One of the labels that's given to the Bible is "wisdom text". And it's this idea that the purpose of the text isn't a straightforward reading and direct application, rather that the point of the text is to wrestle with it, challenge it, disagree, bring it into conversation with others, understanding that it's in that process that you might learn some really helpful wisdom! Hopefully this is a helpful tool to approach the Bible knowing you can still bring your questions, concerns, and even hurt, and to see the helpful parts of it, even behind all the non-helpful ones.