We dive into the evolution of friendships from childhood to adulthood, questioning whether our 90s connections were genuinely deep or merely convenient based on proximity. Through personal stories and listener questions, we explore how friendship dynamics shift over time and what it takes to maintain meaningful connections when they're no longer built into our daily routines.

• Examining the nature of childhood friendships and how they were largely determined by physical proximity
• Contrasting male and female friendship dynamics - girls shared everything while boys kept emotions guarded
• Discussing how "ride or die" high school friendships naturally evolve as life circumstances change
• Exploring the concept of "Frentimacy" and why we don't communicate our needs in friendships like we do in romantic relationships
• Addressing the painful experience of friendship ghosting and strategies for seeking resolution
• Sharing personal stories of schoolyard bullying and childhood betrayals that shaped our approach to relationships
• Reminiscing about 90s pop culture touchstones that once helped forge our connections

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Did having it all actually just mean running on empty for 30 years straight? This question hits at the heart of our exploration into the Gen X hustle myth and why an entire generation traded play for productivity.

Growing up watching parents with incredible work ethics – showing up despite injuries, never taking mental health days – shaped how many of us approach success and self-worth today. We unpack whether this mindset prepared us or ultimately drained us, examining the complicated relationship between achievement and wellbeing.

Many listeners will recognize themselves in our conversation about being "the reliable one" who overachieves for everyone else while neglecting their own needs. We dive into why rest feels like failure and how the programming that "doing nothing equals laziness" continues to drive burnout cycles decades later.

The episode takes fascinating turns through comparisons between our childhood experiences with report cards and how we're approaching our own children's education differently. We debate mental health days (which weren't an option growing up), share personal stories about school struggles, and reflect on how parenting offers a chance to break unhealthy patterns.

Through games like "This or That" (workaholic identity or quiet quitting champion? proving my worth or protecting my peace?), we reveal the evolution many are experiencing from "I'll sleep when I'm dead" to "I'll rest so I don't die."

If you're canceling afternoon plans just from thinking about these topics – you're not alone. This episode validates what so many are feeling: you're not lazy for needing rest, you're human. And when someone praises you for doing it all, we give you permission to say, "Cool, I'd like to do less."

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Childhood Memories of the 90s—take a trip back to when photo albums were the real cloud storage, Dunkaroos were currency, and siblings could live the same day but remember it completely differently.

In this episode, Lisa and Josh dive deep into their childhood memories, debating 90s snack wars, the great Nintendo vs Sega divide, and whether mom’s “wooden spoon” was a legitimate threat or just parental theater. From Paula Abdul topping the charts in 1989 to the days before iCloud, they explore how our memories shape the stories we tell—and why your sibling probably swears you’re remembering it all wrong.

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Welcome to Brother Sister Whatever — the podcast where growing up GenX or Xennial meant chasing streetlights, drinking from the hose, and emotionally imprinting on after-school specials.

Hosted by real-life siblings Lisa (the burnt-out perfectionist) and Josh (the strategic underachiever), this is your bi-weekly dose of 80s/90s nostalgia, brutally honest midlife commentary, and ongoing sibling debates about whose memory is actually right.

Hit play, and let the memory wars begin.

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We made it. 24 episodes later, Season One is officially a wrap.
What started with Lisa’s fear of recording and Josh’s “let’s just wing it” energy has grown into something real: a structured (but still chaotic) sibling podcast built on honesty, growth, and way too many personal confessions.

In our Season 1 finale, we reflect on:
 → The evolution of our dynamic (spoiler: we barely disagreed)
 → Josh’s mic-drop moment about seeking peace over happiness
 → Lisa’s emotional off-mic breakdown that almost made it into the episode
→ Our first-ever “BSW Chaos Awards” 🎉
→ Why embracing imperfection was the best decision we made

Biggest surprise? This whole thing made us closer. And somehow, a little wiser.

Whether you've been with us from day one or just discovered us, thank you for being part of our journey. Season Two is just around the corner—same siblings, fresh perspectives, more structured chaos. And maybe even some guests 👀

💬 Got episode ideas or guest suggestions? Drop a comment or find us @brothersisterwhatever
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Josh and Lisa say goodbye to their most chaotic segment ever, the Weekly What If, revisiting six favorite questions and debuting two brand new ones to open and close this beautiful mess.

• Josh would choose to live in Dragon Ball Z as Goku, while Lisa prefers Sweet Valley High books as a sidekick character
• Lisa would travel back to the 1990s which she calls "her decade," while Josh acknowledges he's happiest in the present
• If they could master any skill instantly, Lisa surprisingly chooses self-defense while Josh wants psychological profiling abilities
• They debate how social interactions would change if everyone wore visible meters showing their social battery levels
• Josh would smuggle physical comfort items like soft clothes if comfort things became illegal, while Lisa would smuggle comfort foods
• Both find appeal in disconnecting from technology, though Lisa has reservations about roughing it outdoors
• The episode ends with a nostalgic discussion about The Wonder Years' narrative style

Stay tuned for our new season with exciting new segments you won't want to miss!

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What’s the lie you tell yourself the most? “I don’t care what people think”? “I’ll do it later”? “I’m fine”?

In this reflective rewatch of our most-downloaded episode ever, Lisa and Josh revisit The Lies We Tell Ourselves—and things hit a little harder the second time around. From quiet self-deceptions to white lies we tell our kids, this episode explores how our relationship with truth shifts over time.

👇 Chapters:
0:42 – Welcome to Brother, Sister, Whatever
1:25 – Weekly "What If": Lies as Bubbles
3:56 – Common Lies We Tell Ourselves
6:45 – "I Don't Care What Others Think"
10:52 – Time as the New Success Metric
13:32 – White Lies in Parenting
17:26 – "I Am Enough" Affirmations
21:40 – Liar Liar This-or-That Showdown

✨ Inside this episode:

• The real cost of "I'll do it later"
• Why “I don’t care what people think” is rarely true
• When it’s okay to lie to your kids—and when it’s not
• How affirmations start to feel real only after the hard work
• A final showdown of the social lies we all tell (yes, “I didn’t see your text” made the list)

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What’s the difference between real self-care and just...numbing out? In this rewatch of one of our most popular episodes, Lisa and Josh break down the blurred line between authentic self-care and self-indulgent habits that leave you drained.

With fresh commentary from both masculine and feminine perspectives, they ask:

• Is self-care about bubble baths or boundaries?
• Are men still made to feel guilty for resting?
• Can gaming, snacks, and silence count as self-care?
• How do you tell if something actually recharges you—or just avoids your burnout?

You’ll learn how to spot what actually works for your wellbeing, how social media has warped the self-care conversation, and why kids might be the real self-care gurus.

Key topics:

• Difference between self-care and self-indulgence
• Setting boundaries as the ultimate act of self-care
• Gender and self-care: the unspoken male experience
• Real-life self-care examples that aren’t Instagram-worthy
• How to build a sustainable self-care practice that actually sticks

📌 Whether you’re navigating burnout, setting new boundaries, or just trying to care without guilt—this one’s for you.

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Remember when summer meant biking until the streetlights came on, catching fireflies, and dodging the neighbor’s terrifying dog? In this nostalgia-heavy episode, we’re throwing it back to the 90s—when summer was sticky, chaotic, and absolutely glorious.

From PEI farm adventures and popsicle brain freezes to street hockey and reading under a box fan, Lisa and Josh swap stories of childhood freedom and the moment summer stopped feeling like… summer. Adulting hit hard—but we’re still trying to reclaim a little of that old-school magic (minus the mosquitoes).

☀️ Topics include:

• Why 90s summers felt limitless
• The chores that weirdly felt like adventures
• The exact moment summer changed forever
• Can adult summers ever hit the same?
• The unexpected joy of crafting your own traditions

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Lisa and Josh explore their favorite comfort items, foods, smells, and sounds while debating what makes something truly comforting in this cozy episode.

• Weekly What-If: What if every comfort item became illegal – what would you smuggle?
• Physical comfort items vs food comfort items – Lisa loves her cozy nook, Josh can't live without lasagna
• The chemical reaction in our brains when we experience comfort
• Childhood nostalgia triggers like mom's creme de menthe pie and the smell of rain through an open window
• Best comfort foods: chicken noodle soup, grilled cheese, Chinese food, and tacos
• Comfort entertainment choices: Gilmore Girls and Netflix underdog stories
• This or That rapid-fire comfort preferences from book smells to toast popping sounds
• The camping comfort debate: roughing it vs "glamping" in cabins
• Future family vacation dreams in a holiday cabin

Please like, subscribe, listen, follow, and tell us your favorite comfort items! Your feedback really pumps us up and gives us inspiration.

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