Exploring the mother wound with my coach Amanda White! 

So excited to share with you an interview with my amazing coach Amanda White. She has helped me shed a light on areas I didn't realize needed further healing. She specializes in working with women to heal their narcissistic mother wound. I have gone through her program the Scapegoat Daughter's Guide-  where you'll learn how to release the shame, guilt, and paralyzing inner critic so you can finally become that secure, clear, and empowered woman who stops doubting her own reality and makes choices she feels great about it.

Break Up With Your Mother 

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00:37 Origins of Amanda’s company name Break Up With Your Mother

01:28 Why we need to Detox from the Narcissist

07:15 How we date the unavailability we know- Dating our parents

08:32 The double life we live with the narcissist

10:20 Our Self-worth and assurance with the Narcissist

14:40 What it means to mother yourself

16:00 How Amanda formed her program while living with her narcissist mom. 

23:42 The power in being vulnerable and sensitive. Working through the rage. 

30:43 The value of the present moment vs. our interpretation. 

31:57 Projection and the war zone

33:53 We lived needing permission from the narcissist. What Amanda Gives herself permission to do now. 

35:14 Amanda’s advice on getting out of your comfort zone. 

36:16 Avoidance vs boundaries. The ride or die. Why we bounce so quickly from relationship to relationship after the narcissist. 

44:34 Switching gears from focusing on the narcissist

47:40 The normalcy of accepting abuse as love from mothers

54:33 How Amanda feels about becoming a mom someday

1:00:33 The Normalcy of anxiety during narcissistic abuse.

1:01:55 Sacrifice as a choice

1:03:50 What it was like first owning her freedom after

1:06:52 Choosing self-love - Advice you need to hear to help you leave the narcissist

1:11:45 Being our own advocate- being proud of ourselves. 

1:14:00 Gaslighting

1:17:17 Seeing the narcissist as a human, person. Why is this so important? 

1:19:19 Amanda’s definition of a narcissist

1:21:21 Amanda’s Group- Break Up With Your Mother- The Community

1:23:57 Amanda’s new course out in 2020 and how to work with her.

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