Unlocking the Parenting Code: All About Boys

Brains, Boys & Behaviour


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Welcome back to Unlocking the Parenting Code: All About Boys! I’m your host, Kathy, and today we’re diving into the fascinating world of neuroscience, hypnotherapy, and parenting with Claire Noyelle.

Claire began her career as a pharmacist but transitioned into solution-focused hypnotherapy nearly a decade ago, blending science and brain-informed strategies to help young people—especially those with neurodivergent diagnoses—build confidence, resilience, and a future they’re excited about.

As a single mom of three, including a son with ADHD and autism, Claire brings both personal and professional expertise to understanding how our brains work and how we can harness that knowledge to support our children. In this episode, we discuss the role of hormones in boys' development, how neuroscience can inform parenting, and the biggest misconceptions about boys' emotional and cognitive growth.Claire also shares her journey from pharmacist to hypnotherapist, her experiences raising a neurodivergent child, and the power of mindset in parenting.

 Guest Bio

Claire Noyelle is a pharmacist and a solution-focused clinical hypnotherapist based in the UK. She specializes in working with teenagers and young people, often those with neurodivergent diagnoses, helping them build resilience, confidence, and a strong sense of self. With over 30 years of experience in the healthcare field, Claire combines her knowledge of neuroscience and mental health to empower both parents and young people. She is also a lecturer at the prestigious Clifton Practice Hypnotherapy Training (CPHT) and offers training in mental resilience and well-being to various organizations.

As a mother of three—two boys and a girl—Claire has firsthand experience navigating the challenges of parenting, particularly raising a son with ADHD and autism. Her work is deeply rooted in understanding how the brain functions and using that knowledge to support individuals in unlocking their full potential. 

Key Topics & Links

 Understanding Testosterone & the Male Brain

  • Testosterone acts as a magnifier—intensifying emotions and traits like strength, assertiveness, and risk-taking.
  • The male brain undergoes drastic changes between childhood, adolescence, and adulthood, with executive function developing later than in girls.
  • There’s a widespread lack of understanding about how hormones impact boys' emotional and cognitive development.

From Pharmacist to Hypnotherapist: Claire’s Journey

  • How Claire’s interest in hypnotherapy began as an add-on to her pharmaceutical career.
  • Why solution-focused hypnotherapy proved to be more effective for many of her clients than traditional medication alone.
  • The key differences between meditation and hypnosis.

Raising Boys as a Single Mom

  • The unique challenges of raising three children, including a neurodivergent son.
  • How the education system often fails to accommodate boys’ needs.
  • The impact of teenage sleep cycles and how it affects learning and behavior.

Supporting a Neurodivergent Child

  • Claire’s biggest “aha” moment: Understanding that her son’s brain works differently from hers.
  • How learning about neurodiversity helped her adjust her expectations and parenting approach.
  • The greatest gifts of raising a neurodivergent child—developing empathy, respect, and deeper understanding.

The Teenage Brain & Risk-Taking Behavior

  • Why teenage boys are more impulsive and driven toward risk-taking.
  • The role of dopamine and testosterone in decision-making and thrill-seeking behaviors.
  • How parents can support boys in making better choices without suppressing their natural tendencies.

The Future of Neuroscience & Mental Health for Young People

  • The importance of researching how hormones affect development.
  • Shifting the narrative about today’s youth—why they’re not lazy or entitled, but full of curiosity and potential.
  • The power of collaboration and learning from young people rather than making assumptions.

Claire’s “User Manual” for Raising Happy, Resilient Boys

  • Spend time learning what they love and find shared interests.
  • Allow them to try different things without expecting them to stick with everything.
  • Treat them with love and respect.

Final Advice for Parents

  • If you’re struggling, don’t be afraid to ask for help.
  • Learn about how your child thinks and feels to better support them.
  • Give yourself grace—parenting isn’t about getting everything right the first time. Mistakes are part of the journey.

 Links:

www.inspiredtochange.biz/

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https://www.instagram.com/inspiredtochange_claire/

https://www.linkedin.com/in/claire-noyelle/

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Unlocking the Parenting Code: All About Boys

Welcome to Unlocking the Parenting Code: All About Boys

This season, we’re diving deep into the world of boys—exploring what it takes to raise them to become remarkable young men. Hosted by Kathy Imabayashi, an experienced educator and passionate advocate for boys’ emotional well-being, this podcast offers real-life stories, expert insights, and practical strategies for parents, educators, and caregivers navigating the unique challenges of raising boys.

What to Expect

In Season 2, we’re focusing on boys' emotional worlds—understanding their behavior, building stronger connections, and helping them grow into confident, resilient individuals. Through heartfelt conversations and shared experiences, we’ll uncover the struggles, joys, and breakthroughs of parenting boys.

Each episode offers:

*Stories from parents, teachers, and caregivers that shed light on the complexities of raising boys.

*Strategies to support boys in managing emotions, forming healthy relationships, and building self-esteem.

*Insights that will empower you in understanding how to nurture the boy in your life and set him up for success.

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Whether you're raising a toddler, a teen, or anywhere in between, this season is all about celebrating and supporting boys—and the parents who guide them. Tune in for heart-centered conversations, expert advice, and practical tools to unlock the parenting code for boys.Share your parenting story with us here. Visit SonhoodCoaching.com to learn more and subscribe!

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