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Breaking the Silence: Why Talking About Sex Before You Have It Changes Everything


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Ever wonder when and how to bring up that conversation with someone new?

Andrea and Hannah dive headfirst into one of dating's most nerve-wracking moments for almost everyone: talking about sex with a new partner. Whether you're the type who finds it easier to be open with strangers or someone who clams up at the thought of discussing boundaries and desires, this conversation will resonate.

What You'll Discover:

  • Why having "the talk" early actually increases spontaneity (yes, really!)
  • The surprising difference between discussing safety vs. pleasure - and why both matter
  • How to navigate the discussion when one person talks about sex easily and the other person struggles
  • The magic of the 50/50 rule for keeping intimacy balanced
  • Why "what do you like?" can feel as overwhelming as "tell me your life story"
  • Practical tips for starting these conversations without killing the mood


From exploring your own pleasure identity to creating space for a partner who's never talked about sex before, this episode offers both the emotional permission and practical tools you need to transform awkward conversations into the foundation for incredible intimacy.

Ready to stop guessing and start communicating? Your future self (and your partners) will thank you.


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Lush LoveBy Andrea Balboni