Bourbon & Boyshorts

Listen as we sit down with Davonne D'neil and unpack her latest project "Skin Tone Brown". Davonne shares how she wrote her first song and why Delaware State is were the "Culture" lived during her college years. We spend time in the studio as she shows us her techniques for layering her vocals while we learn the science of the studio versus the art form of live performance.

Who are you when you’re sober? Do you like yourself sober? When was the last time you you can honestly say you were sober? Do you like your partner when they’re sober? More importantly can you eat a salad together (27:15)...

Listen as we sit down with Jay7d the "Coochie Cleaner" and break down what it means to “live something twice(21:01).

Did you know: Vaginal steaming releases soul ties

Question of the night: “What’s your I am?”

All women who are looking to be married should ask these two simple questions before wasting their time, “Are you considering marrying me? What would it take for you to marry me...”

At some point you have to ask yourself If what you’re doing isn’t working, then fwhat are you going to do different in dating?

Listen as we discuss what it means to apologize and when a apology becomes a red flag. Can you love someone when they are not loveable

Watch the energy transferred to you during sex, it may ruin your day.

Women choose who to date and who to sleep with, men choose who they’ll marry.

Trust the feeling in your gut....

Listen as we sit down with Julius and Julian, the tap dancing duo of the Money Takers. We hear their new song “New New” and get a lesson on booking “Bad Mamas”.

More than tapping the Twins are In two upcoming movies, “Time Matters” and “Color Blind”

Did you Know:

Their first drama teacher was Shemar Moore

Their First instrument was the steel drum

Their first tap instructor was Savion glover

Closing Question: “Are you Ready for greatness?”

Getting to the sweet spot of a marriage or relationship... Are you comfortable in the struggles of a relationship and uncomfortable in the peace.

Listen as we discuss relationships and ask the tough question, “Can you love me when I’m unloveable?”

Should your wife get in the backseat of your car when your mother is around? Is that a metaphor for a deeper issue you may be having.....

“You need to be a man”, what does that mean when a woman says it and why is the relationship at stake when a women is upset?

It’s not my job to make you happy. If I don’t make you happy, you’re not happy. “If you’re not doing for your, why should I?” Do you agree or disagree?

Can you romantically love someone and not like them. We thinks so, do you?

“Dating isn’t a tradition, it’s a culture; more then a necessity...”

Listen as we discuss our quarantine eating bits and what happens when you eat 4 McChickens and a 20 piece.

We reach back to “Entanglements” and ask the question, Are you entangled if you agree to it?

Listen as we sit down with Ernest Third as he describes how his music has grown as he did. Ernest ask an introspective question that makes the room stop and think ....”Is happiness obtainable?”

“What verse changed your life...?

If you could write one verse that a million black woman would here, what would it be?

“Know your worth/ Even is it’s empty in your skirts”

-Ernest Third

Do you have a certain.... how do you say, "je ne sais quoi".

Listen as we discuss the idea that "everyone at the bar is equal" (6:17). How can you break through a person's representative and meet who they really are? What steps do you tale? (21:15).

What are appropriate first date questions? What do you do during those awkward moments? Coupons on the first date, yes or no? (26:08).

Vice Versa: what are your vices and what do they say about you? (31:30)

Soooo a young lady shot her shot in our DM's. Is shooting a shot in the DM, but not having pictures posted a problem? When a stranger shoots their shot, what should you do? (35:40).

[Warning]: This episode got us in a lot of trouble.

Listen as we sit down with the family and welcome first time Cousin Bri!

We touch on the The levels of women’s friendships and if it’s possible for a woman to reduce the access others have to her without throwing also ruining a friendship.

We touch on what does it mean to “have it all together” and is it fair/possible to date someone who doesn’t have their life figured out.

We talk about the “Cocaine feeling” love can bring and how to navigate that into a true dating experience and see a person for who they fully are and not just through Rose colored glasses.

Listen as we has a in depth dialogue about the sitcoms we watched growing up. We breakdown the role Carl played in his house hold as the Father in "Family Matters" and compare it to Bill Cosby's character Heathcliff. We analyze the dynamic between Will and Carlton in "Fresh Prince" while asking the questioning the emasculation in the depiction of the black father on TV.