In this deeply thoughtful episode of Bridging Generations, host Howard Snooks (76) sits down with Yehuda Halevi (23), host of the Shells and Shadows podcast, for an honest, wide-ranging conversation that defies the typical "Boomer vs. Gen Z" narrative.

At the intersection of Howard’s decades of experience in clinical social work and Yehuda’s deep dive into Depth Psychology, Internal Family Systems (IFS), and Male Initiatory Work, they model what it looks like to meet across generations with curiosity instead of judgment. Together, they explore how wisdom, vulnerability, and respect can flow both ways to address the unique pressures of the modern world.

Inside the Episode

• The Roots of Generational Tension: Howard and Yehuda discuss why we resist change and how "dissing" other generations is often a projection of our own fears.
• The Loneliness Epidemic in Young Men: A look at the loss of tribal rituals, grounding traditions, and the "primal" part of masculinity that technology has yet to replace.
• Masculinity in Transition: Exploring the "Integrated Man"—moving beyond just "providing and protecting" to embrace heart, soul, and emotional expression.
• Shadow Work & Technology: Yehuda introduces the concept of giving the "Shadow" a seat at the table—learning to use technology and even psychedelics as conscious tools for growth rather than weapons of distraction.
• The Evolution of Love: From "bubbly" chemistry to "adversarial love," the duo examines how partnership acts as a friction that refines rather than destroys the individual.
• Wisdom Transmission: Howard shares his journey from the psychiatric wards of Sheridan, Wyoming, to finding the "person-in-situation," highlighting what modern culture has lost in its rush to digitize human connection.

Key Takeaways

"When a generation is extremely challenged, there is an equal and opposite strength and gift that comes with that naturally." — Yehuda Halevi

"Giving advice is hardly ever useful... 'What do you mean?' is a much better question. It allows someone to find the answers within themselves, and that is where the power lies." — Howard Snooks