The Resolution Room

Boundaries Are Not Barriers: Redefining Limits as Acts of Care


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In this conversation, Dr. Nashay Lowe explores the importance of setting boundaries in relationships, emphasizing that boundaries are not about rejection but about protection and sustainability. She discusses the guilt associated with saying no, the need for clear communication, and how boundaries can actually strengthen connections rather than weaken them. Through practical advice and insights, Dr. Lowe encourages listeners to view boundaries as a means of fostering healthier relationships and self-respect.


Key Takeaways

  • Boundaries are essential for sustainability in relationships.
  • Saying no is not a rejection but a recognition of limits.
  • Guilt often arises from confusing self-respect with selfishness.
  • Clear communication of needs strengthens relationships.
  • Boundaries should be seen as invitations, not punishments.
  • Avoiding boundaries leads to confusion and resentment.
  • Practicing boundaries requires clarity and care in communication.
  • Boundaries help maintain connection rather than create distance.
  • Growth comes with discomfort, especially in setting boundaries.
  • Boundaries are bridges that foster deeper connections.


References

  • Brown, B. (2018). Dare to lead: Brave work. Tough conversations. Whole hearts. Random House.
  • Orbuch, T. L. (2009). 5 simple steps to take your marriage from good to great. Delacorte Press.
  • Tawwab, N. G. (2021). Set boundaries, find peace: A guide to reclaiming yourself. TarcherPerigee.

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