Brandon The Dom

By Brandon The Dom

Hey, I’m Brandon the Dom. I am a sex and relationship coach - and I want to guide you towards deeper connection, kinky and wild sex, and fulfilling emotional intimacy. Together, we will explore your b... more

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How many episodes does Brandon The Dom have?

The podcast currently has 86 episodes available.

Brandon The Dom episodes:

July 31, 2026BDSM Q&A: Switching, 24/7 Lifestyle, Learing to be a Dom or sub
Join Brandon the Dom for an AMA session covering switching, 24/7 dynamics, authority transfer, and learning how to be a Dom or sub. Get clear answers.
This July AMA session focuses on community questions submitted via YouTube and the Red Room. Instead of short text replies, Brandon provides detailed explanations on complex topics within kink education. This session is designed for anyone seeking a deeper understanding of boundaries and communication in power dynamics.
Subscribe for weekly kink education breakdowns, and comment your own questions below to have them answered in the next session.
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👉 Join Community: https://www.brandonthedom.com/red-room
👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching
👉 Assertive Desires: https://www.brandonthedom.com/assertive-desires-masterclass
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TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:
(00:00) - Intro
(00:22) - Q1: How to switch in scenes
(04:57) - Q2: 24/7 dynamics and authority transfer
(16:02) - Q3: Learning to be a Dom or sub

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FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:
▶️ June Q&A: https://youtu.be/B_bN6i22Zy8
▶️ Q&A Playlist: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLvESfrB2ULYyzLCGAgjFx4zDia_6T5ohR
📖 Primal Play: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/primal-play
📖 Protocols: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/bdsm-protocols
...more
22min
July 29, 2026Objectification in BDSM: The Art of Becoming a Useful Tool
Curious why some people enjoy objectification in BDSM? Objectification in BDSM is the consensual practice of temporarily treating a partner as an object, tool, or possession within a negotiated power exchange. Unlike harmful objectification in everyday life, BDSM objectification takes place within a container of trust, communication, and ongoing consent, allowing both partners to safely explore themes of service, utility, and desire. This guide explains what objectification is, how it differs from degradation and humiliation, why people enjoy it, and how to explore it responsibly through clear boundaries, emotional intimacy, and thoughtful aftercare.
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👉 Join Community: https://www.brandonthedom.com/red-room
👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching
👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance
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TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:
(00:00) - Intro
(01:24) - What Is Objectification?
(06:24) - Why Might a Submissive Engage in Objectification?
(09:20) - Why Might a Dom Engage in Objectification?
(11:11) - How to Engage in Objectification
(14:20) - Types of Objectification

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FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:
🔥 Objectification Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/objectification
📖 Degradation: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/degradation-kink
📖 Roleplay: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/roleplay-sex
📖 Pain Kinks: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/pain-kink
📖 Cockwarming: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/cockwarming
📖 Facefucking: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/face-fucking
📖 Dom Mindset: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/dominant-mindset
...more
23min
July 29, 2026BDSM Protocols Explained: Low, Medium, and High Protocol Made Practical
What are BDSM Protocols, and how do you use them without overwhelming your relationship? BDSM protocols are agreed-upon behaviors that guide how a Dom and submissive interact in specific situations, helping them express their power exchange consistently without disrupting everyday life. Unlike rules, which provide ongoing expectations, protocols are context-dependent "if/then" agreements that adapt the dynamic to different environments, relationships, and levels of formality. This guide explains what BDSM protocols are, how they differ from rules and rituals, the meaning of low, medium, and high protocol, and how to create a flexible protocol system that strengthens your dynamic while remaining practical and sustainable.
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👉 Free Sex Menu with 350+ Acts: https://www.brandonthedom.com/resources/sex-menu-template
👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching
👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance
👉 Discipline Masterclass: https://www.brandonthedom.com/discipline-masterclass
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TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:
(00:00) - Intro
(02:11) - What Is Protocol in BDSM?
(05:47) - Low vs. Medium vs. High Protocol
(10:19) - Why Protocol Matters
(11:36) - Step 1: Establish the Dynamic
(17:11) - Step 2: Draft Protocols & Code of Conduct
(25:13) - Step 3: Negotiate
(26:10) - Step 4: Implement
(29:29) - Step 5: Adjusting the Code of Conduct

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FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:
🔥 Protocol Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/bdsm-protocols
📖 Difficult Conversations: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/difficult-conversations
📖 Power Exchange: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/power-exchange
📖 Benefits of D/s: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/dom-sub-relationship
📖 Discipline: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/discipline
📖 Rewards: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/bdsm-rewards
📖 Punishments: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/bdsm-punishments
...more
32min
July 29, 2026How to Make BDSM Safer with Risk Profiles
Are you using a BDSM risk profile—or just hoping nothing goes wrong? A BDSM risk profile is a personal assessment of the physical, emotional, psychological, medical, and relational risks you're willing to accept when engaging in kink. Rather than trying to eliminate all risk, a thoughtful risk profile helps you make informed decisions, communicate your boundaries, and choose mitigation strategies that align with your values and comfort level. This guide explains how to identify and assess risks, reduce them through education and preparation, communicate your risk profile with partners, and engage in BDSM with greater confidence, responsibility, and awareness.
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👉 Free Sex Menu with 350+ Acts: https://www.brandonthedom.com/resources/sex-menu-template
👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching
👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance
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TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:
(00:00) - Intro
(01:47) - What Is a BDSM Risk Profile?
(03:03) - Why Are BDSM Risk Profiles Important?
(06:08) - Step 1: Identify the Risks
(10:44) - Step 2: Assess Those Risks for Yourself
(11:58) - Step 3: Build Your Capacity for Risk
(15:16) - Step 4: Risk Mitigation Strategies
(27:30) - Step 5: Communicate Your Risk Profile
(29:38) - Step 6: Monitor, Reassess, and Adjust
(30:37) - Putting BDSM Risk Profiles into Practice

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FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:
🔥 Risk Profile Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/risk-profile
📖 Difficult Conversations: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/difficult-conversations
📖 Trauma Support: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/trauma-support
📖 Subspace: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/subspace
📖 Subdrop: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/sub-drop
📖 Erotic Choking: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/choking
📖 Degradation: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/degradation-kink
📖 Ethical Non Monogamy: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/ethical-non-monogamy
📖 Vahatva’s Risk Evaluation Database: https://kinkbeyondlimits.com/risk-evaluation-database/
...more
33min
July 29, 2026Surrender to the Submissive Mindset: 5 Keys to Giving Up Control
Want to surrender without losing yourself? Discover how to use boundaries, trust, and consent to safely step into the submissive mindset and give up control with confidence.
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👉 Free Sex Menu with 350+ Acts: https://www.brandonthedom.com/resources/sex-menu-template
👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching
👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance
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TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:
(00:00) - Intro
(00:13) - Five Keys
(01:54) - Key 1: Identify Your Limits & Boundaries
(04:51) - Identifying Limits
(06:51) - Identifying Boundaries
(08:56) - Key 2: Submit to Someone You Trust & Respect
(12:56) - Key 3: Address Your Fears
(19:13) - Key 4: Allow Your Dom to Lead
(22:36) - Learning to Allow
(26:09) - Learning to Serve
(30:04) - Learning to Accept
(33:22) - Learning to Take
(35:41) - Key 5: Transitioning Into the Submissive Headspace

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FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:
🔥 Power Exchange Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/submissive-mindset
📖 Building Trust: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/building-trust
📖 Attachment Styles: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/attachment-style
📖 Traits of a Good Dom: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/what-is-a-good-dominant
📖 Service Sub: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/service-sub
📖 Service Top: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/service-top
📖 Brat Tamer: https://youtu.be/c3lctcLsM8Y
...more
39min
July 02, 2026BDSM Q&A: Edge Play, Dating, Learning to Be a Dom, Negotiation
Join Brandon the Dom for an AMA session covering consensual non-consent, edge play, and the nuances of free use. Get clear answers.
This June AMA session focuses on community questions submitted via YouTube and the Red Room. Instead of short text replies, Brandon provides detailed explanations on complex topics within kink education. This session is designed for anyone seeking a deeper understanding of boundaries and communication in power dynamics.
This video clarifies common misunderstandings regarding consensual non-consent and the practical application of edge play. You will gain a better perspective on how these dynamics function ethically and safely, moving beyond simple definitions to real-world context.
Subscribe for weekly kink education breakdowns, and comment your own questions below to have them answered in the next session.
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👉 Join Community: https://www.brandonthedom.com/red-room
👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching
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TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:
(00:00) - Intro
(00:15) - Q1: Edge Play
(06:48) - Q2: Dating on Vanilla Apps
(10:17) - Q3: Learning to be a Dom
(15:18) - Q4: Allowing Your Man To Be Dominant

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FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:
▶️ May Q&A: https://youtu.be/oDxXjHFu2CE
▶️ April Q&A: https://youtu.be/_5gtnGplc1c
▶️ March Q&A: https://youtu.be/OdcQpmAIYVI
▶️ Feburary Q&A: https://youtu.be/A2UV9c1aaIM
📖 Dominant Mindset: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/dominant-mindset
📖 Free Use: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/free-use-kink
📖 Difficult Conversations: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/difficult-conversations
📖 Risk Profiles: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/risk-profile
...more
21min
July 02, 2026Ultimate Guide to Power Exchange in Dom/sub Relationships
What is power exchange, and how can you create a D/s dynamic that actually works in real life? This in-depth guide breaks down power exchange from first principles and shows you how to design a consensual, fulfilling dynamic that serves both partners.
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👉 Free Sex Menu with 350+ Acts: https://www.brandonthedom.com/resources/sex-menu-template
👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching
👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance
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TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:
(00:00) - Intro
(01:10) - What is Power?
(02:41) - What is Power Exchange?
(06:36) - Three Types of Power Exchange
(13:06) - Partial Power Exchange vs. Total Power Exchange
(16:04) - Psychology of Power Exchange
(18:37) - Why Would Someone Give Over Power?
(20:56) - Why Would Someone Want Power?
(23:32) - When Seeking Power Goes Awry
(26:55) - How to Start a Power Exchange Relationship
(27:18) - Step 1: Understand Your Core Four
(39:27) - Step 2: Design the Dynamic
(45:27) - Step 3: Draft Rules & Code of Conduct
(56:47) - Step 4: Implement
(01:05:59) - Step 5: Adjusting the code of conduct

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FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:
🔥 Power Exchange Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/power-exchange
📖 Bondage: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/light-bondage
📖 Discipline: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/discipline
📖 Pain Kinks: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/pain-kink
📖 Subspace: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/subspace
📖 Benefits of D/s: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/dom-sub-relationship
📖 Illusion of Control: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/illusion-of-control
📖 Difficult Conversations: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/difficult-conversations
📖 Rewards: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/bdsm-rewards
📖 Punishments: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/bdsm-punishments
📖 Giving Feedback: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/submissive-communication
📖 Vahavta resources: https://kinkbeyondlimits.com/start-here-unhealthy-vs-healthy-tpe-and-dark-dynamics-rules-of-engagement-context-and-definitions/
...more
1h 10min
July 02, 2026Criticism is Killing Your Relationship (Even With Yourself)
Is constant criticism slowly eroding your relationship? Learn why criticism rarely gets your needs met, how to identify the real issues beneath your frustrations, and how shifting from blame to clear requests can transform communication, intimacy, and connection.
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👉 Join Community: https://www.brandonthedom.com/red-room
👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching
👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance
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TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:
(00:00) - Intro
(01:21) - What Is Criticism?
(02:55) - Why Do We Criticize?
(04:49) - Step 1: Look at Yourself
(13:56) - Step 2: Take Some Responsibility
(18:59) - Step 3: Ask for the Unspoken Need
(22:46) - Step 4: Appreciate Your Partner

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FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:
🔥 Criticism Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/criticism
📖 Illusion of Control: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/illusion-of-control
📖 Praise: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/praise-kink
📖 Shame: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/shame
📖 Attachment Styles: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/attachment-style
📖 Difficult Conversations: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/difficult-conversations
...more
27min
July 02, 2026A Dom's Essential Skills for Better Rough Sex
Want to do rough sex well? Learn what rough sex is, why people desire it, how to communicate safely, and the practical skills, mindset, and techniques that help create intense, consensual, deeply satisfying experiences.
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👉 Join Community: https://www.brandonthedom.com/red-room
👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching
👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance
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TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:
(00:00) - Intro
(00:17) - Why start with rough sex?
(02:34) - What is Rough Sex?
(03:52) - Rough sex vs Primal Play vs CNC
(05:52) - Why People Desire Rough Sex
(09:05) - Step 1: Mental Challenges
(15:03) - Step 2: Communicate
(18:18) - Step 3: Vanilla Plus
(19:49) - Step 4: Warm Up and Progression
(22:24) - Step 5: Dynamic, Varied Intensity
(24:25) - Step 6: Aftercare

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FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:
🔥 Rough Sex Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/rough-sex
📖 Dom vs Top: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/dom-vs-top-vs-rough-sex
📖 Primal Play: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/primal-play
📖 Pain Kinks: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/pain-kink
📖 Hair pulling: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/hair-pulling
📖 Choking: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/choking
📖 Spanking: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/spanking
📖 Slapping: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/face-slapping
📖 Biting: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/biting
📖 Manhandling: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/manhandling
📖 Facefucking: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/face-fucking
📖 Degradation: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/degradation-kink
📖 Shame: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/shame
📖 Dominant Mindset: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/dominant-mindset
📖 Building Scenes: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/bdsm-scene
📖 Subspace: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/subspace
📖 Subdrop: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/sub-drop
...more
28min
June 04, 2026BDSM Q&A: Monogamy vs Non-mongamy, Relationship Fits, How to Be a Switch
In this special video, I'm addressing your burning questions from sent to me and from the YouTube comments section, offering more detailed responses than a quick reply. Stay tuned for practical insights on navigating complex dynamics and fostering stronger connections in bdsm dynamics and relationships.
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👉 Join Community: https://www.brandonthedom.com/red-room
👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching
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TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:
(00:00) - Intro
(00:19) - Q1: Being Transparent About Preferences
(06:19) - Q2: Monogamy vs Non-monogamy
(11:04) - Q3: How to Switch from sub to Dom

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FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:
▶️ April Q&A: https://youtu.be/_5gtnGplc1c
▶️ March Q&A: https://youtu.be/OdcQpmAIYVI
▶️ Feburary Q&A: https://youtu.be/A2UV9c1aaIM
📖 Service Top: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/service-top
📖 Dominant Mindset: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/dominant-mindset
...more
17min

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