EP204 – Cap d’Agde Swingers Vacation 2025: Champagne Pussies, Foam Parties & Beach Orgies

Is Cap d’Agde still the world’s most infamous swingers paradise — or is it just overpriced rosé, half-empty nightclubs, and sunburnt nudists with GoPros?

We’re back from France with 69 sexy humans in tow, ready to spill the champagne (literally) on what really went down at Europe’s biggest lifestyle playground. From Paris club nights to poolside anal, missed connections, VIP beach beds, and a finale party involving German neighbors, cheese, and pop rocks blowjobs — this trip had it all.

Stick around for the segments:

Paris Stopover Shenanigans – Les Chandelles on a Sunday, Darrell’s multi-orgasmic play, and why our group rocked the dress code fit

Why Cap isn’t luxury… but it is unforgettable

Public sex etiquette at pool parties

The difference between French and Canadian play styles

Cate’s inevitable UTI (yes, again)

Tips for booking VIP beds, blending in, and keeping the vibe fun

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Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories

Is Cap d’Agde the ultimate swingers paradise... or an overhyped nudist town with overpriced rosé and questionable club decor?

We’re diving into France’s infamous "Naked City" with first-timers Ben & Kate from the UK—sharing what it’s really like to strip down, party hard, and play freely in one of the world’s most iconic non-monogamous travel destinations.

From body confidence wobbles to naked grocery runs, group foam party flings, and boundary-testing solo play, this episode is equal parts hilarious, sexy, and honest AF.

Stick around for the segments:

Hot Seat Quickies – foam or finesse? Nudity or nightlife? Sexy surprises and flirty regrets.

Guess Who: Cap d’Agde Edition – is that a mesh thong and too much cologne, or are we imagining things?

Prison Wallets & Pool Parties – yes, that’s a thing. Yes, we explain it. No, you won’t forget it.

The Moose Party & Babylon Vibes – what to expect, what to pack, and why you might never want to leave.

Tips for Cap First-Timers – boundaries, blunders, solo moments, sneaky threesomes, and finding your tribe (while naked).

Whether you're Cap-curious, dreaming of your first naked beach walk, or just here for the stories of awkward sex club tunnels and golden body jewelry envy—this episode delivers everything you didn’t read on the Cap d’Agde travel forums.

What You’ll Hear in This Episode:

The surprising psychology of public nudity

Body image vs. body liberation

Sexy moments, awkward encounters, and one creepy Dutch guy

Connection vs. compersion in foursomes and solo play

Why Cap is not just for swingers—and who it’s definitely not for

Top Cap tips: what to pack, what to book, and what to avoid

Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories

Welcome to a juicy bonus episode of Wanderlust Swingers! In this unscheduled, unfiltered conversation, Cate takes us behind the scenes of her most recent solo hotwife play date—a sexy, nerve-wracking, pounding-filled night that left everyone hot, wet, and just a little bit awkward.

From lingerie mishaps to ben wa balls, awkward flirting to explosive orgasms, this episode is a raw (sometimes hilariously chaotic) look at what it’s really like to go on a solo hotel date with a single guy. Darrell weighs in with his thoughts on compersion, the thrill of being included before and after, and what it's like when your partner comes home smelling like someone else’s cologne.

Plus, a listener question dives into whether solo play still counts if it's only with people you've previously played with—and how to handle that tricky dynamic when it feels like freedom with limitations.

In This Episode:

🔹 The real logistics of setting up a hotwife solo date

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Coming Soon:

August 6th: Our Paris & Cap d’Agde travel episode, recorded just before our return to the naked city!

Whether you're hotwife curious, deep into the lifestyle, or just here for the chaos and chemistry—this episode is pure swinger gold.

Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories

Ever wondered what it really takes to host a swingers lifestyle event? From clogged toilets in lingerie to DJ sets soaked in sweat, this candid crossover with Mickey & Mallory from the Casual Swinger Podcast exposes the highs, lows, and hilariously gross realities of being a swingers event host.

We’re pulling back the velvet curtain to share our wildest stories from hosting major lifestyle takeovers like Casual Swinger Week at Hedonism Jamaica and Libertine Events Miami. You'll hear about guests gone rogue, glow-stick overkill, questionable hotel staff, and the unexpected emotional weight of managing relationship drama at sex-positive parties.

Stick around for the segments:

Top 5 Unsexiest Things We’ve Done at a Sexy Event

What’s in Our Swinger Event Survival Kits?

True or Trope? — a rapid-fire myth-busting game about lifestyle stereotypes

If One More Person Asks Me To… (You know who you are)

Toast, No Roast — our heartfelt shoutouts to guests who made it all worth it

Tipsy Takeaways — advice for nervous newbies, returning guests & aspiring event hosts

Whether you're a seasoned swinger, an aspiring event planner, or just here for the behind-the-scenes chaos, this episode is a laugh-out-loud, learn-a-lot look at what it takes to run the sexiest events on earth—without losing your mind (or your vibrator).

What You’ll Hear in This Episode:

Condom carnage and playroom clean-ups

Conflict resolution and crying girls in the hallway

Lifestyle myths: fact or fiction?

Our ultimate swinger event survival kits (snacks, lube, Narcan, and more)

How to be a better guest at lifestyle takeovers

Gold-star hosting advice from three lifestyle veterans

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EP200 – Hotwife Glory Hole Experience & 3 New Swingers Clubs in 3 Weeks

In our 200th episode, Cate and Darrell reflect on a decade in the lifestyle — and ask: can old swingers learn new tricks? From awkward dress-downs and single-guy overloads to sexy vibes, secret blowjobs, and diverse party crowds, this one is packed.

We hit up three different swingers clubs in three weeks, including CitySwingers in Copenhagen (a real let down), Party Players in the Netherlands (a sexy swingers club but not a swingers event), and finally the X Club in Toronto — where a hotwife glory hole scene played out in real-time.

You’ll also hear about:

What makes a club feel sexy (or not)

Swingers vs. sex clubs: what’s the difference?

Party diversity, drug culture at events, and the illusion of no-phone policies

Cate’s secret hotwife escapade: from business-bitch lingerie to anonymous cock sucking

Plus, we tease what’s ahead for Cap d’Agde, share a major Libertine Events milestone, and celebrate hitting 200 episodes without a single piña colada spilled on the mic. Cheers, you filthy animals.

Swingers Clubs Reviewed – CitySwingers (Copenhagen), Party Players (NL), and The X Club (Toronto)

Dress Down Disasters – From mismatched underwear to sensory shutdowns

Hotwife Glory Hole Fantasy – Cate and a stranger's cock, one hole, zero hesitation

Diversity Wins – Why inclusive swinger parties feel better

Behind the Curtain – Real talk on party rules, event polish, and the drug-vibe spectrum

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EP199 – Spontaneous vs. Responsive Desire in the Swingers Lifestyle

In this episode, Cate and Darrell dive into the psychology and practicality of spontaneous vs. responsive desire — and how this can make or break your experiences in the lifestyle. Whether you're the one who’s ready to go at the first flash of lingerie or someone who needs the right mood, connection, or even lunch before feeling sexy, we explore what it all means for swingers navigating clubs, hotel takeovers, and multi-day events.

We also update you on the notorious dildo from the last episode — yes, Cate used it. Was it sexy? Science-y? Did it cause a UTI? (Spoiler: yes to all of the above). Plus, you’ll hear about Cate’s surprise visit to a Canadian club, her puffed-up chipmunk face courtesy of the Dutch healthcare system, and a viral Facebook video that got her slapped with a ‘bullying’ violation. You can’t make this stuff up.

Finally, we tackle a fantastic listener question: Why are we pickier on dating sites than in real life? Is it about spontaneity, judgment, or just too many filters?

The Dildo Debrief – Cate puts the giant toy to the test (with help) and shares the honest, messy aftermath

Spontaneous vs. Responsive Desire – What it means, how to spot it in yourself or your partner, and how it plays out at lifestyle events

Desire Mismatches – What to do when one partner is ready to pounce and the other needs time to warm up

Listener Q&A – Why are we all trolls online? Cate reflects on being pickier in apps than IRL, and what that says about connection

Be A Better Swinger Tips – Learn your desire style and how to meet each other in the middle (without pressure)

Website: www.wanderlustswingers.com

Tell us what turns you on, how you navigate mismatched desire with your partner, or what you’ve learned in your own lifestyle journey — we love hearing your stories and insights.

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Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories

Cate’s fresh back from Miami (just her this time!) and while we only touch on that wild weekend, we’re diving deep into what’s really heating things up: our return to Cap d’Agde in 2025, a brand new sex toy, and Darrell’s spicy fantasy.

In this episode, Darrell receives a mystery box that leaves Cate both suspicious and very curious. Spoiler alert: it’s a new toy — but it’s not one we’ve ever used before. Unboxing it live kicks off a conversation about impulse sexy buys, techy pleasure, and how this toy might play into fantasy fufillment.

We’re also answering a great listener question from a hotwife couple in New Zealand: How do you make small talk in the lifestyle when talking about work and kids feels out of place? From flirting in loud clubs to deep connection at weekend events, we’ve got practical tips, sexy one-liners, and a few hilarious fails to share.

And finally — we’re going back to the Naked City! Cap d’Agde 2025 is on the horizon and we’re already fantasizing about beachside play, group massages, and balcony sex in the hot Mediterranean sun. This isn’t just a trip — it’s a sexual state of mind.

What you’ll hear in this episode:

Mystery Box Reveal: Darrell’s new toy arrives and Cate’s imagination runs wild

Lifestyle Small Talk: Flirty questions, fun energy, and how to connect without asking about someone’s 9–5

Cap d’Agde Desires: Why we’re going back and what (or who) we want to do when we get there

Darrell’s Fantasy: How we're fulfilling it without putting anyone at risk

Be A Better Swinger Tips: Mindset matters — whether it’s packing for Cap or chatting up couples at a club

Links:

Website: www.wanderlustswingers.com

Are you coming to Cap d’Agde in 2025? Do you have a fantasy you’re dying to try? Or want to see what was in the box? Drop us a line — we love hearing from you!

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How does sexual trauma affect your lifestyle journey?

Trigger warning: This episode includes discussion of sexual trauma, abuse, and emotional triggers. Please take care while listening.

In this vulnerable and powerful episode, Cate is joined by trauma-informed coach Meshai from Expansive Connection to explore what happens when past trauma meets lifestyle play. Cate also shares her personal experience with sexual trauma — opening up publicly for the first time.

Whether you’re navigating your own healing, supporting a partner, or just want to be a more compassionate and informed member of the lifestyle, this conversation is essential.

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Let’s talk about it.

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Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories

Cate and Darrell revisit soft swap play for the first time in seven years — and it happened at none other than Fun4Two, the iconic swingers club in the Netherlands. What started as a night out turned into a wildly sensual experience filled with connection, chemistry, a six-handed massage… and yes, some cum on the floor.

We explore the dynamics of soft swap play, the assumptions people make about it, and whether full swap couples are missing out by skipping over these intimate encounters. Cate also makes a hilarious faux pas, and offers a boss-level club tour move, and together they reflect on how chemistry can totally eclipse categories.

Here’s what you’ll hear:

🔹 The Night at Fun4Two: From flirting at the bar to hands-on tantra and one unforgettable group experience

Plus, life updates! Cate’s heading to Miami, Darrell’s off to South Korea, and someone just turned 40… but we’re not talking about that, okay?

Links:

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@WanderlustSwingers

Is soft swap the underrated gem of the swinger world? Rediscover it with us in this sexy, playful, and thought-provoking episode.

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In this important episode, Cate speaks with Steve Gagne, owner of Wicked Fun Club, a private members-only lifestyle venue in Connecticut that has recently been issued a cease and desist order by the Town of Plymouth.

Only five months into a three-year lease, the club is now in the midst of a legal and political battle that raises serious questions about privacy, zoning laws, and stigma against non-monogamous communities.

Steve shares what really happened, how it’s affecting the club and its members, and what the community can do to support. This episode goes beyond local politics—it's a wake-up call for everyone in the lifestyle.

“This story isn’t just about one club in one town—it’s about how adult freedom, privacy, and community values clash in the real world. Whether you're in Connecticut or California, we all have a stake in the lifestyle's right to exist safely and respectfully.” ~ Cate, Wanderlust Swingers Podcast

In this episode, we cover:

What Wicked Fun Club is and who it serves

The zoning issue and cease and desist order

Tensions between the club, the landlord, and the neighboring church

The broader impact on lifestyle members and safe spaces

The current appeal process

What support is needed from the non-monogamous community

How this story affects the lifestyle space nationwide

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