Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories

Are “dirty vanillas” ruining swinger parties… or are we just old and grumpy?

We wrap by asking the big question: are dirty vanillas a lifestyle epidemic… or is this just what evolution looks like in a more fluid, less-stigmatized, sex-positive world?

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Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories

Ever left a lifestyle party with a sore throat from talking…and nothing else? In this episode we unpack why being a charismatic, chatty social butterfly can accidentally cock-block your own fun. Social sexual vs. DTF energy, how mixed signals stall momentum, and the exact moves to shift from talk to touch, without being creepy. Yes, there are wombat and platypus facts. No, we’re not sorry.

EP208 – Sex Parties vs. Sexy Parties & the Dirty Vanilla Epidemic: how to read formats, avoid “no playroom” traps, and set expectations.

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Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories

Is Cap d’Agde still the planet’s wildest swingers playground… or did we just hit it on extra-chaotic mode? In this on-the-road episode (recorded from a very “upgraded” Las Vegas suite), we recap our second 2025 run at Cap d’Agde — from Babylone poolside antics to a Le Glamour Beach foam party so packed you could crowd-surf — plus two very different European events: Flamigo Events in Belgium and the SDC 25th Anniversary World Party in the Netherlands.

We talk wins, fails, costs, dress codes, and why playrooms (or the lack of them) can make or break your night. Cate also shares a real-life health check-in on managing recurring UTIs in the lifestyle and the impact on travel, play, and partnership.

Cap d’Agde, Round Two: language barriers, daytime soloing while your partner works, poolside flirtation, and making the most of peak-season crowds

Babylone Pool Party: why it still tops our list for “sex-charged pool vibes” (and how to navigate it as a couple)

Foam Party at Le Glamour Beach: shoulder-to-shoulder mayhem, VIP bed sticker shock, and strategies when you can’t secure a cabana

Flamigo Events (Belgium): great DJs, pricey drinks, token systems, and why “sexy party” ≠ “swingers party” if there’s nowhere to play

SDC World Party (Netherlands): last-minute municipal restrictions, and how to salvage a night out

Costs & Value: what we actually spent vs. what we got (tickets, hotels, water, and those sneaky cup fees)

Safety & Autonomy: why Cate feels safer at lifestyle events than at normal clubs — and how to set boundaries when attending with friends or a single guy

Travel Planning for Lifestyle Events: don’t over-commit for unproven parties, read past reviews, and always have a Plan B (after-parties, club backups, pre-arranged connections)

Verify the format (swingers club vs. sexy dance party) before you book suites and tailor outfits.

Have a backup plan: pre-message on dating sites, line up an after-party, or keep a reputable club in your pocket 

Mind the logistics: token drink systems, locker processes, heat/AC, and dress-down rules can heavily affect your night.

Health in the lifestyle: proactive UTI management, pacing your play, and honest partner communication.

Trip length matters: 4 days vs. 6 days at Cap d’Agde — what actually feels good for different personalities.

EP207 – How Not to Get Laid at Lifestyle Events (aka: are you “social swinging” your way out of play?).

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Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories

Is oral sex “low risk”? How long should you wait to test after a hotel takeover or cruise? And what’s the real deal with HSV and HPV in the lifestyle? We brought receipts—and two experts.

Today we’re joined by Alan Brock, founder of STD Hero, and Dr. William Budd, CEO of Alliant Lab Consulting, to talk real-world STI testing for swingers, myths that need to die (no, you can’t blame a truck-stop toilet seat), incubation windows, oral vs. penetrative risk, site-specific swabs, and why regular screening plus straight-up conversations make play hotter and safer.

STD Hero — discreet, at-home STI testing built for the lifestyle.

Myth Busting 101 – Toilet seats, “clinic tests are the only real tests,” and the HSV antibody red-X problem

Incubation Windows – Why most results are meaningful at ~2 weeks, and Mgen needs ~3–4

Oral vs Penetrative Risk – Where gonorrhea shows up most, when dental dams matter, and “safer” vs “safe”

HPV Deep Dive – Vaccines, oral HPV, head & neck cancer screening, and when to add annual checks

Lifestyle Scenarios – Two couples, two play patterns: what to test, and how often

Hot Seat – Why STD Hero includes site-specific swabs and keeps prices lower (hint: they’re the lab)

Fact or Fiction Lightning Round – Condoms, syphilis from oral, monthly testing, and cruise-week “clearance” fantasies

Why quarterly testing works for low-frequency, barrier-using couples—and why monthly makes sense for frequent players

The 2-week rule (and 3–4 weeks for Mycoplasma genitalium) after events before you rely on a negative

Why site-specific swabs (throat/anal) catch infections urine-only panels miss

HSV & HPV realities: antibodies ≠ contagious today; why HPV screening still matters even if vaccinated

How to talk about risk appetite and recent play with new partners without killing the vibe

The truth about at-home vs clinic testing (licensed lab methods are the same; cheaters can cheat anywhere)

Practical cue: if an oral sore sticks around beyond a few days, get it checked

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Language matters: say safer sex, not safe sex—there’s always some risk.

After big events: wait ~2 weeks (Mgen: 3–4 weeks) for the most reliable results; test sooner only if you’ll retest.

Oral counts: expect more oral gonorrhea than other oral STIs; don’t skip throat swabs.

HPV plan: screen annually; if positive, recheck in 6 months + ask your dentist about fluorescent oral screenings.

Don’t alternate testing between partners to “save money”—immune responses vary by person.

Transparency turns people on: share dates of last test, where you played, and what you’re comfortable with now.

This episode shares expert perspectives and practical lifestyle strategies. For personal healthcare decisions, consult your clinician.

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EP204 – Cap d’Agde Swingers Vacation 2025: Champagne Pussies, Foam Parties & Beach Orgies

Is Cap d’Agde still the world’s most infamous swingers paradise — or is it just overpriced rosé, half-empty nightclubs, and sunburnt nudists with GoPros?

We’re back from France with 69 sexy humans in tow, ready to spill the champagne (literally) on what really went down at Europe’s biggest lifestyle playground. From Paris club nights to poolside anal, missed connections, VIP beach beds, and a finale party involving German neighbors, cheese, and pop rocks blowjobs — this trip had it all.

Stick around for the segments:

Paris Stopover Shenanigans – Les Chandelles on a Sunday, Darrell’s multi-orgasmic play, and why our group rocked the dress code fit

Why Cap isn’t luxury… but it is unforgettable

Public sex etiquette at pool parties

The difference between French and Canadian play styles

Cate’s inevitable UTI (yes, again)

Tips for booking VIP beds, blending in, and keeping the vibe fun

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Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories

Is Cap d’Agde the ultimate swingers paradise... or an overhyped nudist town with overpriced rosé and questionable club decor?

We’re diving into France’s infamous "Naked City" with first-timers Ben & Kate from the UK—sharing what it’s really like to strip down, party hard, and play freely in one of the world’s most iconic non-monogamous travel destinations.

From body confidence wobbles to naked grocery runs, group foam party flings, and boundary-testing solo play, this episode is equal parts hilarious, sexy, and honest AF.

Stick around for the segments:

Hot Seat Quickies – foam or finesse? Nudity or nightlife? Sexy surprises and flirty regrets.

Guess Who: Cap d’Agde Edition – is that a mesh thong and too much cologne, or are we imagining things?

Prison Wallets & Pool Parties – yes, that’s a thing. Yes, we explain it. No, you won’t forget it.

The Moose Party & Babylon Vibes – what to expect, what to pack, and why you might never want to leave.

Tips for Cap First-Timers – boundaries, blunders, solo moments, sneaky threesomes, and finding your tribe (while naked).

Whether you're Cap-curious, dreaming of your first naked beach walk, or just here for the stories of awkward sex club tunnels and golden body jewelry envy—this episode delivers everything you didn’t read on the Cap d’Agde travel forums.

What You’ll Hear in This Episode:

The surprising psychology of public nudity

Body image vs. body liberation

Sexy moments, awkward encounters, and one creepy Dutch guy

Connection vs. compersion in foursomes and solo play

Why Cap is not just for swingers—and who it’s definitely not for

Top Cap tips: what to pack, what to book, and what to avoid

Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories

Welcome to a juicy bonus episode of Wanderlust Swingers! In this unscheduled, unfiltered conversation, Cate takes us behind the scenes of her most recent solo hotwife play date—a sexy, nerve-wracking, pounding-filled night that left everyone hot, wet, and just a little bit awkward.

From lingerie mishaps to ben wa balls, awkward flirting to explosive orgasms, this episode is a raw (sometimes hilariously chaotic) look at what it’s really like to go on a solo hotel date with a single guy. Darrell weighs in with his thoughts on compersion, the thrill of being included before and after, and what it's like when your partner comes home smelling like someone else’s cologne.

Plus, a listener question dives into whether solo play still counts if it's only with people you've previously played with—and how to handle that tricky dynamic when it feels like freedom with limitations.

In This Episode:

🔹 The real logistics of setting up a hotwife solo date

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August 6th: Our Paris & Cap d’Agde travel episode, recorded just before our return to the naked city!

Whether you're hotwife curious, deep into the lifestyle, or just here for the chaos and chemistry—this episode is pure swinger gold.

Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories

Ever wondered what it really takes to host a swingers lifestyle event? From clogged toilets in lingerie to DJ sets soaked in sweat, this candid crossover with Mickey & Mallory from the Casual Swinger Podcast exposes the highs, lows, and hilariously gross realities of being a swingers event host.

We’re pulling back the velvet curtain to share our wildest stories from hosting major lifestyle takeovers like Casual Swinger Week at Hedonism Jamaica and Libertine Events Miami. You'll hear about guests gone rogue, glow-stick overkill, questionable hotel staff, and the unexpected emotional weight of managing relationship drama at sex-positive parties.

Stick around for the segments:

Top 5 Unsexiest Things We’ve Done at a Sexy Event

What’s in Our Swinger Event Survival Kits?

True or Trope? — a rapid-fire myth-busting game about lifestyle stereotypes

If One More Person Asks Me To… (You know who you are)

Toast, No Roast — our heartfelt shoutouts to guests who made it all worth it

Tipsy Takeaways — advice for nervous newbies, returning guests & aspiring event hosts

Whether you're a seasoned swinger, an aspiring event planner, or just here for the behind-the-scenes chaos, this episode is a laugh-out-loud, learn-a-lot look at what it takes to run the sexiest events on earth—without losing your mind (or your vibrator).

What You’ll Hear in This Episode:

Condom carnage and playroom clean-ups

Conflict resolution and crying girls in the hallway

Lifestyle myths: fact or fiction?

Our ultimate swinger event survival kits (snacks, lube, Narcan, and more)

How to be a better guest at lifestyle takeovers

Gold-star hosting advice from three lifestyle veterans

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EP200 – Hotwife Glory Hole Experience & 3 New Swingers Clubs in 3 Weeks

In our 200th episode, Cate and Darrell reflect on a decade in the lifestyle — and ask: can old swingers learn new tricks? From awkward dress-downs and single-guy overloads to sexy vibes, secret blowjobs, and diverse party crowds, this one is packed.

We hit up three different swingers clubs in three weeks, including CitySwingers in Copenhagen (a real let down), Party Players in the Netherlands (a sexy swingers club but not a swingers event), and finally the X Club in Toronto — where a hotwife glory hole scene played out in real-time.

You’ll also hear about:

What makes a club feel sexy (or not)

Swingers vs. sex clubs: what’s the difference?

Party diversity, drug culture at events, and the illusion of no-phone policies

Cate’s secret hotwife escapade: from business-bitch lingerie to anonymous cock sucking

Plus, we tease what’s ahead for Cap d’Agde, share a major Libertine Events milestone, and celebrate hitting 200 episodes without a single piña colada spilled on the mic. Cheers, you filthy animals.

Swingers Clubs Reviewed – CitySwingers (Copenhagen), Party Players (NL), and The X Club (Toronto)

Dress Down Disasters – From mismatched underwear to sensory shutdowns

Hotwife Glory Hole Fantasy – Cate and a stranger's cock, one hole, zero hesitation

Diversity Wins – Why inclusive swinger parties feel better

Behind the Curtain – Real talk on party rules, event polish, and the drug-vibe spectrum

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EP199 – Spontaneous vs. Responsive Desire in the Swingers Lifestyle

In this episode, Cate and Darrell dive into the psychology and practicality of spontaneous vs. responsive desire — and how this can make or break your experiences in the lifestyle. Whether you're the one who’s ready to go at the first flash of lingerie or someone who needs the right mood, connection, or even lunch before feeling sexy, we explore what it all means for swingers navigating clubs, hotel takeovers, and multi-day events.

We also update you on the notorious dildo from the last episode — yes, Cate used it. Was it sexy? Science-y? Did it cause a UTI? (Spoiler: yes to all of the above). Plus, you’ll hear about Cate’s surprise visit to a Canadian club, her puffed-up chipmunk face courtesy of the Dutch healthcare system, and a viral Facebook video that got her slapped with a ‘bullying’ violation. You can’t make this stuff up.

Finally, we tackle a fantastic listener question: Why are we pickier on dating sites than in real life? Is it about spontaneity, judgment, or just too many filters?

The Dildo Debrief – Cate puts the giant toy to the test (with help) and shares the honest, messy aftermath

Spontaneous vs. Responsive Desire – What it means, how to spot it in yourself or your partner, and how it plays out at lifestyle events

Desire Mismatches – What to do when one partner is ready to pounce and the other needs time to warm up

Listener Q&A – Why are we all trolls online? Cate reflects on being pickier in apps than IRL, and what that says about connection

Be A Better Swinger Tips – Learn your desire style and how to meet each other in the middle (without pressure)

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Tell us what turns you on, how you navigate mismatched desire with your partner, or what you’ve learned in your own lifestyle journey — we love hearing your stories and insights.

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