Episode 28: Brooklyn’s Finest – with Roger Dunkelbarger

In this episode of the I Am Self-ish podcast, host Will Wright speaks with real estate agent and creative soul Roger Dunkelbarger about the uniquely personal—and often emotional—journey of buying and selling homes in New York City.

With over a decade of experience and a background in theater, Roger shares how storytelling, connection, and a love for community shape his approach to helping clients find the right home.

Originally from Southern Indiana, Roger has called New York City home for over 15 years. His career spans new development sales, resales, co-ops, condos, and townhouses, making him a trusted guide for everyone from first-time buyers to seasoned investors.

He currently serves clients in both Manhattan and Brooklyn as part of the prestigious Eklund | Gomes team at Douglas Elliman.

Together, Will and Roger explore:

• ​How creativity and real estate intersect
• ​What makes Brooklyn buyers unique
• ​The hidden gems of the borough
• ​The challenges of NYC real estate—from analysis to emotion
• ​How storytelling and authenticity build stronger client relationships
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The episode wraps up with a playful segment where the two dream up marketing strategies for fictional properties—yes, Hogwarts and Stark Tower included.

Takeaways:

• ​Real estate is more than numbers—it’s about identity, dreams, and belonging.
• ​Storytelling helps buyers imagine life in a new space.
• ​Every client brings a different energy—and needs a different kind of support.
• ​Being a successful agent means blending strategy, empathy, and creativity.
• ​Brooklyn and Manhattan each offer their own rhythm, challenges, and charm.
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About Roger Dunkelbarger

Roger is a real estate professional with the Eklund | Gomes Team at Douglas Elliman, specializing in the Manhattan and Brooklyn markets.

Known for his analytical mind and high-energy, heart-forward approach, he supports both buyers and sellers through every step of the real estate journey. Before real estate, Roger built a career as an actor and singer, developing a global perspective that now informs his appreciation for architecture, design, and human connection.

🎭 Ithaca College alum

🏠 NYC real estate expert

🌍 World traveler & arts enthusiast

🎂 Aspiring baker & hiking lover

🔗 Elliman Profile📸

Instagram: @rogerofnyc

📧 Email: [email protected]

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