Join hosts Mickey and Mallory as they kick off Season 7 with a deep dive into one of the most challenging aspects of lifestyle relationships: when partners have different play styles, needs, and desires. In this candid episode, they explore "The Great Divide" - what happens when couples grow in different directions within the lifestyle, and how to navigate these differences without letting them destroy your relationship.

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Plus: Whiskey of the Month returns with Wild Turkey Rare Breed - the bourbon that changed barrel-proof whiskey forever!

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This podcast contains adult content and is intended for mature audiences. The Casual Swinger is a variety show covering lifestyle topics, travel, events, and real talk about non-monogamy.

[00:00] - Introduction & Season 7 Reboot

[03:30] - Recent Adventures

[15:00] - Upcoming Events

[20:00] - THE GREAT DIVIDE: Main Topic

What is The Great Divide?

Common Lifestyle Divides:

Healthy vs. Unhealthy Backfilling:

How to Navigate The Divide:

Key Insights:

[55:00] - Clarification on "DTF"

[60:00] - Whiskey of the Month: Wild Turkey Rare Breed

The History:

Why Rare Breed Changed Everything:

Tasting Notes:

Jimmy Russell's Philosophy: "We don't make it for people who don't like bourbon."

[70:00] - Wrap-Up & How to Connect

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Welcome to another wild ride with Mallory and Mickey on the Casual Swinger Podcast! In this episode, "A Raccoon Named Desire," your favorite hosts take you on their first-ever trip to Desire Riviera Maya, sharing honest, hilarious, and insightful stories from their lifestyle vacation in Mexico.

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Tune in for laughs, real talk, and all the sexy, silly, and surprising moments that make the lifestyle unforgettable. You’ve been listening to Casual Swinger!

One Size Fits All?

Navigating Lifestyle Events, House Parties, Clubs & Takeovers – with Wanderlust Swinger's own Cate!

Description: Welcome to Season 6, Episode 5 of the Casual Swinger Podcast! In this candid and entertaining episode, hosts Mickey and Mallory are joined by the ever-popular Wanderlust Cate for a deep dive into the world of lifestyle events. Whether you’re a seasoned swinger or new to the scene, this episode is packed with real talk, hilarious stories, and practical advice on navigating everything from meet & greets and house parties to clubs, hotel takeovers, and full-blown resort events.

We break down the pros and cons of each event type, discuss the importance of setting expectations, and share personal experiences—both the wild and the awkward. Learn how to find the right event for your vibe, what red flags to watch for, and how to make the most of your lifestyle journey. Plus, get the inside scoop on Casual Swinger Week, Libertine Events, and how to connect with the community year-round.

Keywords: Swinger podcast, lifestyle events, house parties, swingers clubs, hotel takeovers, resort takeovers, Wanderlust Cate, Casual Swinger Week, Libertine Events, lifestyle community, swinging advice, adult podcast, open relationships, event etiquette, lifestyle travel

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With over 18 years in the lifestyle community, Mallory and Mickey blend humor, real-life stories, and expert commentary to break down what AVS means for content creators, sex workers, and everyday adults. Plus, get the latest updates on Casual Swinger Week at Hedonism II, hilarious dating misadventures, and the much-anticipated Whiskey of the Month!

Whether you’re a lifestyle veteran, sex-positive advocate, or just curious about the latest in adult legislation, this episode is packed with must-know information, laughs, and resources to keep you informed and empowered.

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00:00 – Intro & Disclaimer

03:00 – Life Updates & Dating in the Lifestyle

12:00 – Casual Swinger Week at Hedonism II

20:00 – Main Topic: AVS Legislation Explained

What is AVS?

40:00 – The Real-World Impact

Parallels to Prohibition and the War on Drugs

55:00 – Sex Education, Parenting, and Personal Responsibility

Tips for parents

1:10:00 – Whiskey of the Month

1:20:00 – Resources & How to Get Involved

Free Speech Coalition: https://freespeechcoalition.com/

1:25:00 – Connect with Casual Swinger

Website: casualswinger.com

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In this episode of Casual Swinger, Mickey and Mallory Gordon are joined by Cate Wanderlust Swingers for an exciting and candid discussion.

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www.libertineevents.com

In this episode of Casual Swinger, hosts Mallory and Mickey reconnect with listeners from their mobile studio, the 'Rolling Couch.' This episode is filled with comedy and candid recounting of frequently thwarted encounters while out of town.

Libertine Events

The X Club

Well, it's been a while!

Casual Swinger Week

Libertine Events

DarkMatter69 - BDSM Gear

Weathering the Storm: Insights and Resilience at Hedonism 2

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In this engaging episode of Casual Swinger, hosts Mallory and Mickey recount their recent adventures, focusing on their time at Casual Swinger Week and PCAP events. They delve into the aftermath of Hurricane Beryl at Hedonism 2 in Jamaica, sharing stories of the remarkable resilience of the locals and the relentless efforts of the resort staff to rebuild. The episode also features an in-depth interview with David Graham, the general manager, who discusses hurricane preparations and recovery efforts.

Additionally, significant renovations at the resort, the economic impact of inflation, upcoming events like Halloween, and a GoFundMe campaign to support affected employees are highlighted, underscoring the dedicated community spirit of Hedonism 2.

00:00 Welcome Back to Casual Swinger

01:26 Life Updates and Travel Adventures

02:05 Recap of Casual Swinger Week

04:39 PCAP and Playroom Highlights

07:56 Hurricane Hedo Experience

17:15 Community Resilience in Jamaica

31:53 Interview with Hedo's General Manager

39:48 Upcoming Plans and Promises

40:28 Casual Swinger Week and Contact Info

41:40 Introduction to David Graham

42:25 Hurricane Experience at Hedonism 2

43:55 Staff Resilience and Recovery Efforts

52:30 Future Plans for Hedonism 2 54:53 Group Experiences at Hedonism 2

56:43 Management Approach and Staff Interaction 01:00:33 Renovations and Economic Challenges

01:04:26 Holiday Celebrations and Special Events

01:15:43 Support for Hedonism 2 Staff

01:18:26 Casual Swinger Week and Final Thoughts

Casual Toys

Hedonism II

IOS Connections

Fluffernutters

Rachal's Rebels

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People find themselves entering a consensually non-monogamous relationship (aka "The swinging lifestyle") in SO many different ways and for different reasons.  One thing is almost universal though, at some point...the boys want a threesome.  

Casual Swinger Week

Vedo Toys

Wicked Sensual Care

Uberlube

XR Brands/Creature Cocks

Coochy Shave Cream

NS Novelties

Podcast-A-Palooza

Hedonism II

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The swinging lifestyle is fraught with pitfalls and challenges for the strongest of relationships, but one of the biggest challenges (and fears) couples face is the emotional connection that can occur as these relationships deepen.  We were joined by Scott & April from Naughty Gym to wade into these dangerous waters for relationships and some of the specific challenges they present...if it's not "lifestyle," and it's not "Poly..." what is it?

Be Better @ Being Bad Week

Casual Swinger Week

Hedonism II Resort

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