Host Rosanna Gill opens up about the label she's felt the most shame about for the last 17 years of her life. 17 years of feeling like she was damaged goods that needed to be the good girl to make up for the shame she felt. 17 years too many.

In the first part of the 'A Different Perspective' series, host Rosanna Gill is joined by Lori Harris and Catharine Montgomery to discuss one listener's question as to why a man of color might put down other men of color and what it feels like and means to be told they (Lori and Catharine) are not like 'other blacks' and what that really means.