One listener has found out about her neighbour's second life dressing up as a woman and being intimate with other men online, and has reached out to Brenda and Julie for advice on telling his wife. As usual Brenda tries to balance her belief that the messenger always gets shot with her need to speak out when there's something on her mind.

They also hear from a girl, who has recently noticed a whiff off her boyfriend of two years and is struggling to get him to understand that her subtle hints about body odour are more than jokes. Julie and Brenda get the ick from the email, but do their best to offer her some solutions.

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