In this episode, Zack, Josie, Brad, and Brittany unpack the complex and often unspoken dynamics of post-play cuddling, reconnection, and reclaiming your partner.

While the play may be over, what happens next—whether it’s a gentle caress, an awkward shuffle, or a full-on cuddle puddle—can bring up a surprising mix of emotions. The group explores why post-play intimacy, especially cuddling, can sometimes feel even more personal than the play itself, and how this moment can either strengthen connection or stir up unexpected discomfort.

They open up about their own preferences—who likes to cuddle, who doesn’t, and why that might change from one encounter to the next. With thoughtful reflection, a dose of vulnerability, and plenty of laughter, the conversation stays honest and playful, even as it touches on some deeper or more taboo corners of lifestyle dynamics.

This is one of those episodes that’s both real and relatable, full of nuance, self-awareness, and hilarious stories from the swingy side of life.

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(00:00:00) Determining when the play session is over

(00:05:16) Choosing your own meaning

(00:07:26) It’s an evolution

(00:09:33) Lead up to play and post play similarities and differences

(00:10:49) PDA with play partners

(00:11:55) Jealousy can creep in

(00:14:18) Sometimes it’s just easy

(00:15:26) Determining when the play session is over

(00:18:52) Cuddling or punting

(00:20:56) It’s weird to see your partner cuddle someone else

(00:24:38) It can feel very intimate

(00:27:10) Stop touching me!

(00:29:41) Fucking, sex and making love

(00:33:58) Puppy piles and hot conversations

(00:35:36) How long is too long?

(00:38:55) When the play session is bad we don’t cuddle

(00:40:49) That pussy’s mine

(00:43:44) Replaying the highlight reel

(00:46:38) The penis is a semen plunger

(00:48:06) We didn’t follow the script!

(00:51:29) Play sessions with a time constraint are exciting

(00:54:37) Reconnection; reclamation

(01:00:10) Oxytocin and sex

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Things get hot—and a little uncomfortable—as hosts Zack, Josie, Brad, and Brittany slide into a topic every swinger should know about but few want to talk about: STIs. But leave it to this crew to make even that a good time.

From testing (how, when, and how often) to sharing results with partners—both current and past—they cover it all with their signature mix of sass, honesty, and just the right dose of inappropriate humor. Josie and Brittany get personal, opening up about their own experiences with STIs, while the group offers real-world advice that’s as helpful as it is hilarious.

Yes, it’s one of their more serious episodes—but they keep it interesting by poking a bit of fun at STI nicknames, cracking jokes and roasting one another. Think of it as the sex-ed class you wish you had in middle school… but way hotter and with better banter.

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(00:00:00) On a scale from dirty to dirty

(00:05:42) Breaking down STI’s

(00:08:40) HPV and Herpes…personal experiences

(00:14:34) Nicknames for STI’s and green gooey stuff

(00:17:40) It’s all fun until you get it

(00:19:20) Stats from the CDC

(00:21:59) Lifestyle folks are conscious of STI’s

(00:24:32) Many are asymptomatic

(00:27:05) Prevention & sharing your STI status

(00:29:07) Handling an outbreak

(00:31:28) Sharing test result status

(00:34:27) Lifestyle cruises, takeovers and other high ‘volume’ events

(00:36:44) Don’t ask, don’t tell

(00:40:48) How often is often enough

(00:45:36) Our eyes are open in this lifestyle…or are they?

(00:47:40) Vaccinations and preventative medications

(00:51:17) Testing at the same time vs staggering tests

(00:53:09) Where to test and what they ask

(00:55:49) An anal swab story

(00:58:50) At home tests and discounts

(01:00:30) Benefits of anonymity

(01:01:18) Different STI’s are tested differently

(01:02:08) Sharing positive test results with partners

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Studies and Information Sources

https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/27902890/

https://www.jscimedcentral.com/public/assets/articles/sexualmedicine-4-1062.pdf

https://www.2minutemedicine.com/stis-and-recreational-drug-use-pre

- https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/27902890/valent-among-swingers/

https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/28373241/

Testing

• Frequency, Where & Cost [April 2025] 

• Frequency

• Ideal: after every new partner

• Realistic: Every 3 months

• Immediately upon symptoms

• Alternate testing schedules with your partner can help

• Where

• Primary Care Physician

• Government/Health Clinics/Planned Parenthood/Labs

• https://gettested.cdc.gov/ 

• STDcheck.com ($139, $10 off with link: https://www.tkqlhce.com/click-101420490-12873415)

• HealthLabs.com ($139)

• QuestHealth.com 

• chlamydia, gonorrhea, syphilis, and HIV 1 & 2 ($155)

• chlamydia, gonorrhea, hepatitis B, hepatitis C, trichomoniasis, syphilis, HIV 1 & 2 ($288)

• Urgent Care

• Home Test Kits

• Let’s Get Checked

• Everlywell.com 

• MyLabBox.com  

  
  

• Sharing positive results; how to communicate; what to do next.

• https://www.stdcheck.com/anonymous-notification.php

• https://tellyourpartner.org/ 

In this juicy, no-holds-barred episode, your favorite foursome—Zack, Josie, Brad, and Brittany—dive headfirst into one of the lifestyle’s most nerve-wracking realities: the fear of being outed. With equal parts humor and heart, they unpack what it feels like to live double lives—respectable business owners by day, sexy vampires by night—while society looms over them like a nosy HOA board with a stick up its ass.

The gang explores how being exposed could impact their livelihoods, reputations, and relationships with family members who still think “ethical non-monogamy” is just a fancy way of saying “cheating.” From quiet paranoia to slow-burning anxiety of knowing your whole life could be derailed by a single screenshot, they each rank their current fear level on a scale of 1 to “I just bought a burner phone.”

Zack and Josie spill the beans on being outed in their past relationships and a recent close call that had them sweating more than a newbie at their first play party. Still, despite the fear, there’s a seductive fantasy lurking underneath—a world where they could live authentically and proudly... without losing their jobs, their moms' respect, or access to Sunday potlucks.

It’s vulnerable, it’s hilarious, and it’ll definitely make you triple-check who’s following your Finsta.

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(00:00:00) This could be a trap

(00:05:00) It feels like a betrayal of trust

(00:06:34) Fear of judgment

(00:08:09) Sharing our secret was exciting

(00:09:44) I threw the Hail Mary at ‘em

(00:12:20) A little surprise for Zack

(00:16:00) Being clandestine is fun

(00:19:26) Just put it on one check…we’ll figure it out

(00:21:42) It’s all in the family

(00:24:40) I always wondered if you were a swinger

(00:26:34) I’m gonna’ tell your mom!

(00:28:47) My mom can’t keep a secret

(00:33:15) Embarrassing moments

(00:36:20) Don’t ask, don’t tell

(00:38:53) Six cocks of separation

(00:42:50) The best husband on the planet

(00:43:57) Releasing the pressure

(00:46:20) Business blowback

(00:51:35) Career suicide

(00:54:35) I wish we could share our success with our family

(00:56:40) Peaches’nCream Invite Code 2plus2

(00:56:52) Protecting ourselves from exposure

(01:01:13) Gotcha’ Bitch! 

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In this playful and revealing episode, Zack, Josie, Brad, and Brittany dive into a spicy game of “Yay, Nay, May, or Oh, I’ve Played.” From hard no’s to enthusiastic yeses—and everything in between—the crew shares where they stand on a wide range of sex acts. As the game heats up, unexpected confessions lead to laughter, curiosity, and even a few secret fantasies. Each answer peels back another layer, sparking bold stories and steamy moments that might just leave listeners blushing.

From awkward overshares to hilarious hypotheticals, this episode is full of outrageous laughs, unexpected reactions, and stories that probably shouldn’t be told—but definitely are. It’s naughty, it’s honest, and it’s the most fun you’ll have learning way too much about four very unfiltered friends.

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(00:00:00) Yes, No, Maybe list…our gateway drug

(00:02:24) Remote sex toys

(00:03:56) Fun, new fishbowl idea!

(00:04:50) Cock rings…not for me

(00:07:02) Squirting

(00:07:53) Is it sprinkling…no, it’s me

(00:10:11) It was like getting a navage irrigation

(00:12:36) Edging

(00:14:39) A three hour tour

(00:15:36) It’s like a super soaker

(00:17:21) Blindfolds

(00:18:16) Hot and cold play…a play buffet

(00:20:26) Spanking

(00:22:14) Handcuffs…’suck cock, but don’t do that!’

(00:23:50) And we’re havin’ a pizza

(00:25:00) I like to service my service men and women

(00:27:48) Shibari

(00:29:20) Let me tie you and your husband up

(00:31:46) Cuckholds and cuckqueens…we’re all selfish

(00:33:53) Double barrelled blow jobs

(00:34:43) It was like an orgasercism…a sex story

(00:43:11) Back to double barrelled blow jobs

(00:45:08) Double penetration

(00:46:15) She woke me up…all revved up!

(00:48:10) Do I know the person who was in the ‘P’?

(00:51:14) Air tight…mixed reviews

(00:53:49) Gang bang…emphatic yes!

(00:56:50) It’s all about compersion

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In this honest and insightful episode, your hosts dive deep into two of the most complex emotions in swinging: jealousy and envy. While often confused, these two feelings are very different—and each can surface in powerful and unexpected ways within the lifestyle.

Your hosts share openly about their personal experiences, exploring how these emotions have affected their relationships, and where their individual insecurities have surfaced. They also reflect on how age, experience, and their unique relationship dynamics influence the way they process their feelings. It’s a more serious conversation, grounded in transparency, vulnerability, and real growth. This one promises to inspire deep conversations with your own partner.

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(00:00:00) Defining Jealousy and Envy

(00:02:24) Fear of losing your partner 

(00:04:03) Good luck finding somebody better

(00:05:14) Boundaries were crossed

(00:07:27) Why are we in this lifestyle?

(00:08:20) Articulating your emotions is challenging

(00:09:52) Questioning your own feelings

(00:10:18) Jealousy, envy, insecurities

(00:11:48) You can’t stuff the feelings down

(00:16:15) Is jealousy and envy necessary to experience the thrill?

(00:19:03) In the lifestyle…we flirt back

(00:21:15) He used to be my little secret

(00:23:31) Sharing the intimacy of your spouse and relationship

(00:26:23) Jealousy could creep in

(00:30:16) Is our subconscious controlling our outcome?

(00:32:47) Don’t fix it if it ain’t broke

(00:33:09) Envy can show up in all kinds of unexpected places

(00:36:32) I was envious of his ‘8’ experience because I had a ‘2’

(00:38:49) Being envious of your partner’s personality

(00:40:48) ‘Helping’ doesn’t help

(00:42:37) You don’t do that with me anymore…don’t do it with her

(00:43:59) Feeling envious of other couples

(00:47:25) Jealousy can create emotional and physical pain

(00:49:44) Will jealousy always be a part of the lifestyle?

(00:52:29) Is jealousy a positive or negative thing?

(00:56:45) This is almost the definition OF the lifestyle

(00:57:53) Parting advice

(01:00:04) Listen to episode 11: Vaginas if you need a good laugh

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Ep 22: Bliss Cruise for Swingers Part 2: Spicy Stories, Real Rejections and More Insider Info from Bliss HQ

This is Part 2 of our two-part Bliss Cruise series—and now it’s time to get to the really juicy stuff.

Zack, Josie, Brad, and Brittany pick up where they left off, sharing the sexier side of their week at sea, including some spicy escapades and steamy surprises. But it’s not all playtime in the playrooms. The crew opens up about rejection, the emotional rollercoaster of swinger life, and the lessons they’re taking into their next Bliss Cruise adventure.

PLUS, they reveal more insider secrets straight from the new Bliss Cruise owners—exclusive updates, behind-the-scenes details, and what’s coming next that swingers (and curious cruisers) will want to know.

If Part 1 was the appetizer...this is the main course.

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(00:00:00) Brittany sex bible

(00:02:25) Baptizing a soft swap couple

(00:06:05) Earn your squirting badge

(00:08:22) Mini Pleasuring the Penis workshop at Dizzy’s

(00:11:00) Schoolyard pick

(00:12:25) Gang Bank Amy and Big Mike

(00:14:32) Happy hour showers

(00:17:42) No, we’re not Canadians

(00:18:24) We’d already established ‘fuckable’

(00:22:50) Rejection du joir

(00:26:39) A sexy newbie couple

(00:28:25) Please stop talking

(00:30:00) We’re just not there yet

(00:33:30) I’d rather know than not know

(00:34:45) Lobbing up a softball

(00:36:06) We appreciated the honesty and transparency

(00:39:43) There’s always another hole

(00:40:48) The great unknowing

(00:42:07) Shoot your shot more often

(00:44:58) Doing it differently next time

(00:45:33) Our favorite kinds of conversations

(00:46:50) Spongebob Nervous Energy Squarepants

(00:48:43) Find your people within our people

(00:50:50) Just your typical bar conversation

(00:51:52) I can’t do every dick…err deck, the same day

(00:54:44) I’m an exhibitionist

(00:55:22) It was like the end of summer camp

(00:58:00) Orgy swag and other little ditties

(00:59:45) Strategies for next time

(01:00:13) Dance and Play; hot new event for Bliss

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In this two-part series, Zack, Josie, Brad, and Brittany unpack the wet, wild, wicked, and wonderful world of the Bliss lifestyle cruise. They each kick things off with a one-liner that perfectly sums up their week at sea then dish on all the dirty details.

From missing the sail away party for the second year in a row, to awkward but honest conversations, and really wet rides, the crew dishes out the highs, lows, and lessons from their floating swinger playground. Zack compares the cruise to a trip to Disneyland—if Disneyland had playrooms, pool parties, naked people and lots of sex.

While Zack and Jose may have spent more time “waiting in line” than “riding rides,” Brad and Brittany’s experience was a massive contrast. The week still brought deep connection, steamy sexy firsts, and a few unforgettable stories. And just when things start heating up...you’ll have to wait until next week for Part 2 because we simply couldn’t fit it all into one hour.

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(00:00:00) Each of our experiences…in a single sentence

(00:01:50) Better than the last, not as good as the next

(00:04:33) The NEW amazing Bliss App!

(00:05:59) Thwarted because of a family resemblance

(00:06:48) Maybe not a ‘no,’ just a ‘no for now’

(00:07:33) Second chances

(00:09:07) Wanna come back to our room and fuck? 

(00:12:06) Maybe they got us confused

(00:12:44) Being too cheeky

(00:14:06) Determining who to approach can be tricky

(00:15:18) Opportunity has a bigger impact than we may think

(00:16:35) Creating context is a necessity for me

(00:17:48) I’m along for the ride

(00:18:11) I choose the ride I want to be on

(00:20:04) Take off your clothes…we need to talk

(00:21:45) Let’s play, ‘where’s Brittany?’

(00:24:34) This crazy, thrilling, challenging ‘ride’ that is the lifestyle

(00:26:02) Watching the experts work the room

(00:28:15) I was just trying to have a martini and get some down time

(00:30:35) Nobody talks about the stressful aspects of the cruise

(00:31:57) I went to Disneyland and I wanted to ride the rides

(00:34:12) She was dedicated and I was fine with it

(00:39:02) Comfort is a big thing for me, in every way

(00:41:36) NEW Bliss owners shared exciting changes with us

(00:42:35) Using Peaches’nCream for better travel experiences

(00:44:00) A  hot, new couple’s sex experience

(00:47:14) Having expectations can create disappointment

(00:49:19) How do you go in without expectations?

(00:52:23) Another awkward ‘family’ resemblance story

(00:53:41) I’m Splash Mountain

(00:55:22) We had some exciting moments, for sure

(00:56:13) Struttin’ our stuff at Dizzie’s

(00:56:46) INSIDER INFO from the new Bliss owners

(00:59:42) Future functionality and availability of the Bliss App

(01:00:35) Full Swap and Beyond Full Swap

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In this episode, your hosts dive into the dynamic between virgin vampires—newcomers to the swinger lifestyle—and elders who've been sipping from the chalice for a while. Drawing on their own experiences as both fledglings and now seasoned swingers, they explore what makes first encounters with newbies so rewarding, and how they guide fresh blood through those early steps with care, consent, and confidence—creating a safe, sexy, and memorable experience.

They also unpack why some elder vamps avoid playing with newcomers, diving into the assumptions, frustrations, and mismatched expectations that can surface on both sides. The hosts discuss common couple dynamics, especially how men often view the lifestyle through a black-and-white lens, while women tend to navigate in nuanced shades of gray.

Whether you're freshly turned or long-immortal in the scene, this episode offers real talk and valuable insight into the evolving dance between curiosity, experience, and connection.

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(00:00:00) Virgin Vampires

(00:01:35) Seasoned Vampires

(00:04:12) Trust is built over time

(00:05:28) The internal conflict

(00:06:23) Being ushered into the LS by seasoned Vampires

(00:07:45) Beliefs vs logical decisions

(00:08:49) We’ll take you under our wing

(00:10:44) Why we call swingers vampires

(00:13:31) Newbies are fun!

(00:16:09) Swinging is like going to Disneyland

(00:17:31) My ticket into heaven

(00:18:26) Benefits of playing with newbies

(00:21:13) Full dance cards

(00:23:55) Why we love virgin Vampires 

(00:26:51) Virgin Vampires can change the dynamic

(00:30:27) Expect your first experiences to feel uncomfortable

(00:32:45) Some vintage Vamps steer clear of virgin Vampires

(00:34:54) Some of our best friendships are with virgin Vampires

(00:40:04) Playing with seasoned Vampires infrequently

(00:41:48) Playing with vintage vs virgin Vampires

(00:43:25) Reading the queues from your partner and play partners

(00:48:59) Navigating those ‘firsts’

(00:52:33) How men and women view ‘rules’ or ‘boundaries’ differently

(00:57:30) The ‘rules’ are different for men and women

(00:59:25) Traps and landmines

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In this candid and laugh-filled episode, hosts Zack, Josie, Brad, and Brittany dive into one of the more infamous phrases in the lifestyle world: 'Ten and Two,' commonly used to describe couples with a significant gap in perceived attractiveness. Your Two Plus Two crew unpacks the term with honesty, humor, and a healthy dose of self-awareness.

They explore the subjective nature of these so-called 'ratings,' acknowledging that everyone’s scale is different—and that beauty (and sexual chemistry) is subjective. The discussion then shifts to the more complex and sometimes divisive concept of 'taking one for the team.' With honesty and differing perspectives, your hosts engage in a thoughtful debate about the dynamics and emotional realities behind the decision to play—especially when attraction isn’t mutual on both sides.

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(00:00:00) A lifestyle term…Ten and Two

(00:01:33) They have to be at least a five

(00:03:49) ‘Ratings’ are subjective

(00:05:33) Peacocking strategy

(00:06:19) We’re here for sex

(00:09:08) Veto rights

(00:11:21) Be honest in your communication

(00:12:37) Ten and Two boggles the mind!

(00:13:17) Primal Sexual Rating 

(00:15:46) How do Tens and Twos get together?

(00:18:11) Compensating factors or traits

(00:19:22) Opportunity and context play a role

(00:20:32) Cowboys…need we say more?

(00:22:41) Not our first choice, but we had fun

(00:25:37) Attraction is initially superficial

(00:27:04) Connecting with people on your ‘level’

(00:28:31) It’s easier to avoid conversations than get into awkward ones

(00:29:17) Fuck off, David Beckham!

(00:32:29) Staying open can pay dividends

(00:33:42) We typically don’t consider anyone below a five

(00:35:00) Easier to create experiences on LS vacations

(00:39:17) Some things aren’t possible with just your partner

(00:41:41) What does ‘taking one for the team’ mean?

(00:46:58) Have we taken one for the team

(00:47:50) If you’re not excited about a play experience…don’t do it!

(00:53:12) Fucking, sex and making love

(00:54:27) Finally! Zack & Josie explain ‘The Smudge’

(00:56:33) A game within the game

(00:57:43) I’d love to be your home run!

(00:59:40) I’m Brittany Bitch

(01:00:08) Zackology

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In this episode, Zack, Josie, Brad, and Brittany dive into the deliciously complicated world of picking play partners. Each share their personal preferences—what turns them on, what gives them pause, and how they navigate attraction within a shared dynamic.

The conversation gets flirty as they tease one another and share pet peeves and guilty pleasures, all while unpacking the deeper stuff: confidence, insecurities, and how to handle rejection without letting it bruise the ego.

It’s not just about individual desire—it’s about finding that mutual yes, where chemistry clicks for everyone involved. With laughter, vulnerability, and a few playful jabs, this episode is a candid look into how four people approach one of the most crucial parts of the lifestyle: choosing who to play with.

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(00:00:00) Having preferences is totally fine

(00:03:24) Attraction can grow through conversation and interaction

(00:04:34) You can’t be attracted to a personality from across the room

(00:05:50) The ‘fuckable’ switch and the scale system

(00:07:14) Variety, the spice of life!

(00:09:07) Throw me around, love Brittany!

(00:10:10) Interest ebbs and flows

(00:14:57) Accents!

(00:16:31) Bellies, blow jobs and eye contact

(00:17:58) Okay for larger people, but not trim, athletic people?

(00:19:09) Choosing play partners as a couple

(00:22:12) Confidence in choosing someone for your partner

(00:24:25) Is the lifestyle judgment free?

(00:25:36) Handling insecurity, tension, and stress in the lifestyle

(00:29:34) Insecurity IS a part of the lifestyle

(00:32:20) Lifestyle armor

(00:33:58) To beard or not to beard

(00:36:31) Superman cape or rationalization

(00:38:02) Rejection may not be about ‘you’

(00:39:29) It may just be awkward, not too late

(00:40:35) Personality; engagement and energy

(00:43:12) Engaging with others is more challenging for introverts

(00:44:44) Be authentic and vulnerable

(00:46:00) Figure out what you want and create those opportunities

(00:47:43) I’ll try anything twice

(00:50:27) ‘Clowning’ around about hair and other things

(00:55:20) You can expect to attract people similar to the level you groom yourself to

(00:59:16) Just say, ‘no’ to sandpaper

(01:01:45) Parting thoughts

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