thinking about what masculinity could - and should - look like today.

Come get curious 💫

online and check out his series on IG about Being a Better Man IG: @jerryxzeng

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Tickling… but make it kinky?

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What does it actually mean to be a man in the kink scene?

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This week on Come Curious, Florence and Reed dive headfirst into your dirtiest, most unhinged, and secretly-held confessions — and let’s just say… we were not prepared.

From:

Golden showers & cum curiosities

CNC fantasies & breeding kinks

Sock fetishes & used shoe obsessions

Watching yourself back for pleasure

Fantasies that feel better than reality

And the question… are we all just a little bit queer?

We also get real about shame, desire, and where they collide and why your fantasies don’t define you (but they do deserve exploring).

Plus, Florence opens up about pregnancy, body changes, and feeling finally at home in her body - while Reed shares a very honest “get f*cked” about performative sex and Viagra culture.

This episode is chaotic, validating, shocking, and weirdly comforting because no matter how “dirty” your secret feels… you are definitely not alone.

Come get curious 💫

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