In this episode of Inner Peace, Better Health, host Sayan sits down with Tony Iezzi to unpack reenactments. Those unconscious emotional loops that make you overreact, repeat the same arguments in different relationships, and feel stuck in patterns you swear you “moved on” from. Tony explains how reenactments are triggered by themes like abandonment, mistrust, power, control, and feeling unseen. Not the surface-level event. He shares what 35 years inside a major hospital taught him: people often present a symptom, not the real issue. The conversation breaks down why these patterns hit hardest in adulthood, how avoidance keeps reenactments alive for decades, and what it actually takes to build new emotional habits that support mental health, relationships, and personal growth.

Tony Iezzi spent 35 years working inside a major hospital observing human behavior under stress. His work focuses on reenactments, emotional themes, and practical strategies for building healthier habits. He also has a book that expands on these ideas, with his website as the best starting point.

Reenactments are unconscious emotional loops. You repeat them daily even if you do not notice them.

The real trigger is usually the theme, not the event. Themes include abandonment, bullying, mistrust, authority, power, and control.

Strong reactions often signal an old sensitivity getting activated. Your nervous system responds faster than your logic.

What looks like an “adult problem” can be a childhood wound still running the script. If low self-worth started at 7 you have decades of practice reinforcing it.

Hospitals reveal reenactments everywhere, not just in relationships. Even routine procedures can trigger fear, abandonment, or entrapment themes.

People often treat symptoms while missing roots. Example: changing an external feature might not resolve an internal worth deficit.

“Moving on” is not a mindset trick. Processing emotions and building new habits is the work.

Avoidance is a growth killer. If you hide, numb, or stay silent the pattern repeats tomorrow, next year, and next decade.

The goal is not perfection. The goal is awareness plus new behavior: speak the hurt, ask directly, set boundaries, and approach hard conversations.

There is no shortcut. Reenactments do not end. You just get better at handling them with clarity and balance.

Book

Start there for his work, resources, and information about his book.

Some statements reflect personal belief and experiences and are presented as individual views, not medical advice. Listeners should consult qualified professionals for medical conditions.

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