February 26, 2025

Bridging Divides with Kindness: Shola Richards on Civil Unity

50 minutes

In a world that feels more divided than ever, it's crucial that we embrace empathy.

In this first episode of Reframing Perspectives, Dr. Payal Beri is joined by Shola Richards, author of Civil Unity, to discuss the importance of civility, kindness, and empathy to heal the deep divisions in our workplaces, communities, and personal relationships.

In this episode:

00:00 Introduction and Warm Welcome

00:26 Discovering Shola's Work

01:19 Shola's Personal Journey with Bullying

01:58 The Turning Point: Workplace Bullying

03:49 Starting the Mission: Writing and Advocacy

05:35 Understanding Bullies and Empathy

09:33 Navigating Divisive Times

13:49 The Impact of Constant Information

18:10 Practical Tips for Maintaining Calm

20:31 The Marathon of Kindness Work

21:44 Facing Overwhelming Challenges

22:26 Balancing Empathy and Self-Care

23:31 Contentment vs. Ambition

25:02 The Struggle for Authenticity

30:37 Navigating Toxic Work Environments

32:16 The Power of Kindness and Empathy

34:40 Overcoming Fear and Division

40:47 Practical Steps to Make a Difference

44:56 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

In the episode, Shola opens up about his personal journey from being bullied as a child and in the workplace to becoming a global advocate for kindness, empathy, and civil unity. He shares insights on overcoming toxic environments, navigating divisive conversations, and why kindness is more than just “being nice” - it’s a revolutionary tool for change.

Payal and Shola discuss the impacts of the 24-hour news cycle and social media on mental and emotional well-being, highlighting the importance of setting boundaries, especially as changemakers and leaders. Tune in to the episode for a fresh perspective on how kindness and empathy can help you navigate divisive conversations in your own life. Don't forget to leave a rating and review wherever you listen!