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One of the common objections and rejoinders to Christians is that they're hypocrites, and in fact, the church is full of hypocrites, people will say. This is in line with the general trajectory of our civil discourse and conversation today.
When someone doesn't like something, instead of addressing ideas and their merits, and the reasons people hold those ideas, all too often, people, including Christians, will resort to just labeling people so as to minimize their position or their legitimacy.
It's easier to say, "Oh, you're hateful," than to deal with what might be a principled position about who can use a certain restroom or another restroom. It's easier to say, "You're a bigot," than to deal with a principled reason for why marriage should be between one man and one woman for one lifetime. It's easier to apply a label than to deal with the issue.
It's the same way when it comes to this charge that the church is full of hypocrites. I want to give you four ways of addressing this, four different lines of response that you can tailor however you feel best in that circumstance and whatever fits your personality.
Response: “What do you mean by hypocrite?”
The first response is to use a question. You'll recall that I've talked about this before. That in Greg Koukl's book, Tactics, he recommends always asking with a "What do you mean by that?" type of question. We can do that here. If someone says the church is full of hypocrites, we can say, "Well what do you mean by hypocrite? What does that word mean to you?" You might get a variety of responses, but regardless of what the person says, you now know what definition they're using. You can work with that. You might have a different usage in mind, but we need to deal with the objection and the usage of the term as the person is using it.
They might say something like, "Well, Christians say that they're supposed to be good people but they do bad things." You might say, "Okay, well, what makes that hypocrisy? What is hypocrisy?" To be a hypocrite is to claim to do something you don't do. Or perhaps we could say that a different way: to claim to not do something that you actually do.
This gets to the heart of the issue, I think. Because, for many people who aren't Christians, they think to be a Christian is to be morally upright, and it should be. When they see people who are not morally upright, who sin, who do things that they think are wrong — they probably wouldn't use the word sin — they think that's hypocrisy.
But see, here's the difference, is if they understand Christianity, and if we as Christians understood it and talked about it correctly, we wouldn't be saying that we're perfect people. We would be saying that we are deeply flawed people who serve a perfect God. It's not that we're perfect. Thought that's our goal. We're working towards that. But all the while, we are admitting that we fall short. That's why we need Jesus.
We can explain that to the person, so at least they understand the type of position we have. We're not claiming to be perfect over here. We're far from it. We're trying to get there. We know we won't, but God is perfect. He's our standard, but we won't attain to that this side of heaven. It's totally fair to clarify that Christianity doesn't teach that Christians are going to be perfect this side of heaven.
It does teach that they should be people who are repentant about their sin and who are striving for holiness in their life. The church is, by definition, going to be full of broken people who are sinning, but who are constantly asking forgiveness. I think that's fair to clarify. That's the first way to deal with this. Ask, "What do you mean by hypocrite?" Get them to define their terms, and say, "You know, I don't claim that I …