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Bragging rights (and wrongs)

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Episode summary
Welcome back to the WorkWell Podcast! In this episode, Dulcie and Yemisi are tackling a topic that makes many of us squirm - bragging. Why does sharing your wins feel so awkward, and why is it actually critical for growth? They break down the stigma around self-promotion, explore why visibility matters, and offer practical tips to help you own your brilliance without cringing.

If you’ve ever downplayed your achievements or felt uncomfortable taking credit for your hard work, this episode will shift your mindset and give you the tools to advocate for yourself with confidence.


What we talked about:

  • Why bragging feels hard: From cultural expectations to imposter syndrome, discover the common barriers that make self-promotion uncomfortable, especially for women and underrepresented groups.
  • The importance of visibility: How being seen and heard can unlock new opportunities, build credibility, and boost confidence.
  • The WorkWell Bragging Framework: Learn the 3 P’s - Pride, Purpose, and Presentation - for sharing your achievements authentically.
  • Overcoming fear: Practical advice for dealing with the fear of sounding boastful, being judged, or feeling like an imposter.


    • Tips for bragging without the ick:

    1. Own your achievements: Write down recent accomplishments and reflect on their impact, big or small.
    2. Know your ‘why’: Tailor your message based on your audience and what you want to achieve.
    3. Keep it authentic: Use your own voice, and don’t be afraid to infuse personality and vulnerability where it feels right.
    4. Shift the focus: Frame your successes around impact, growth, and lessons learned, not just outcomes.
    5. Practice makes progress: The more you do it, the easier it gets. Start small and build your confidence over time.


      6. Try this: share one win this week
      Challenge yourself to share one recent achievement - whether it’s at work, with a friend, or even in a journal. Notice how it feels to articulate your success, and reflect on any shifts in your confidence.


      Resources mentioned:
      Brag Better by Meredith Fineman

      Daring Greatly by Brené Brown

      Lean In by Sheryl Sandberg

      The Confidence Code by Katty Kay & Claire Shipman

      Lift As You Climb by Viv Groskop

      The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins


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      Connect with us

      We’d love to hear your brags, big or small! Email us at [email protected] or share your stories with us on social media. Search for @thisisworkwell on Instagram, Facebook and LinkedIn.


      Next week’s episode:
      Is imposter syndrome as real as we think? Or is it masking something deeper? Join us as we explore its roots, impact, and how to rewrite the narrative.


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