In this powerful episode, Dr. Payal Beri unpacks one of the most overlooked crises of our time: our inability to communicate with emotional awareness. From fractured workplaces to disconnected families, Dr. Beri explores why so many adults struggle to hold space for honest dialogue, and how this breakdown in empathy is costing us trust, progress, and connection.

Drawing from ancient philosophy, modern psychology, and real-world research, Dr. Beri traces the roots of emotional intelligence from Socrates and Buddha to the cultural awakening of millennials and Gen Z. She reveals how language, labels, and avoidance create emotional distance, and offers practical ways to restore authenticity, accountability, and compassion in the way we speak to one another.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• Why emotional intelligence is an ancient skill we’ve forgotten to teach
• How communication fragility fractures relationships, workplaces, and communities
• What makes clarity feel like confrontation in modern culture
• Why millennials and Gen Z are challenging emotional suppression
• Real-world models, like Denmark’s empathy-based education system, that prove communication can be taught
• Simple ways to bring intention, empathy, and honesty back into everyday conversations

Communication isn’t a talent, it’s a teachable skill that shapes the world we live in. Dr. Payal Beri invites us to slow down, reflect, and speak with intention, because the way we communicate becomes the world we create.

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Website: www.payalberi.com

Instagram: @dr.payalberi

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Chapters:

00:00 Introduction: The Crisis in Communication

02:06 The Importance of Emotional Intelligence

03:11 Personal Reflections on Direct Communication

07:01 The Roots of Emotional Intelligence

09:10 Modern Challenges and Generational Shifts

11:37 The Role of Culture and Education

16:13 The Power of Intentional Communication

19:20 Conclusion: Shaping a Better World Through Communication

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Cultural curiosity can change the way we see the world, and in this episode, Dr. Payal Beri is joined by Kristen Kim to discuss how early cultural education can help build a more connected, empathetic society.

Kristen, the founder of Culture Kids Productions, a multi-award-winning nonprofit and family podcast helping children embrace global perspectives through storytelling, shares how her own Korean American upbringing and experience in television production led to creating a platform that celebrates diversity, empathy, and connection. 

Together, Payal and Kristen explore why early cultural education matters, not just for children, but for how families and communities see one another. 

You’ll hear about:

• How cultural storytelling builds confidence and empathy in kids
• The compound effect of introducing diversity early in life
• Why embracing differences strengthens rather than divides us
• The power of family traditions in shaping cultural identity
• Simple ways to raise curious, open-minded children

Whether you’re a parent, educator, or lifelong learner, this conversation invites you to rethink what connection really means in a multicultural world.

More from Kristen Kim & Culture Kids:

Website: 

https://www.culturekidsmedia.com

Instagram: 

https://www.instagram.com/culturekidsproductions/

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Instagram: @dr.payalberi

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Chapters:

00:00 Introduction and Dr. Payal Beri's Background

00:41 Meet Kristen: Founder of Culture Kids Productions

02:49 Kristen's Immigration Story

03:40 Challenges of Dual Identity

05:04 The Birth of Culture Kids Productions

05:49 Lunar New Year and Cultural Diversity

08:38 Mission of Culture Kids: Building Friendships Across Cultures

11:14 The Compound Effect in Cultural Education

14:25 Global Examples of Multicultural Education

18:08 Creating Inclusive Cultural Education

26:08 Family Culture and Sports

26:58 Unique Family Traditions

30:02 Influence of Cultural Learning on Families

33:51 Misconceptions About Cultural Education

37:23 The Importance of Cultural Awareness

43:36 Practical Steps for Parents and Educators

48:27 Final Thoughts and Resources

When you think of therapy, do you picture someone lying on a couch, retelling their past while a therapist takes notes? It’s time to reframe that vision.

In this powerful episode, Dr. Payal Beri sits down with Melissa Dumaz —licensed marriage and family therapist, holistic wellness expert, bestselling author, and co-host of The Hats Podcast—to explore the multi-dimensional world of healing beyond traditional talk therapy.

With over 20 years of experience, Melissa brings insight into alternative therapeutic modalities like EMDR, Reiki, sound therapy, journaling, and somatic work. Together, they discuss:

• Why talk therapy isn’t the only path to healing
• The science and transformation behind EMDR for trauma resolution
• Navigating cultural stigma around therapy in communities of color
• How healing yourself can transform your relationships and your legacy
• What to do if you’re seeking therapy but feel resistant—or simply don’t know where to start

Whether you're new to therapy, skeptical about its value, or curious about holistic approaches to mental well-being, this episode offers insight, encouragement, and practical takeaways for your healing journey.

Guest Links:

• Learn more about Melissa at www.melissadumaz.com
• Follow @melissadumaz on all social platforms
• Listen to The Hats Podcast wherever you get your podcasts
• Check out her book: The Love Challenge: 30 Days, 30 Ways to Increase the Love in Your Relationship

Chapters:

00:00 Introduction to Diverse Therapeutic Modalities 

00:44 Meet Melissa Dumaz: A Holistic Wellness Expert 

03:37 The Journey to Becoming a Therapist 

07:45 The Importance of Therapy for Everyone 

09:50 Addressing Cultural Stigmas Around Therapy 

12:54 Therapy as a Tool for Personal Growth 

22:58 Exploring Different Therapeutic Modalities 

26:40 Understanding EMDR and Its Impact 

30:04 Understanding Bilateral Simulation and EMDR 

30:58 The Goal of EMDR: Neutralizing Memories 

34:17 The Microwave Age: Instant Gratification in Therapy 

35:46 The Healing Journey: Embracing the Process 

38:31 Finding Community and Support in Therapy 

40:27 The Role of a Great Therapist 

49:12 Graduating from Therapy: Embracing New Modalities 

51:12 Proactive Mental Health: Addressing Stigma 

52:38 Connecting with Melissa Dumaz

What if the key to deeper empathy, connection, and identity lies in the stories of those who came before us?

In this moving and insightful episode, we sit down with Anika Chara, CEO and Co-founder of Root and Seed, to explore how personal loss led to a powerful mission: preserving family heritage for future generations. Anika opens up about her own journey after the unexpected passing of her mother and how that experience sparked the creation of Root and Seed—a platform dedicated to capturing and sharing family stories, traditions, and culture.

Discover how simple tools like conversation cards and workshops can spark powerful dialogues within families, and how revisiting these stories can be both healing and transformative.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

• Why storytelling is essential for preserving cultural heritage
• How to initiate meaningful conversations with loved ones
• The emotional and psychological benefits of knowing your roots
• Practical tips to start capturing your family’s legacy today

Whether you're looking to reconnect with your past or create a stronger future for the next generation, this episode is a powerful reminder of the ties that bind us.

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Connect with Anika Chara & Root and Seed:

Website: https://rootandseed.com/ 

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rootandseedco/?hl=en 

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Instagram: @dr.payalberi

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Chapters: 

00:00 Introduction and Personal Connection to Ancestry 

00:40 Meet Anika Chara: CEO and Co-founder of Root and Seed 

01:35 The Journey of Root and Seed 

02:50 Anika's Personal Story and Motivation 

03:55 The Importance of Preserving Family Stories 

06:53 Challenges and Approaches in Storytelling 

11:17 Empathy and Legacy in Family Dynamics 

18:39 Personal Reflections and Legacy Building 

25:26 Reflecting on Family History and Migration 

26:53 Generational Trauma and Personal Impact 

27:58 Contrasting Parental Personalities 

29:30 Immigrant Mindset and Cultural Preservation 

30:32 Empowerment Through Roots and Seeds 

31:22 Evolving Cultural Traditions 

32:19 Parental Reflections and Cultural Anxiety 

38:12 Understanding and Empathy in Family Dynamics 

41:07 Taking Action to Connect with Heritage 

43:48 Reframing Ancestry and Legacy 

47:20 Conclusion and Contact Information

What does it really mean to live inside a woman’s body, from your first period to post-menopause? And what happens when we stop treating these milestones like isolated events and start honoring them as part of one powerful, continuous journey?

In this deeply insightful episode, Dr. Payal Beri sits down with renowned OB/GYN and bestselling author Dr. Suzanne Gilberg to explore the full spectrum of womanhood — from menstruation to menopause and everything in between.

With over 26 years of clinical experience, Dr. Gilberg shares why it is time to shift the way we view women’s health. This isn’t just a medical conversation. It is a cultural one. Together, they unpack the layers of silence, shame, and systemic bias that have shaped how women experience their bodies.

You will hear the stories behind the research, the lived experiences behind the stats, and the call to action for a more connected and informed approach to our hormonal health.

In This Episode, You’ll Discover:

• Why women’s health should be seen as a continuous journey, not separate milestones
• How shame around periods, sex, and menopause starts early — and why it sticks
• What most doctors miss about women’s hormones and why the research gap is still so wide
• How pelvic floor trauma often begins with cultural messaging
• What every woman should know in her 20s, 30s, 40s, and beyond
• Why menopause is not the end but the beginning of your “second spring”
• How men can play an active and supportive role through every phase

Whether you are just starting your period, thinking about fertility, navigating perimenopause, or reflecting on your mother’s journey, this episode will leave you feeling more connected, informed, and empowered.

Dr. Suzanne Gilberg

Website: www.drsuzanne.com

Book: Menopause Bootcamp

Instagram: www.instagram.com/drsuzannegilberg

Facilitator Certification Program: www.drsuzanne.com

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Website: www.payalberi.com

Instagram: @dr.payalberi

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Chapters: 

00:00 Introduction and Excitement for the Conversation 

02:18 Dr. Suzanne's Motivation and Experience 

04:25 Cultural Norms and Medical Education Gaps 

04:49 Challenges in Medical Research and Education 

06:50 The Broken Healthcare System 

10:25 Women's Health as a Lifelong Journey 

14:12 Advice for Young Girls and Women 

15:37 The Impact of Fear and Cultural Norms on Women's Health 

21:44 Celebrating the Female Journey 

26:12 Understanding Biological Timelines and Personal Choices 

27:05 Societal Expectations vs. Personal Desires 

30:45 Men's Role in Women's Health Conversations 

35:14 Intergenerational Learning and Health Awareness 4

0:20 Empowerment Through Self-Acceptance and Community 

45:54 Final Thoughts and Resources

What does it really mean to be the “perfect Indian girl”? And what happens when you decide you no longer want to carry the weight of that label?

In this powerful episode, host Payal Beri sits down with Tracy, better known as The Bad Indian Therapist, for a deeply personal and paradigm-shifting conversation that challenges the cultural expectations placed on South Asian women. From generational shame and toxic guilt to navigating cultural identity, therapy taboos, and boundaries, this is a must-listen for anyone who’s ever felt torn between heritage and authenticity.

Tracy shares how her unconventional approach to therapy has helped South Asian women break free from the pressure to be the perfect daughter, wife, or mother — and what it means to finally take up space without guilt.

In This Episode, You’ll Discover:

• Why so many South Asian women avoid culturally similar therapists — and what that reveals
• The myth of the "perfect Indian girl" and its emotional cost
• How guilt is culturally weaponized, and how to stop it from running your life
• What boundaries really are (hint: not a Western concept!)
• How to stop tone-policing yourself when communicating needs
• Reframing parental pedestal syndrome — and making peace with your identity

Whether you’re part of the diaspora or just curious about the intersection of culture and healing, this episode will leave you thinking, reflecting, and (hopefully) reclaiming yourself.

Links & Resources:

More from Tracy:

https://thebadindiantherapist.com

Instagram: Tracy Vadakumchery (@thebadindiantherapist)

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thebadindiantherapist?lang=en 

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Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dr.payalberi/ 

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Chapters: 

00:00 Introduction: The Pressure of Perfection 

00:21 Meet Tracy: The Bad Indian Therapist 

02:43 Tracy's Journey into Therapy 

07:49 Cultural Competency in Therapy 

10:58 Navigating Identity and Belonging 

17:59 The Evolution of Culture and Identity 

21:28 Releasing the Perfect Indian Girl Identity 

28:30 Effective Communication vs. Tone Policing 

28:49 Direct Communication in Therapy 

31:20 Cultural Expectations and Outcome-Driven Mindsets 

31:53 Materialism and Status in Indian Culture 

32:53 White Supremacy Culture in Indian Society 

37:30 Therapists and the Fear of Judgment 

42:07 Boundaries in Indian Families 

49:51 Empathy and Parental Relationships 

50:44 The Myth of the Perfect Indian Girl 

51:50 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

What if the very emotions you’ve been taught to suppress were the key to your growth?

In this powerful episode of Reframing Perspectives, host Dr. Payal Beri sits down with Bryant Alexander Jr., a transformational performance coach and founder of Reframe Creative Consulting. Bryant shares his deeply personal journey from growing up in silence, believing he had nothing to offer, to becoming a voice of leadership, emotional resilience, and collective empowerment.

Through the transformative lens of Vipassana meditation, Bryant reclaims his voice, uncovers suppressed emotions, and redefines what success truly means. This episode is a must-listen for high-achievers, entrepreneurs, and impact-driven leaders who feel trapped in performative success and are ready to step into something more authentic.

In This Episode, You’ll Discover:

• The connection between childhood roles, emotional suppression & adult burnout
• Why resilience isn't a solo act—and how it must be built in community
• How 10 days of silent meditation reshaped Bryant’s identity and leadership style
• Why many ambitious people are unknowingly led by unhealed trauma
• How to redefine success from a place of wholeness, not woundedness
• The game-changing question Bryant asks every client before transformation can begin

Whether you're in the C-suite or just beginning your personal growth journey, this conversation will challenge what you think success looks like and offer a new, grounded path forward.

Connect with Bryant Alexander:

Website: https://reframecc.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachbryant_/ 

LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/bryant-c-alexander-jr/

Spirit Rock Meditation Center: https://www.spiritrock.org/ 

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Instagram: @dr.payalberi

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Chapters: 

00:00 Introduction to Bryant's Journey 

02:56 Bryant's Early Life and Introversion 

05:35 The Turning Point: Embracing Leadership 

07:28 Struggles with Emotional Expression 

10:35 Therapy and the Path to Healing 

18:10 Discovering Vipassana Meditation 

24:34 The Weight of Emotional Baggage 

25:20 The Power of Choice and Letting Go 

26:23 The Lifelong Practice of Enlightenment 

27:56 Integrating Healing into Daily Life 

30:53 Empathy and Community 

39:45 Understanding the 'Who' in Personal Growth 

45:10 Redefining Success

What if prison wasn’t the end of someone's story, but the beginning of a powerful transformation?

In this soul-stirring episode, Dr. Payal Beri sits down with Andrew Murphy, Executive Director of the Wisconsin Inmate Education Association (WIEA), to discuss how higher education, empathy, and human dignity are reshaping the lives of incarcerated individuals many of whom were once seen as beyond redemption.

Through personal stories, lived experiences, and hard truths, Andrew shares how WIEA’s groundbreaking college-in-prison program is restoring hope, reducing prison violence, and helping incarcerated men become change agents in their communities even from behind bars. Together, Payal and Andrew explore the deep stigmas society places on the incarcerated and why we must rethink justice, humanity, and redemption.

In This Episode, You’ll Discover:

• Why transformation behind bars is not only possible - but essential
• How education and faith-based identity formation impact recidivism and violence
• The myth of "once a criminal, always a criminal"and how that mindset fails communities
• Real-life stories of rival gang members finding unity, fathers inspiring their grandsons, and men rewriting their legacies
• What families of the incarcerated learn when someone they love transforms inside
• Why supporting prison education helps break intergenerational cycles of crime

Support WIEA’s Mission

Want to make a direct impact? Sponsor a student’s college journey behind bars or become a monthly donor. https://www.wieawi.org 

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Follow Dr. Payal Beri on Instagram: 

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https://www.rkempathy.com/ 

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https://www.linkedin.com/in/payalberi/

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Chapters: 

00:00 Introduction and Excitement

01:31 The Moment of Conviction

03:20 Realizations and Transformations

07:15 Debunking Myths About Incarceration

10:25 The Power of Education in Prison

15:25 Stories of Transformation

23:36 Addressing Criticisms and Redemption

25:27 The Impact of the Death Penalty on Victims' Families

26:52 Redemption and Dignity for Incarcerated Individuals

28:02 Inspiring Stories of Transformation

29:18 The Ripple Effect of Education in Prison

30:42 The Power of Truth and Accountability

32:49 Life After Release: Transformations and Challenges

35:35 The Role of Faith and Education in Rehabilitation

38:51 Addressing Systemic Issues and Changing Perspectives

45:21 The Importance of Compassion and Support

48:23 Reframing Perspectives on Incarceration and Redemption

In this powerful episode, Dr. Payal Beri sits down with Bhavik Shah, a mental health advocate, speaker, and former financial services executive, to explore the real cost of burnout and what it takes to create a workplace culture rooted in psychological safety.

What You’ll Learn:

• The physical and emotional toll of repeated burnout and how to recognize the warning signs
• How Bhavik navigated toxic workplace culture as a queer South Asian man in finance
• Why benefits and wellness apps are not the solution to workplace wellbeing
• How to self-advocate effectively, even when your workplace isn’t ready to listen
• Actionable insights for people managers to build trust and lead with empathy

Whether you're a rising professional, a people leader, or someone navigating the pressures of high-performance culture, this episode is your reminder that work should not be miserable. Burnout is not a badge of honor.

Resources & Mentions:

Visit Bhavik’s website: www.bhavikshah.com

Explore Bhavik’s Harvard Business Review articles: https://hbr.org/2022/10/i-survived-a-hate-crime-heres-how-my-company-supported-me

Connect with Payal: 

Follow Dr. Payal Beri on Instagram: 

https://www.instagram.com/dr.payalberi

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https://www.rkempathy.com/ 

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https://www.linkedin.com/in/payalberi/

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Chapters:

0:00 – Bhavik Shah’s burnout-to-advocacy journey

3:00 – The panic attack that became a turning point

6:00 – Why burnout has been normalized in hustle culture

9:00 – Navigating corporate gaslighting and identity suppression

14:00 – How personal branding pressure fuels burnout

22:00 – Why wellness apps and perks miss the point

25:00 – What psychological safety really looks like

34:00 – Practical tips for people managers and team leads

38:00 – Why self-advocacy is essential for mental health

41:00 – Final thoughts on building better workplace cultures

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In this episode, Payal sits down with Qasim Rashid to explore the intersection of empathy, activism, and justice. As a respected human rights attorney and advocate for civil rights, Qasim shares how his early experiences shaped a lifelong commitment to fighting injustice. The conversation dives into the realities facing immigrant communities, the dangers of performative activism, and how to build sustainable, community-based movements that last.

Listeners will walk away with practical insights into how empathy fuels real change, how to stay engaged without burning out, and what it means to lead with purpose in the face of systemic challenges.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

• Why empathy is a critical tool in social justice work
• The long-term impact of values-driven activism
• How to identify and avoid performative allyship
• Common challenges immigrant communities continue to face
• The importance of civic education and youth engagement
• Actionable steps for sustainable community involvement

Join the Conversation:

If this episode resonated with you, please follow the show, leave a review, and share it with someone committed to justice and equity.

About Qasim Rashid:

Qasim Rashid is a human rights lawyer, author of Talk to Me and The Wrong Kind of Muslim, and a former U.S. Congressional candidate. His work focuses on civil rights, religious freedom, and public policy reform, with a deep commitment to uplifting marginalized voices and creating equitable systems of justice.

Resources & Links:

Learn more about Qasim Rashid: www.qasimrashid.com

Follow Qasim on social media: @QasimRashid

Connect with Payal: 

Follow Dr. Payal Beri on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dr.payalberi

Subscribe to Reframing Perspectives on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@payalberi?sub_confirmation=1 

Check out RK Empathy: https://www.rkempathy.com/ 

Connect with Dr. Payal Beri on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/payalberi/ 

Interested in having Dr. Payal Beri speak at your event? https://www.payalberi.com/ 

Chapters: 

00:00 Introduction and Welcoming Qasim Rashid

02:52 Early Influences and Activism Roots

06:59 Navigating Fear and Taking Action 

08:09 Generational Perspectives on Justice 

11:28 Practical Steps for Young Activists 

19:24 The Role of Empathy in Activism 

25:32 Challenges of Empathy in Modern Society 

30:45 Rebuilding Connections in a Post-C World 

31:12 Empathy and Everyday Fatigue 

32:52 Activism: From Comfort Zone to Rage 

34:14 Sustainable Activism: A Marathon, Not a Sprint 

35:31 The Importance of Local Involvement 

38:37 The Role of Reading and Intellectualism 

46:05 Addressing Misogyny and Violence Against Women 

51:02 Empathy and Compassion in Activism 

57:26 Final Thoughts and Connecting with Qasim Rashid