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I didn’t want to write this article. I wanted to write something like “how to throw caution to the wind and make art that scares you”. The problem is I’ve already written that. Many times. There is an equally valid perspective about how great art gets made, and it’s not sexy. It starts with two words. […]

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I often meet people who hear discoveries about life and instantly compare them to teachers, religions or philosophies they are familiar with. They are like an encyclopedia of theories, and everything can be referenced in the library of their memory. They will say things like “that sounds like Zen” or “that’s what Eckhart Tolle is saying” […]

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I’d like to share some good news. You are not loved. You are not safe. You are not whole. You are not successful. You are not enough. You are not worthy. When we affirm ourselves, we are playing into the agenda of our ego. We are shoring up the walls that hold our identity in tact. […]

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“You shouldn’t be teaching” This weekend I got a curious piece of feedback. A woman, who has been teaching and facilitating a lot longer than Paula and I, said we shouldn’t be teaching. She wanted me to know that we don’t have the experience necessary to be teaching or leading events and that my “relationship clearly needs work”. […]

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I’ve decided to do my best today, even if my best sucks. I’m behind on my projects, not feeling creative, and everything I write I’m throwing in the trash, but you know what? I’m going to do my best, and know that whatever happens, it was the best I could do. Some days what I […]

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I’m going to make a bold, over-generalized statement to get your attention that only someone as privileged as me can make about making art. You should never make art for the money. In today’s society with the abundance that we often take for granted, we sacrifice our art too early and too often. I’m not saying don’t […]

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You have to be willing to get your heart broken to fall in love. If romance is a tree, the relationships we want are at the end of the branches, where you might fall, because it’s not safe. If life is like a carnival, love is the scariest ride. It has a line of eager […]

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This week, my wife Paula and I are doing something that means we are either extravagantly rich or about to get divorced. We are staying in separate rooms, in the same hotel. But here’s the thing. We’re not extravagantly rich, I don’t snore (much) and lately we’ve been more in love than ever. We learned two things […]

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When the earthquake happened, Paula and I were eating at a local restaurant in Pokhara, Nepal. There was some confusion, some scurrying and some laughter. It seems as if being in an earthquake is like being tickled. A little can be fun, but too much and we begin to panic. That’s why it seemed strange when […]

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I just celebrated something that most people would think is silly. I’m at a restaurant with internet that works and an outlet that has power to charge my laptop. This is a great moment (I’m not kidding). I’m in Pokhara Nepal, which is not a modern city by western standards. The other day I went to three different restaurants […]

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