Have you been silencing yourself, shrinking into rooms, and pretending to be okay just to keep the peace? That invisible tax you're paying—the energy spent maintaining a facade—is bankrupting your spirit.

The journey into understanding our hiding patterns often begins in childhood. For me, it started sitting in my father's closet after my parents divorced, eating sunflower seeds in silence because I lacked the language to express what I was feeling. That moment sparked a pattern: when something gets too hard, hide. Many of us weren't born afraid to be seen—this fear was taught through experiences of rejection, trauma, or cultural expectations.

Hiding takes many disguises: perfectionism that prevents action until everything looks flawless, people-pleasing that has you saying yes when your soul screams no, or staying perpetually busy to avoid sitting with yourself. But what's the real cost? It steals your clarity of purpose, prevents authentic connections, robs you of peace, closes doors to opportunities meant for the real you, stunts your growth, and ultimately threatens your legacy. You simply cannot build something lasting on a false foundation.

The path forward requires radical honesty—first with yourself. Name how you hide. Trace it back to its origins. Take small risks by speaking your truth. Understand you don't need to be "fixed" to be worthy of being seen. Build safety within yourself rather than seeking it externally. Choose truth over comfort, recognizing that while truth will stretch you, it will never betray you. You hold the key to your own cage.

Ready for a challenge? Come out of hiding, even just for a little while. Whisper your truth. Wear the bold color. Say the hard thing with love. You're not too much, you're exactly enough when you show up as the real version of you. You deserve not just to be seen, but celebrated.