What happens when you think you’re already independent, then move 10,000 km away from your family and have to build a completely new life?In this episode of BV1on1, MJ sits down with Maryam Zakeri to talk about what independence actually feels like after moving away from home, graduating, entering the Canadian job market, and realizing that doing everything yourself does not mean you stop needing people.Back in Iran, Maryam already had her own home, earned her own money, and considered herself independent. After moving to Canada, she describes experiencing a completely different level of independence and realizing, “I need people.”That realization opens a much bigger conversation about life after graduation, starting over in Canada, friendships, family, community, networking, career uncertainty, and the difference between being physically independent and actually building a life alone.Maryam also shares the reality of entering the Canadian job market with a bachelor’s and master’s degree, only to discover that education alone was not always enough. They discuss internships asking for experience, extra certifications, networking, international-student challenges, and why the transition from university to working life can feel very different from what students expect.The conversation also explores finding your voice, healing, success, identity, adulthood, cultural differences, higher education, PhD life, and AI in education.If you’ve moved away from family, started over in another country, recently graduated, struggled with the job market, let us know:What changed your definition of independence?======================================About MaryamMaryam is a PhD student and researcher in Canadian and Indigenous Studies, and she also teaches English.Her work focuses on embodied trauma, memory, research-creation, and ethnodrama.Learn more about Maryam:LinkedIn:https://www.linkedin.com/in/maryam-zakeri-787840187?utm_source=share_via&utm_content=profile&utm_medium=member_iosBook an English lesson with Maryam on Preply:https://preply.in/MARYAM6EN25220792112?ts=17891628======================================BreakingViews 1on1 | BV1on1BV1on1 is a podcast about self growth, young generation, experiences, young adulthood, culture, careers, relationships, identity, life after graduation, and the different ways the next generation is figuring life out.======================================Music RightCold Funk - Funkorama by Kevin MacLeod is licensed under Creative Commons Attribution 4.0https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/Source:http://incompetech.com/music/royalty-free/index.html?isrc=USUAN1100499Artist:http://incompetech.com/======================================#BV1on1 #BreakingViews1on1 #Independence #LifeAfterGraduation #MovingAbroad #StartingOver #LifeInCanada #LivingInCanada #InternationalStudents #CanadianJobMarket #JobsInCanada #YoungAdults #YoungGeneration #LifeExperience #MyLifeExperience #selfgrowth #Community #Networking #CareerAfterGraduation #FindingYourVoice #PhDLife #HigherEducation #CanadianPodcast #YouthPodcast #FunnyPodcast #FunPodcast #NewPodcast #Podcast2026 #Podcast2027