When parents fight, children don’t just hear the noise — they feel the pain.

In this opening episode of Why You Dey Tell Pikin Adult Story, Bosslady talks honestly about the silent damage caused when adults unload emotional pain onto children. From careless statements like “See your papa” or “Na your mama spoil everything”, to late-night crying in front of a child, this episode breaks down how adult bitterness becomes childhood trauma.

Through real-life scenarios and relatable Pidgin conversations, this episode exposes how children:

Absorb tension even when parents are silent

Begin to blame themselves for adult problems

Carry emotional burdens they are not equipped to handle

This is a powerful wake-up call for mothers and fathers to stop using children as emotional dumping grounds and start protecting their peace.

Because every time a child is pulled into adult conflict, their innocence pays the price.

🎧 Listen with an open heart — and be ready to reflect, adjust, and heal.

This episode is for the woman who has done the work — the healing, the reflecting, the letting go.

In “The Rise — Living as a High-Value Woman,” Bosslady reveals what happens when a woman stops chasing love and starts choosing herself. This episode defines what true value looks like beyond money, beauty, or approval — and why peace, clarity, and confidence become your new standards.

Key message:

In this episode, Bosslady explores how past experiences, childhood wounds, and emotional trauma can distort how women see themselves. When healing is ignored, women often accept disrespect and repeat unhealthy patterns without realizing it.

“Healing the Broken Mirror” explains why healing is not weakness but strength, and how breaking generational cycles is necessary to reclaim confidence and self-worth. Bosslady also highlights the spiritual side of healing, emphasizing the importance of restoring your inner image so you can see yourself the way God intended.

Key message:

This episode encourages women to face their wounds, heal intentionally, and rebuild their identity with clarity, peace, and purpose.

In this powerful episode of Know Your Worth — The Power of Self-Value, we confront a hard truth many people avoid:

Love without respect is not love — it is emotional manipulation.

Disrespect doesn’t always come as shouting or insults.

In Episode 3: Respect Is the Love Language of a Queen, Bosslady breaks down why women must stop normalizing disrespect and start honoring themselves at a deeper level.

How to recognize subtle forms of disrespect

Why silence, jokes, and neglect can be just as harmful as words

The difference between forgiveness and enabling bad behavior

The spiritual responsibility of honoring your body, mind, and boundaries

Why men naturally respect women who respect themselves

How self-respect protects your peace, confidence, and identity

“Every time you allow disrespect, you rewrite your worth in someone else’s eyes.”

If you’ve ever felt like you were “doing too much” for asking to be treated right — this episode will reset your mindset and restore your clarity.

In this powerful episode, BossLady breaks down one of the most important lessons every woman must learn:

👉🏽 The difference between how you FEEL about yourself… and who you truly ARE.

Self-esteem is emotional.

But self-value is your identity.

In this episode, you will learn:

Why self-esteem is unstable

How self-value gives you confidence even on your “off days”

Why many women confuse attention for worth

How to stop letting likes, texts, or relationships define you

Practical steps to build unshakable self-value

BossLady delivers humor, truth, and deep insight in a way only she can — helping every listener understand why your feelings may change, but your worth must NEVER drop.

✨ If you want to stop depending on validation and start moving like a Queen, this episode is a MUST-LISTEN.

Sis, let’s talk about those moments —

Here’s the truth: every woman gets tested.

In this episode, Temitope Ajimotokan — your BossLady mindset coach, sister, mentor and cheerleader in purpose — dives deep into how women unknowingly train people how to treat them.

Because when you accept disrespect, you teach it.

✨ Tune in, take notes, and remind yourself:

Welcome to BossLady Mindset: Built to Rise — the podcast for faith-driven women ready to lead, grow, and glow in purpose and power. I’m Temitope Ajimotokan — entrepreneur, mentor, sister, mother, woman of God… and the voice you didn’t know you needed in your weekly routine.

Let’s start with the truth. I didn’t wake up a BossLady. I watched with pain how much is expected from women in all aspects of life, and how women lose themselves in the process of becoming who they are expected to be.

But that pain? It birthed purpose.

That season? It refined my soul.

This podcast was born from that fire.

I created BossLady Mindset because I didn’t see enough spaces where real women could grow and still keep their faith, their edge, and their softness.

You don’t have to choose between being successful and being spiritual.

You can be wealthy and humble.

Confident and kind.

Each week, I’ll pour into you the way I wish someone had poured into me. Real talk. Real strategies. Real transformation.

This is for the woman who’s tired of shrinking.

The woman with the idea she’s been sitting on for 3 years.

The woman who’s leading the family, the business, the team — but still second-guessing herself at night.

Sis, you’re not alone. And you are NOT crazy.

You were just made for more. I see you. I am you. And I’m going to walk with you every single episode, until you see what I see in you.

💬 BOSS AFFIRMATION (Repeat After Me Style)

"I was made for this. My mind is my strongest weapon. My season of hiding is over. I am not afraid to shine."