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What happens when we stop performing and start being real? After recording 100 episodes, I stepped back to ask myself what my soul needed to say next. The answer wasn't about going wider or louder—it was about going deeper.
That moment of clarity birthed the 40-Day Authenticity Challenge. Why 40 days? Because historically, spiritually, and personally, 40 represents transformation. Noah witnessed a world washed clean after 40 days of rain. Moses descended Mount Sinai after 40 days with newfound clarity and purpose. Jesus emerged from 40 days in the wilderness with unshakable authority. Each of these journeys teaches us something profound: you don't get to skip your wilderness and still walk in your purpose.
My own wilderness has been raw and revealing—navigating divorce, unexpected job loss, and over 400 job applications across a year without success. Yet even in this desert season, I've discovered that preparation happens before the trial. The savings account I built, the credit I maintained, the resilience I developed—all were preparing me for a season I didn't know was coming. The version of me walking out of this wilderness has more clarity, more authority, and a deeper understanding of purpose than I could have imagined.
For those approaching or navigating your 40s (whether in age or experience), something profound is shifting. It's time to stop needing to be liked and start needing to be honest. Time to stop chasing applause and start craving alignment. Time to rediscover who you were before the world told you who to be. This isn't about recreating a version of yourself that gets approval, but rediscovering the version that gives you peace.
Ready to begin your own 40-day journey? Follow me on Instagram @thehartshello, join our community of truth-seekers, and remember—this isn't hustle season. It's healing season. One honest action at a time.
By Keona T. EllerbeWhat happens when we stop performing and start being real? After recording 100 episodes, I stepped back to ask myself what my soul needed to say next. The answer wasn't about going wider or louder—it was about going deeper.
That moment of clarity birthed the 40-Day Authenticity Challenge. Why 40 days? Because historically, spiritually, and personally, 40 represents transformation. Noah witnessed a world washed clean after 40 days of rain. Moses descended Mount Sinai after 40 days with newfound clarity and purpose. Jesus emerged from 40 days in the wilderness with unshakable authority. Each of these journeys teaches us something profound: you don't get to skip your wilderness and still walk in your purpose.
My own wilderness has been raw and revealing—navigating divorce, unexpected job loss, and over 400 job applications across a year without success. Yet even in this desert season, I've discovered that preparation happens before the trial. The savings account I built, the credit I maintained, the resilience I developed—all were preparing me for a season I didn't know was coming. The version of me walking out of this wilderness has more clarity, more authority, and a deeper understanding of purpose than I could have imagined.
For those approaching or navigating your 40s (whether in age or experience), something profound is shifting. It's time to stop needing to be liked and start needing to be honest. Time to stop chasing applause and start craving alignment. Time to rediscover who you were before the world told you who to be. This isn't about recreating a version of yourself that gets approval, but rediscovering the version that gives you peace.
Ready to begin your own 40-day journey? Follow me on Instagram @thehartshello, join our community of truth-seekers, and remember—this isn't hustle season. It's healing season. One honest action at a time.