Born To Be Her

Born To Be Her

By Fionnuala WylieEducationSelf-Improvement
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Born To Be Her episodes

  • You Are the Source of Your Abundance, Not the Mirror

    A quiet month can feel personal when you’re a spiritually led business owner. If you’ve ever looked at slower sales, fewer enquiries, or a launch that didn’t land and thought, “My energy must be wrong”, we get into why that belief can become a hidden pressure valve you keep tightening on yourself. I share how a true spiritual principle (the inner world shapes the outer world) can get twisted into a harsh worthiness test, and what it looks like to stop using your business as proof you’re aligned. 

    We talk about separating you from your business, because you are not your offers, your income, or your diary. Your business has seasons, just like you do: periods of flow and visibility, and quieter phases that invite refinement, rest, clearer messaging, or a new evolution. Those cycles are not a soul referendum, and they are not evidence that you have failed at mindset work. When you can meet external metrics with more neutrality, you stop spiralling into self-blame and start making clean, strategic choices from grounded self-trust. 

    We also name something many entrepreneurs need to hear: you can build a successful business while feeling fear, doubt, and uncertainty. You don’t need perfect energy to be “allowed” to receive clients or money. The takeaway I want you to leave with is simple: you are the source, not because you did the inner work perfectly, but because you decide you’re worthy regardless of outcomes. If this lands, subscribe, share with a friend who’s been second-guessing themselves, and leave a review so more people can find the show.


    Join us for The Sacred Upgrade Here: https://www.infinniteyou.com/the-sacred-upgrade

    13 min
  • The Soul Of Your Business: An Interview With Sammie Fleming

    We explore what it means to treat your work as a relationship by connecting with the soul of your business rather than forcing outcomes through willpower. We share simple listening practices, what to do with silence, and how this approach changes decision-making, especially through the real constraints of motherhood and shifting seasons. 
    • recognising your business as a separate entity with its own blueprint 
    • moving from being the sole driver to collaboration and co-creation 
    • feeling relief and truth while surrendering comparison and old plans 
    • starting with simple questions and building trust through repetition 
    • normalising silence and practising courage in the unknowing 
    • tuning into intuition through sensation, sound, imagery and emotion 
    • focusing on what matters most when time and capacity are limited 
    • holding both devotion to family and devotion to mission 
    • naming the call as divine responsibility and letting it carry you 

    If you have loved listening to this episode and would love to find a way in which to connect with Sami, I am going to share her website in the show notes below where she has a beautiful free offering that you can sign up to where you can receive a little recording to support you with this practice of connecting in with the soul of your business.

    Sign up to Sammies offering here: https://www.sammiefleming.com/all-offerings


    And if this topic of connecting in more deeply with yourself, with your niggle, with your mission, with the person you are becoming inside of it all with the work that you do, it's something that you would love to dive into in a deeper way, I have also recently launched a beautiful seven-day immersion called The Sacred Upgrade, where you will receive daily meditations for seven days along with journaling prompts to allow you to dive deeper into your connection with the woman that you are here to show up as in the world, inside of your work and inside of your business. This immersion is only going to be £27 for this first round. We begin on the 7th of September. And you can join us from anywhere in the world because everything is going to be pre recorded. 


    Here is the link: https://www.infinniteyou.com/thesacredupgrade





    32 min
  • Seen: The Inner Work Behind True Visibility as a Spaceholder

    We explore visibility as more than marketing, linking the ability to be seen with nervous system safety, inner trust, and devotion to the voice we are here to share. We share how fear patterns show up, why they make sense, and how we can gently expand our capacity to be witnessed in business and in life. 
    • defining visibility beyond consistency and platforms 
    • noticing the “cloak” of protection through beliefs and nervous system responses 
    • our lived journey from fear of speaking to sharing publicly and holding retreats 
    • using community and expanders to create belonging and safety 
    • meeting limiting stories with compassion and non-judgement 
    • challenging beliefs when you are regulated, not mid-trigger 
    • regulating through breath, yoga, and body-based practices 
    • exploring energy work and practitioners as support for deeper layers 
    If you haven't did so already, please go and like this podcast, give me a review. 
    please reach out in DMs. 
    if that is something that you are interested in, again, you can either hop into my DM, send me a little message, or hop onto my website, infinite you.com, and you can read all about coaching with me and sign up for a discovery call. 


    Website: https://infinniteyou.com/wellness-business-coaching


    23 min
  • Building an Online Business from Your In-Person Work

    If you're a yoga teacher, coach, or wellness practitioner who knows there's more you're here to offer — this episode is for you.

    I'm sharing the exact path I walked to move from teaching outdoor yoga in Sydney (weather-dependent, capped income, zero scalability) to building a business around freedom, consistent income, and doing the deeper work I was always called to do.

    We talk about:
    ✔️ Why in-person work hits a ceiling
    ✔️ Getting clear on your gifts and what you're most called to offer
    ✔️ Building systems that connect your community to you automatically
    ✔️ Making your next offer the most obvious, logical step for your clients

    19 min
  • How To Create True Success In Business

    We pull back the curtain on what really creates business success when strategy is not enough and pushing starts to feel like burnout. We focus on the internal work that makes success feel aligned, embodied, and steady even when results are uncertain.
    • strategy as a small part of sustainable success
    • subconscious beliefs driving behaviour behind your goals
    • noticing repeating thoughts during launches and visibility edges
    • building a new internal narrative that can hold uncertainty
    • staying curious without shame as the foundation for change
    • reading nervous system signals through breath and body sensations
    • regulating in the morning before emails and Instagram to set your day
    Please, if you're a listener and you have enjoyed this podcast, like it, share it with anyone who you think it might support, download it


    15 min
  • How Martine Dines Turned Adversity into Purpose

    We sit down with Martine Dines to talk about how a breast cancer diagnosis reshapes identity, priorities, and the meaning of success. We explore what it takes to drop autopilot, quiet the inner critic, and build a life that feels aligned, brave, and genuinely yours. 

    • her diagnosis as the catalyst for purpose-led change 
    • the pre-diagnosis “rat race” and chasing external validation 
    • people pleasing, perfection, and the “good girl” identity 
    • letting go of control and focusing on response 
    • learning to hear the inner voice over outside noise 
    • yoga, meditation, retreats, and daily gratitude journaling 
    • challenging the belief that life is inherently stressful 
    • values-based decisions, trade-offs, and choosing your own lane 
    • grieving the person you thought you’d be, then starting again 
    • how Martine coaches through values, beliefs, energy, and accountability 
    • breathwork and nervous system regulation as practical support 

    Connect with Martine via her website: https://www.martinedines.com/ or go on her Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/martinedines/


    38 min
  • Making Space for What Is Meant for You

    We explore Ishvara Pranidhana and how surrender to a higher power can coexist with devoted action. We share prompts to spot control, reframe beliefs, and create space so timing and support can meet your effort.

    • yoga as a path beyond the physical
    • Ishvara Pranidhana defined as surrender to something greater
    • loosening the grip on outcomes without apathy
    • spotting pressure points through a simple life audit
    • examining beliefs that tie worth to results
    • balancing aligned action with trust in timing
    • business example reframed from fear to service
    • anchoring beliefs to steady the mind
    • practical pauses to reset energy
    • invitation to reflect and share insights

    Please come and say hi in my DMs on Instagram. I will pop the link below this episode to take you to the retreat page where you can have a read of it and have a feel into whether it might be something that would support you right now:


    https://infinniteyou.com/greeceretreat


    15 min

About Born To Be Her

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Born to be HER is the podcast for women who are ready to rise into the life they truly desire. This is your space to remember that you actually can—despite the stories you carry, the self-doubt…