Brad and Jenni return to join Zack and Josie for a candid conversation about a recent lifestyle party they all attended. What started as a discussion about the event quickly evolved into a deeper look at how different couples navigate attraction, communicate interest, and approach new connections.

The couples compare their personal styles, discussing everything from subtle signals and direct communication to common mistakes people make when trying to express interest. They share what they've found works best, what doesn't, and why clear communication remains one of the most important skills in the lifestyle.

Along the way, Zack and Josie reflect on how much they've grown since their early days in the lifestyle. They discuss becoming more confident, assertive, and intentional while still prioritizing respect, consent, and mutual enthusiasm. Zack explains why he prefers to wait for clear signs of interest before making a move and how that approach has shaped many of their experiences.

The conversation also explores some of the unique challenges faced by newer couples who are still building confidence and learning how to communicate their desires, boundaries, and expectations.

Although the episode was intended to feature all four perspectives equally, Zack and Josie ended up doing most of the talking as they unpacked two memorable play experiences from the party. They walk listeners through how each connection developed, the communication that happened along the way, and the lessons they took from both encounters.

Whether you're new to the lifestyle or have years of experience, this episode offers an honest look at attraction, communication, confidence, and the social dynamics that can make or break a great party experience.

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(00:00:00) Party prep

(00:02:51) Intentions at parties

(00:04:45) Confusing our men

(00:05:47) Hit list

(00:07:51) Acting thirsty repels people

(00:08:34) Pleasantly persistent

(00:17:37) The proposition

(00:20:51) The play experience

(00:24:14) Two directors and two actors

(00:31:21) We let it fizzle and made our escape

(00:35:38) Communication is so important

(00:39:29) We went another round

(00:44:18) That’s a ‘no’

(00:46:48) I want her to take the lead

(00:52:06) Our threesome within a moresome

(00:58:17) The night was interesting

(01:01:08) To be continued…

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Suzie Webster Author Page

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Zack and Josie welcome first-time guests Ed and Sarah to the podcast for a fun and unexpectedly relatable lifestyle origin story. What began as a promotional opportunity for Sarah—a former Playboy model—quickly turned into something they never saw coming when they unknowingly arrived at a lifestyle resort.

After noticing some unusual interactions between guests, a kind older woman finally pulled them aside and explained exactly where they were…and what everyone was doing there. Rather than running for the exit, Ed and Sarah found themselves drawn to the welcoming atmosphere, body confidence, and freedom of simply being “super naked” around friendly, open-minded people.

For several years, that was enough. But on a later trip, an effortless connection with another attractive couple changed everything, leading to their first full swap experience and opening the door to a whole new chapter together.

It’s a story about accidental discovery, organic connection, and how sometimes the lifestyle finds you before you ever go looking for it.

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(00:00:00) Ladies Love Desire Facebook page

(00:02:12) Deer in headlights

(00:03:12) Playboy model turned lifestyle resort promoter

(00:04:36) These people are really friendly

(00:06:28) We got ‘super naked’ at Desire

(00:07:12) I wanted women to feel comfortable and welcome

(00:08:33) Nothing happened for the first several visits to Desire

(00:11:44) We met a really cute couple

(00:14:34) It was all we talked about for months

(00:18:09) It has become this amazing community of women

(00:24:35) Women from the group send sexy pics on husbands’ birthdays

(00:29:08) Am I normal questions

(00:32:25) Temptations is a non-stop party

(00:35:00) We were just sitting next to the bar minding our own business

(00:40:43) Temptations vs Desire Pearl vs DRM

(00:45:25) You can take her to your room…what am I supposed to do with her?

(00:47:52) I’ve always been bi-curious

(00:49:16) Theme nights and dressing sexy

(00:51:20) Fashion for women over 40 

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Ladies Love Desire Facebook Page

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Sarah’s Instagram Fashion Account

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Suzie Webster Author Page

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Zack and Josie welcome first-time guests Brad and Jenni for a candid and engaging conversation about how their journey into the lifestyle began. What started as Jenni’s private enjoyment of erotica and audiobooks quietly transformed their connection—sparking a level of intimacy Brad couldn’t quite explain until curiosity led him to ask questions.

From there, the couple began listening together, eventually discovering podcasts that encouraged deeper conversations—ones they had never had before. Those discussions opened the door to exploring new desires, including Jenni’s interest in a same-sex experience, and set them on a path of shared discovery.

Brad and Jenni reflect on the early steps, from navigating dating sites to their evolving experiences in the lifestyle. Along the way, they share the highs, the challenges, and the personal growth that comes with it. Zack and Josie add their own insights, creating a thoughtful and often humorous conversation about communication, compatibility, and how very different personalities can thrive together in this space.

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(00:00:00) Reaping the benefits from your wife’s erotica addiction

(00:05:11) Sex Stories podcast built our communication and eliminated fears

(00:10:08) Erotica was our gateway drug(00:12:50) First FF experience

(00:16:59) Insecurities, intimidation and support

(00:20:51) Women with magnetic energy and confidence

(00:23:29) FF dynamics

(00:25:37) Our first meeting with a couple

(00:29:46) Did I break a ‘rule’?

(00:32:47) Different communication styles create conflict

(00:34:31) ‘I need water’

(00:37:56) Flirting and socializing

(00:39:50) Assessing when it’s time to play

(00:42:09) Closing the deal and missed opportunities

(00:44:06) Four way dynamics are tough to assess

(00:46:55) Exploring separate play

(00:48:06) Capitalizing on the energy in the moment

(00:51:21) Communication in the moment can be challenging

(00:53:06) Playing it safe vs taking more risks

(00:54:26) Fear of misinterpretation

(00:56:44) Enjoying all the lifestyle layers

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Suzie Webster Author Page

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Drew and Suzie are back for a wide-ranging conversation with Zack and Josie about fantasies—where they come from, how they evolve, and why they don’t always follow logic.

Drawing from her experience as an erotica author, Suzie shares how deeply she engages with both her own fantasies and those of others, emphasizing that the most powerful turn-ons often center around connection, comfort, and undeniable chemistry. The group explores how compersion weaves its way into many of their fantasies, and why watching others can be such an intense and exciting experience.

They also unpack an important idea: fantasies don’t need to make sense—and trying to overanalyze them can cause them to lose their appeal. Just because something is a turn-on doesn’t mean it’s something that needs to be acted on, a perspective Josie reinforces with insight she’s gained from her doctor and host of The PG Spot.

The conversation touches on anticipation and “the reveal,” the role of storytelling in building desire, and what it looks like when long-held fantasies shift from imagination into real-life experiences. Along the way, they also discuss how they’ve helped other couples explore their own desires and expand their boundaries in ways they may not have considered before.

Thoughtful, playful, and honest, this episode offers a high-level look at fantasies without overcomplicating them—while still leaving plenty to think about.

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(00:00:00) Fantasies are an occupational necessity

(00:03:20) Fantasies with compersion at the core

(00:05:20) Suzie’s books

(00:07:15) Fantasizing about someone else’s reality

(00:11:06) Fantasies don’t have to be realistic

(00:12:37) Compersion and voyeurism

(00:14:10) Start with the unknown

(00:15:27) A glimpse of nudity can be hotter than full nudity

(00:17:32) ‘The reveal’

(00:19:43) From sexually shut down to sexual experimentation

(00:21:54) Fucklicking

(00:26:15) Expanding your circle of comfort

(00:28:57) Acting out your fantasies with play partners

(00:32:20) Vulnerability breeds vulnerability

(00:34:33) Being told sometimes easier than asking for permission

(00:36:37) FaceTime play sessions

(00:42:00) FMF threesome vs a foursome

(00:45:20) Taking and sharing videos of play sessions

(00:48:12) Why foursomes are perfect

(00:50:56) Future plans…fantasies fulfilled

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Zack’s reference to Josie’s masturbation story

Ep 62: Sexy Swinger Confessions: Yay, Nay, May, or Oh, I’ve Played Round 3 at 00:17:00

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ThePGSpot Podcast

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Zack and Josie are back with Drew and Suzie—and this time, the conversation dives into the dynamics of new vs. repeat play.

They kick things off with a bold question: what’s the perfect size? Josie and Suzie quickly find themselves in agreement—and their reasoning sets the tone for a fun, unfiltered conversation.

From there, the conversation turns to what really drives desire. Zack says all he needs is mutual attraction, but Josie pushes back, arguing that context, energy, and connection play a much bigger role. While Zack and Josie admit they’re often open to new, in-the-moment opportunities, Drew and Suzie lean toward repeat experiences—where trust, comfort, and deeper exploration can take things further.

That leads to a conversation about the “script.” Zack jokes that most couples stick to a familiar playbook, while Drew and Suzie are working with a much more expansive “menu.” They share how curiosity, communication, and a willingness to explore have shaped their experiences—and how they even help others expand theirs.

And in the end, Zack shares the mindset shift that’s helped him enjoy it all more: letting go of expectations and simply being present for whatever unfolds.

So… is it better to chase something new, or deepen something familiar?

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(00:00:00) AWG: The perfect penis

(00:04:01) It there’s mutual attraction, I’m good to play

(00:06:49) Context and novelty vs familiarity

(00:10:54) Exchange of energy plays a big role in interest

(00:12:02) Familiarity is more important than novelty

(00:16:30) Voyeurism, compersion and Easy Bake Ovens

(00:19:10) Going ‘off script’ and keeping things spicy

(00:24:04) It’s exciting to help other people explore their sexuality

(00:25:54) I don’t know what I don’t know

(00:27:42) Vulnerability creates opportunities for new experiences

(00:28:58) Sounding…are you into it?

(00:32:05) How do you broaden your sex menu

(00:35:29) Regretting the things you did do vs the things you didn’t do

(00:36:29) Expanding our sex menu

(00:39:53) Prescheduled weekend dynamics

(00:42:53) Making the best of every situation

(00:45:18) Letting go of anticipation to enjoy the moment you’re in

(00:47:32) Expanding your sex menu

(00:49:56) Finding other couples with extensive sex menus

(00:53:10) We’ve had some amazing play experiences

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Zack and Josie are joined once again by Drew and Suzie as they unpack their first Bliss Cruise experience—while also explaining why they’ve come to jokingly refer to their Virgin Voyages trips as “Swinger Light.”

From their first Bliss sailing—dubbed The Sexy Sampler Cruise—to comparing the overall vibe, they dive into the differences between the two cruise experiences. They break down everything from cost and crowd to how (and where) people express themselves, both subtly and unapologetically.

But what truly sets Bliss apart? The intention behind it. Together, they reflect on how the meet ‘n greets, workshops, and curated experiences create a sense of connection and inclusivity for every dynamic, every curiosity, and every comfort level.

One of the most powerful moments of the episode comes when Drew opens up about a deeply personal experience in the dungeon on the final night. As someone who’s used to being in control in every area of his life, stepping into a submissive role offered something unexpected—a release. Supported by Suzie and Lady Lethal, the experience became more than just physical; it created an intense emotional connection between the couple that carried far beyond that night.

Zack and Josie reflect on their own journey this cruise—why it ended up being their favorite Bliss experience yet, despite not loving the ship itself. By letting go of expectations and focusing on what they genuinely enjoy, they found themselves in more organic, meaningful moments.

They also revisit the highly anticipated Dance ‘n Play, sharing why it didn’t quite hit the same this time—and how something as simple as room layout can completely shift the energy of a space.

From instant connections with new couples to lessons on trust, communication, and trying things more than once, this episode is a mix of playful honesty and deeper reflection on what makes these experiences so impactful.

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(00:00:00) ‘Swinger Light’ Virgin Cruises

(00:01:33) Our first Bliss Cruise…the Sexy Sampler

(00:03:42) Finding lifestyle people on a vanilla [Virgin] cruise

(00:05:28) Dressing provocatively on a vanilla cruise

(00:07:24) Cruising for foodies

(00:08:12) Cost comparison Bliss vs Virgin

(00:10:42) Bliss meet ‘n greets and workshops

(00:14:08) Drew, Suzie and Lady Lethal 

(00:23:23) Organic experiences are the best experiences

(00:26:35) Dance ‘n Play: daytime foam parties vs evening playroom

(00:31:45) Do anything at least twice

(00:34:40) Trust in your partner and your agreements

(00:41:24) We meet a couple we clicked with immediately

(00:42:52) We missed the Royal Caribbean Promenade and dance floor

(00:48:25) Parting thoughts

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Zack and Josie kick off a new chapter of Two Plus Two with a subtle shift in format before welcoming back fan-favorite guest co-hosts Drew and Suzie (formerly known as Luke and Rickie from Episode 41).

Together, they dive into their pre–Bliss Cruise adventures in Fort Lauderdale—starting with their first visit to Trapeze and the high-energy hotel meet ‘n greet. From the moment they walk in, they break down what makes Trapeze unique: the electric dance floor, the layout, the vibe, and how the space creates opportunities for both connection and exploration.

They discuss expectations vs. hopes, what it’s like to go into a shared experience together but come away with completely different perspectives, and why the best moments are often the ones that aren’t planned.

Zack and Josie also share highlights from a couple of memorable connections, offering just enough detail to help listeners decide if Trapeze—or a pre-cruise meet-up—is right for them.

They wrap with thoughts on connecting before events, Telegram group dynamics, and why they would absolutely attend the meet ‘n greet again.

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(00:00:00) Two Plus Two transition

(00:02:53) Welcome Drew and Suzie (FKA Luke and Rickie)

(00:05:40) First Trapeze experience was a complete chapter

(00:10:49) Organic experiences are the best experiences

(00:12:25) Experiences are different even in shared experiences

(00:13:58) Sometimes the best experiences are the once that stretch us

(00:15:17) Trapeze layout

(00:20:17) We went in together…but not everyone played

(00:23:28) Expectations vs hopes

(00:26:21) We did more of the things we enjoy doing

(00:28:01) Enjoy all the layers and meet new people

(00:31:48) Zack explored an incredible connection

(00:37:56) It got so hot, we triggered the fire alarm

(00:40:34) Connecting ahead of the cruise on Telegram chat

(00:42:02) We would do the Meet ‘n Greet again

(00:45:26) The shorter M-F cruise was great

(00:47:00) Telegram chats and rejection

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In this episode, the Two Plus Two crew dives into a topic that can quietly shape the lifestyle experience: close friend groups and the perception of cliques.

They start by unpacking what a “clique” really is. Is it intentional exclusivity? Or is it simply comfort, chemistry, and shared history that naturally draw certain people together? The conversation explores whether people inside these tight-knit circles even realize how they’re perceived—and how it feels to be on the outside looking in.

The crew reflects candidly on their own experience traveling together to Lake Havasu last year, admitting that while they never intended to be seen as a clique, they may have given that impression. They dig into the nuances of introducing close friends to other friends, navigating attraction that isn’t universal, and managing group dynamics when not everyone clicks. They emphasize that you don’t have to play together to build meaningful friendships—and that connection in the lifestyle is highly specific and deeply personal.

Brad and Brittany also open up about being the “hub” of multiple friendships and what that role can bring: balancing attention, fearing they might interfere with others’ potential connections, and trying to create space for everyone to feel included. The group discusses how personality differences show up in social settings—especially for those who are less dominant in group situations—and how comparison can quietly creep in, even among people who genuinely support one another.

They explore how perception fuels comparison, how easy it is to measure your real life against someone else’s highlight reel, and how that mindset can distort reality. Throughout the conversation, they return to a grounding theme: control what you can, accept what you can’t, and focus on building authentic connections instead of competing narratives.

By the end, the question remains: are cliques truly forming in the lifestyle, or are they sometimes just reflections of our own perspective? The Two Plus Two crew invites you to examine your assumptions, embrace openness, and remember that comfort and community don’t have to come at the expense of inclusion.

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(00:00:00) Clits or cliques?

(00:03:43) What’s a clique

(00:04:40) Is it a clique or is it just comfortable?

(00:08:08) Being perceived as part of a clique?

(00:10:08) Introducing close friends to other friends

(00:12:47) You don’t have to fuck to be friends

(00:14:20) Attraction and connection is very specific

(00:17:43) Navigating group dynamics when not everyone clicks

(00:20:47) Traveling with friends

(00:24:12) We navigate lifestyle travel differently

(00:26:49) Being a less dominant personality in a group situation

(00:29:30) We really see each other but comparison still happens

(00:34:11) Perception is a key element of comparison

(00:36:30) Comparing your real life to someone’s highlight real

(00:39:41) Comparing your life to the best of everyone else’s lives

(00:43:51) Control what you can control and accept what you can’t

(00:47:13) Focusing on making new connections

(00:51:41) Being the hub of multiple friendships

(00:54:34) Fear of interfering with our friends’ potential connections

(00:58:59) It’s hard not to make comparisons

(01:00:26) Dance and Play and the dick shot

(01:02:51) Cliques may be just your perception

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In this episode, Zack, Josie, Brad, and Brittany dive into what a “successful” play experience really means — and why that definition looks different for each of them. They unpack what matters most in play sessions, the changes they’re intentionally making to increase their enjoyment of the lifestyle, and whether build-up enhances the experience or creates unrealistic expectations — or if there’s a sweet spot somewhere in between.

The crew explores the idea that fantasy will almost always outshine reality, and why sex with other people rarely compares to the connection you have with your partner. At the same time, they highlight the unique experiences the lifestyle offers that simply aren’t possible without other people involved.

They also introduce the “scale” they use to measure play experiences — with sex with their partner sitting at a 10, most lifestyle encounters landing in the mid-5s to 6s, and truly great sessions reaching a 7 or 8. More importantly, they break down the things within their control that can shift those numbers upward and lead to more fulfilling, enjoyable play.

It’s an honest, thoughtful conversation about expectations, communication, and finding satisfaction in the lifestyle beyond chasing a perfect fantasy.

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(00:00:00) A successful swap is when nobody poops!

(00:02:11) Is an orgasm the benchmark for success?(00:03:48) For Brad endurance equals is success(00:07:09) Zack breaks the play experience into separate parts

(00:08:39) Should you expect mediocre sex because it’s new?

(00:12:07) Letting go on vacation

(00:13:00) Asking your play partner what they like before you play

(00:16:06) Our experiences are similar but our scales are different

(00:21:00) Experiences can be mind blowing even if the sex is not

(00:22:14) Identifying things to enjoy aside from your play partner

(00:23:44) Brittany’s spider monkey move

(00:25:27) Build up is important

(00:26:30) Asking questions may be better than assuming

(00:28:23) Having an orgasm is not important to some of us

(00:30:13) No compensating factors is an issue

(00:31:51) Methods and preference for kissing are very personal

(00:33:50) Is more communication better?

(00:36:04) Somebody typically takes the dominant role in kissing

(00:40:21) Fantasy vs reality

(00:46:41) Average, above average or below average

(00:50:17) It’s impossible to judge what a play session will be like beforehand

(00:54:02) What you focus on impacts your enjoyment of the experience

(00:57:00) Tongue punching and other kissing techniques 

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Round Three is officially underway — and the confessions are bolder, kinkier, and even more revealing than before. In this latest installment of Sexy Swinger Confessions: Yay, Nay, May, or Oh, I’ve Played, the Two Plus Two crew jumps back into the game that always sparks laughter, honesty, and a few jaw-dropping moments.

From golden showers and nipple clamps to role-playing throwbacks and risky public encounters, the hosts break down what’s an enthusiastic yes, a hard no, a curious maybe, and what’s already been checked off the lifestyle bucket list. The conversation heats up as they dive into pegging, degradation play, anonymous experiences, trains, all-girl fun, tantric connections, and even consensual non-consensual dynamics — all with their signature mix of humor, vulnerability, and real-world perspective.

As always, this round isn’t just about shock value. It’s about communication, boundaries, curiosity, and how different desires show up in real relationships.

Pour a drink, settle in, and get ready for another round of sexy, unfiltered swinger confessions that might just have you rethinking your own Yay, Nay, or May list. 

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(00:00:00) Here we go! Round Three!!

(00:01:47) Golden showers…and peeing with a hard-on

(00:06:22) Nipple clamps

(00:09:58) Role Playing…a long trip back into the memory banks

(00:14:05) Public sex…and the riskiest place you’ve done it

(00:21:54) Pegging

(00:28:41) Degradation or humiliation play

(00:31:06) Anonymous or masked play

(00:38:26) Train

(00:45:17) All girl play

(00:49:44) Tantric or slow sex

(00:55:34) Consensual non-consensual (CNC)

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