This week, the girls go deep on an often (in their experience) overlooked and underused play option: fingering! Pulling from listener polls, friends, research and their own experience, Elle and Vee share all the juicy details of every aspect of fingering that they could come up with. Did they miss anything? 

Fingering: yay or nay?

Foreplay: Stimulating around the hole before insertion.

How many fingers at first?

Self-pleasure: Do you use fingers during masturbation? 

The Technique: in and out vs in and using the come hither fingers?

Which fingers? Spiderman technique or pointer and middle?

Fingers as the main event vs as foreplay, and formative sexual experiences with fingering. 

Squirting: the technique, and what makes it pleasurable. 

Using fingering to orgasm after penetration.

Looking at potential partners’ fingers and nails. Using gloves, and lube with gloves. 

Fingering an asshole: during doggy style, and prostate play.

Fingering poll results and final nuggets!

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What Is ISTA SSSex Level 1 Retreat? (00:00)

The Intensity of Emotional Processing.  (07:25)

The Importance of Slowing Down. (13:38)

Elle’s Reasons for Going to ISTA. (21:07)

Masculine and Feminine. (27:00) 

No Expectation of Tantra and Sexuality as a Sacred Experience. (28:55)

People Pleasing vs Listening to Your Body's Signals. (33:44)

Shadow Work: Elle’s Revelations Around Social Anxiety. (37:00)

Triggers as Gifts: Feminine Connection. (40:08)

How Elle will take her takeaways into her relationship with Her Partner Going Forward. (48:47)

Embodied Practices: Dancing into Femininity. (52:03)

Working through Feeling Disconnected at a Play Party. (55:00)

Tantric Latihan. (1:00:54)

Final nugget. (1:17:46)

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This week, the girls chat with Marz, who is the copilot of Top Floor, a curated members-only community for those embracing alternative relationship dynamics, kink, and sex-positive exploration. They give all the top tips from the Cunnilinguistics workshop Marz facilitated in which Vee was the demo model for cunnilingus, despite her aversion to exhibitionism!  

What is cunnilinguistics? (3:14)

Normalizing Different Vulvas: Vee works on her pussy insecurities. (6:20)

What to expect from a Friday night at Top Floor as part of their Signature Weekend. (13:25)

Doing it Scared: Going Deep on Vee’s “immersion therapy” to get comfortable with her pussy and exhibitionism. (18:12)

What are some pointers for honing in and receiving in a play party environment? (22:03)

Rimming: licking the vagina hole. Communicating what you do and don’t like. (25:44)

The scientific reason to embrace receiving. (29:49)

Tips for getting out of your head while receiving. (35:09)

Communication tips while receiving at a play party. (40:30)

Pro tips: communication and safety. (43:32)

Pussy licking tips: give them an "oral flight"! Tongue techniques and rhythm. (51:31)

Fingering while performing oral: how many fingers, and nail hygiene (length and cleanliness). (54:59)

Safety: using gloves to finger and condoms during head? (57:42)

Top Floor highlights and naughty stories! (59:48)

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Navigating the Lifestyle: Starting out as a Manicorn (00:00)

Hot Wifing vs. Cuckolding (4:54)

The Role of the Third: Enhancing Couples' Experiences & Feelings of Loneliness (6:44)

Lessons Learned: Mistakes as a Single Guy (10:32)

Transitioning to a Couple: Finding Balance in the Lifestyle (15:35)

Is it easier to make connections with a hot chick on your arm now? (17:57 )

Age is just a number! Cougar’s and Silver Foxes Who Know What They Want (22:13)

Boundaries: Sleep Overs and Romantic Dating (23:05)

Gangbang Group Operation Detailed and Casual Encounters on Craigslist(29:59)

Gang Bang Psychology: Why Participate(40:00) 

Being Selective with Cream Pies and More (42:47)

Navigating Swinger Events as a Couple  (45:49 )

Tips for Single Guys in Swinging (49:34)

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This week, the girls don't hold back in this uncensored chat about ejaculating in the vagina and the ass! From the drip to the taboo nature to the benefits of being fluid bonded with a partner, listen in for some x-rated and deep reflections on cream pies. 

Elle’s “perfect porn pussy” and toilet paper mishaps. (00:40)

Cream Pies: Vee and Elle’s first times and experience level with it. (5:18)

Dripping semen: a sexy naughty reminder of a hot scene or a gross gush in the middle of the workday? (9:15)

Fucking on your period, and cream pies mixing with period blood. (11:12)

Mess on our own terms: do you prefer cumming inside or outside the pussy? (17:23)

What we like about cream pies. (20:04)

Getting the cum out after sex. (23:43)

Eating cream pies out of pussies. (29:43)

Friends’ stories: hot wife, sloppy seconds. (32:21)

Anal cream pies. (38:12)

Friends’ stories: cream pie before a first date. (41:58)

Friends’ stories: hot positions. (44:41)

Considerations before having sex without a condom. (46:28)

Friends’ stories: taking a new partner’s cum, dirty talk. (50:17)

Pussy aftercare: recommendations from Dr. Sexy! Elle is a holistic health practitioner with her own practice, and gives advice for keeping your vaginal microbiome balanced and healthy pre- and post- play time. (54:55)

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Cleo’s story: tantric certification; somatic approach to sex love and relationship coaching. (0:40)

Somatic Embodiment Practices: How do we uncover our blockages through somatic work? The felt sense. Can you do this work in couples too? (4:19)

Erotic Blueprints: Sexual, Sensual, Energetic, Kinky, Shapeshifter; and how erotic blueprints can change throughout life and depending on the partner. (9:49)

Light and shadow sides of the blueprints, and the challenges of a monogamous relationship. (16:46)

Do tantra and non-monogamy go hand in hand? Creating a safe container with a partner. (20:07)

Why work with men? (25:17)

Masculine vs Feminine Energy: what comes naturally to masculine vs feminine, and how we can allow each other to be soft. (31:56)

Getting vulnerable: The cock-heart connection, and allowing yourself to let go in front of witnesses. (36:28)

Being in your Masculine vs Feminine: the culture of toxic masculinity creating fear to step into the masculine energy. (44:04)

The intersection of tantra and BDSM. What is conscious kink? (49:46)

Final nuggets! (55:36)

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In this episode, Elle and Vee catch up on their December adventures, focusing on their experiences with friends and breastmilk, parenthood, BDSM and spreading assholes. Welcome to the ride! 

Chapters

Cancun, three Babies and A Hotel room. (00:00)

What That Breast Milk Do? A Gameshow of Breast Milk Play. (4:20) 

Navigating Parenthood and Intimacy.  (14:55) 

Fear of Missing out: Vee’s FOMO evolution and Connecting in Relationships. (20:30)

New Experience at SNCTM Replay: Ball Gag, Sobriety and Exhibitionism.  (31:13)

First Date Fister: Vee gets fisted on a first date. (44:01) 

D/S Scenes: feeling vulnerable when spreading your ass. (52:01) 

Empowerment Through Saying No vs Feeling Guilt. (55:54)

See our Instagram story for polls from this episode! If it is after release day, you can still join in on the conversation. See highlight "Polls".

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In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with the founder and "co-pilot" of Top Floor, "an upscale play party and community free of pretense" in Manhattan. 

“No Takers”: What does this ethos mean? What does Top Floor look for in their guests? 

Premium Upscale Vibe = Premium Pricing? The community of volunteering and serving the vibe of the party. 

Guiding Principles of Top Floor.

Friday night mixer/workshop.

History of Top Floor and what you can expect.

BDSM and Equipment available: what’s an orgasm tower?!

How do you inhabit the lifestyle? How do you experience the parties?

Serenity Room: what is it? Why is it needed at a party like this?

How the curation of the party is in service of creating moments of "flow". 

What does this space mean to you in your personal growth journey? Overcoming shame.

Nuggets: compersion, first time pegging.

Mandatory STI Testing for the party, and privacy policies. 

Website: Top Floor - apply to become a member here.

Instagram: @thetopfloorclub

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In this episode, Elle and Vee recap their friends' holiday party, aka the Naughty Snowball, at which LOTS of naughty fun was had! 

 Themes/dressing for body confidence (especially after having a baby). (2:23)

Prostate play with Daddy: Elle gets a lesson in best practices for milking the prostate, and snowballing cum between five people. (5:22)

Rope 101: Vee uses her beginner rope tying skills on Elle! Finding something to do with your hands during the party, and unlocking your inner domme. Reverse Tension; Square Knot Single Column Tie; attaching rope to rope. (11:55)

Edging scene while being bound. (18:40)

Fisting tips: Vee uses her takeaways from a recent fisting workshop to get wrist-deep with M, two nights in a row. (20:23)

Elle: year of the pussy! Double ended dildo strap-on play. Why Elle loves reverse cowgirl. (29:38)

Anonymity in a large orgy: at small orgies it feels like there's a spotlight on certain scenes. (40:14)

Sexy white elephant gifts: nipple clamps, penis pumps, ejaculating dildo, sexy art, bed straps. (44:11)

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In this episode of Girls Gone Deep, Vee and Elle welcome Amber Grubenmann, a dating coach and host of the Women's Dating and Confidence podcast. (Fun fact: Vee’s dating coach!) Get ready for practical tools, thought-provoking questions, and memorable metaphors to help you master effective, high-quality, confident, and time-saving dating—so you can get what you want.

Chapters: 

Introduction to Amber Grubenmann (00:00)

Vee's Journey with Dating Coaching: Issues with Overthinking and Dating Anxiety (3:15)

Building Confidence for Dating: The Most Common Unintentional Intentions That Leads to Dating Anxiety (8:31)

Understanding Connection Dynamics: Relationships Bringing Out Different Feelings (12:47)

The 10% Guy Concept: Emotional Connected Less Of The Time Yet It Feels So Amazing And The Other 90% You Feel Hurt/Anxious. Does this have a place in non-monogamy?  (17:26)

Community and Friends Support in Dating: Buffer Independence (24:09)

The Importance of Self-Validation in Relationships and Building a Foundation Beyond Dating (28:01)

The Five Elements of Thriving Relationships: The Solution to Pickiness and When To End A Connection (31:42)

Mindset Shifts For Letting Go Of A Relationship: Courage (38.18)

What Does A 2-Date Relationship Or The 3 Month Or 6 Month Connection Have In Common? The Seed Planting Metaphor For Relationship Growth  (42:30)

When You Are Heading In The Wrong Direction With Your Connection

Balancing Fun with Going Deep: Is Small Talk Important? (51:48)

Date Ideas Depends on You: Lower Stimulation Dates Vs Activity (57:24)

Optimizing Dating Profiles: Common Mistakes And How To Start Amazing Conversations. Hear Elle’sand Vee’s! (01:02:19)

Final Thoughts and Key Takeaways (01:16:03)

Find Amber:

• Podcast: Women’s Dating and Confidence Podcast
• Website: AmberGrubenmann.com
• Free Resource: Download Copy-and-Paste Texts for When He’s Pulling Away or Acting Flaky (on her homepage)

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