Trigger warning: This episode contains discussions of suicide.
This week our host, Theo Clarke, is joined by Laura Kyrke-Smith MP, the Labour Member of Parliament for Aylesbury, and Nigel Middlemiss, her late friend Sophie’s father, to discuss maternal suicide, the devastating impact on families, and the urgent need for better perinatal mental health support in the UK.
Laura has been campaigning for improved awareness, assessment and support for perinatal mental health following the tragic loss of her close friend Sophie, who died by suicide ten weeks after the birth of her third child. Laura recently introduced a Private Members’ Bill to Parliament, which called for every pregnant woman to receive a structured mental health assessment as part of routine antenatal care - legislation often referred to as Sophie’s Law. In this episode, Sophie’s father Nigel also speaks movingly about his daughter, the impact of her death on their family, and his determination to support Laura’s Bill to help prevent other families from experiencing the same devastation.
Topics that we discuss on the show include: asking the right questions of new mothers who may be feeling suicidal; identifying danger signals and risk factors for maternal suicide; why many women struggle to admit they are not coping; challenges around breastfeeding and anxiety; gaps in postnatal GP support and follow-up appointments; bereavement counselling for families; the impact on other children; and what families, clinicians and policymakers can do to help prevent maternal suicide.
BIOGRAPHIES
Laura Kyrke-Smith MP is the Labour Member of Parliament for Aylesbury. She serves as Parliamentary Private Secretary to Steve Reed, Secretary of State for Housing, Communities and Local Government. Prior to entering Parliament, Laura was the UK Executive Director of the International Rescue Committee, worked in the Foreign Office under the last Labour Government. Her advocacy on perinatal mental health is deeply personal, shaped by the loss of her friend Sophie, and she is leading parliamentary efforts to improve mental health assessment and support for pregnant and postnatal women.
Nigel Middlemiss is a former teacher of English with the British Council overseas, a textbook author with Oxford University Press, former editor at the British Nuclear Forum and director at Echo Research. Following the death of his daughter Sophie, Nigel has become a passionate advocate for improved perinatal mental health care and for backing Laura Kyrke-Smith MP’s Bill to prevent further loss of life.
MBRRACE Report: Saving Lives, Improving Mothers’ Care 2025 - Lessons learned to inform maternity care from the UK and Ireland Confidential Enquiries into Maternal Deaths and Morbidity 2021-23 | MBRRACE-UK | NPEU
Sands briefing on Maternal Mental Health (2025): Briefing from Sands - Westminster Hall Debate on Maternal Mental Health 05.02.25.pdf
MMHA: Home | Maternal Mental Health Alliance
PANDAS: pandasfoundation.org.uk
Perinatal Mental Health Assessment Bill:
https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/guest_posts/5431502-guest-post-why-every-pregnant-and-new-mum-deserves-mental-health-support-my-bill-for-change
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