A listener is looking for Julie and Brenda's advice when her confidence is knocked after seeing porn in her husbands search history, and Brenda insists that it's only natural and better than him lying to say he doesn't watch it at all! Meanwhile, another listener wonders if she should speak up and tell her friend that she deserves better than her boyfriend who makes no effort in their relationship.

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