Room 77 Swinger Podcast | Lifestyle Podcast For Swingers

Temptation Resort has always been a little confusing (to us). It's not quite a lifestyle resort, not quite a vanilla resort. It's not clothing optional but also not exactly clothing required either. It somehow manages to exist in a category all its own without being creepy or weird, which is quite an accomplishment tbh.

It's not our first trip here, so before heading back, we made a list.

Are there actually lifestyle couples there? Are single guys really as bad as people say? How strict are the photo rules? What can you wear right to the edge of "OMG what is she wearing?" Where can you wear it? And what happens if you decide the balcony is part of your 'bedroom'? There are also a few Temptation urban legends we've heard for years that seemed overdue for some highly unscientific testing.

We packed up our gear and travelled to the site they call: Temptation Cancun Resort.

Four days later, we came home tired, tan and mildly traumatized, but with actual answers to some of the questions. Some are and will forever be the mystery that Temptation Resort is.

Along the way, we talk about why Temptation is hard to define, who we think actually enjoys it most, and why the difference between watching the party and becoming part of it may be the whole point. And how to enjoy it most depending on what kind of personality you have.

Pack something inappropriate. It's another trip through Room 77.

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A romantic anniversary getaway to a vanilla resort sounds lovely—until you realize everything is boring. It took a reptile assault for a stranger just to speak to us.

This month, we’re talking about the lifestyle experiences that intrigue us but still scare the hell out of us. Richard considers the questionable sights, smells, and surprise taints of a blackout room, while Lauren wonders whether she could survive being the anonymous attraction on the other side of a ‘female buffet wall”.

We climb into the lifestyle DeLorean and ask our members: “If you could go back and give your brand-new lifestyle self one piece of advice, what would it be?” The answers range from advice regarding confidence, rules, and using your voice, Oh. Also no one cares. Lauren unveils her new tatas while talking about getting groped by her doctor.

Great Scott—it’s another trip through Room 77.

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This week starts with one of those stories that makes everyone stop and go, "Wait... what?"

A listener shares a hookup that took a turn he never saw coming, leaving Richard with about a hundred questions, Lauren with a few clinical observations, and all of us wondering how we'd react if we found ourselves in the exact same situation.

From there, things somehow get even more interesting.

Haley joins us because she's trying to do something that terrifies most people in the lifestyle—pick up a complete stranger who isn't in it. Is there a right way to tell someone you're happily married but your husband already knows you're interested? Richard coaches her through his favorite pickup strategy, Lauren weighs in, and everyone agrees there's a very real chance this could either end in fireworks or become the most awkward gym experience of all time.

Along the way we dive into attraction, labels, bisexuality, the overlap between the lifestyle and the LGBTQ+ community, why these conversations aren't always as simple as they seem, and why Richard somehow manages to turn every serious discussion into an argument about penis depth.

Oh... and Lauren has new boobs.

• Can you tell if someone is flirting with you?
• Would you ever hook up with someone outside the lifestyle?
• The biggest mistakes people make approaching "vanilla" couples.
• EVENTS- SIN OCTOBER 2026
• FLIRT FEBRUARY 2027

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We had a theory.

If we wanted to get better at hosting MFM experiences before our October event, maybe we should stop overthinking it and start practicing.

So we did what any responsible adults would do...We recruited single guys off X. What could possibly go wrong?

In this episode, we compare two very different experiences. One guy showed up late, brought a little too much confidence, and reminded us why single men get a bad reputation. The other arrived with a completely different energy and ended up giving us one of the hottest MFM experiences we've had in a very long time.

Along the way we talk about:

• Why sourcing people online is far harder than most couples think
• The questions we ask before inviting someone into our home
• The difference between confidence and entitlement
• Why chemistry matters more than muscles
• Lauren's thoughts on being the center of attention in an MFM
• Why Richard prefers MFM over most foursomes
• What actually makes a great third
• Black lights, puck lights, and accidental lifestyle science
• The psychology behind why some experiences feel electric and others fall completely flat

Joining us is Haley, who helps us break down the female perspective, why MFM dynamics can feel so different from traditional foursomes, and why being surrounded by masculine energy is such a turn-on for some women.

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1. Richard and Lauren move to explore the "throuple" concept to save their marriage. The qualification list is so extensive, sexist and maybe illegal that they may have to wait for AI technology to fill the position. They finally settle on a common ground solution that lacks any moral compass.
2. We interview our “Throuple Expert”, KC, whose relationship perspective is in much contrast to our perfect throuple expectations.
3. KC explains how "friends with benefits" can morph into something with real feelings and jealousy, how their life got better, and how it changes the dynamics at social gatherings.
4. Have you ever considered having a third that is more serious in your relationship? Comment below and let us know! Maybe we aren't the only shallow couple out there.
5. Come join us in October, not September like Richard said, for SIN. More info here. We are still accepting a few single, vetted, guys for this one. Apply here.

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1. In-house BDSM expert Haley, a "Brat," hosts with us while hubby, Daddy Steve, is too busy not listening on a nearby couch.
2. Lauren and Richard discover more about the world BDSM, learn terms like 'brat' and 'rope bunny', and get inspired to practice what they've learned.
3. Richard's knotting abilities are far from Shibari, but the Kush Kube has Lauren feeling like Richard is doing everything right. Except for maybe spitting?
4. Brat Haley rates our play. She doesn't sound impressed, but she does seem willing to work with us newbies!
5. Lauren opens up and describes exactly what she wants out of BDSM. Turns out she want to do NOTHING.
6. Richard tests out his perfect "safe word." it doesn't get great responses from the panel of judges.

#oopsie

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• We are back from our event, FLIRT, and finally recovered. If you have FOMO, strap in for interviews with guests about sex, hook-ups and the overall vibe.
• We also have ChatGPT come up with very unbiased questions. (did we tho?) We have a member, and fellow FLIRT attendees, interview us so we keep everything fair and balanced about our own event.
• We kick off the first night by forgetting the champagne for the "Champagne Shower Striptease"! #DOBETTER
• Richard appoints himself as the "Queen of Dragons" because his mind equates masturbation to dragons.
• Lauren needs really straight-forward flirting techniques. C'mon people, just touch her!
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• Richard gets a little sad watching the guests have so much fun, hoping one day he will be able to attend his own event.
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Thanks to all our Patreons who's schedule lined up for this episode! We had a blast despite Telegram's "raise your hand" silliness. We are going to do it again, next time on Zoom, with more of a heads-up. We hope you cancel all plans for us next time!

1. This episode we use our Phone-A-Friend option and go out to you guys (our Patreons) to help us answer questions.
2. We judge each other from across the bed and decide what the other can do better. Lauren's suggestions might get Richard slapped in the face.
3. We come up with some "Rules of Thumb" regarding sex position, giving oral, flirting and more.
4. We announce our next events –
5. SIN in October 2026 and FLIRT in February 2027!
6. Come and book early to receive the pre-sale discount to cover free round trip transportation. We are keeping prices low, so you can continue to have a clothing-optional, lifestyle vacation in Mexico!
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1. Congrats! We hit a milestone!! Celebrate with us and listen to how we punish ourselves for failing yet again. Worst swingers ever. 
2. We revisit our LIVE AnaAnalAnal episode, because after 5 years, it’s the only way Richard will get anal play
3. LIVE AIR-TIGHT PRACTICE - the air tight objective begins - can Lauren be artificially air tight to prepare for the real thing? Practice makes you a better swinger, so Lauren brings out the bagadicks and lube. 
4. Richard straps on a penis sheath and obtains the penis size he always wanted and tries it out LIVE in the name of science. We’re not sure if he’s ever going to take it off. 
5. Single Guys put in your applications now for the "Five Guys" opportunity at our October 2026 event.

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• From our new and final studio, we share our pimped out penthouse Temptation cruise experience.
• Richard uses the view from the suite's living room to "penis judge" the clothing-optional guests below, gathering more data for his obsession. We interview guests about what they think is average vs large sized junk.
• Sex before dinner? Yes, please. We're good at scheduling sex, not so great at filming it.
• When the music is loud, we can only flirt with couples by dancing near them. What do women expect when "dance flirting" with men on the dance floor?
• We tour the TEMPTATION playroom on the cruise, which quickly became an awkward porn-corn maze we had to escape.
• We entice a couple to the room with cookies and a jacuzzi. Have a foursome with some silent cummers. Richard chooses a random body part to cum on.
• We interview guests whether they prefer cum distance or volume.

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