Have you ever thought of the different views people have on women who have children and are not married or in a relationship.?
In the Black Community Some Men feel as though dating a Woman with a kid(s) is a big no no. Or If they meet a woman with a child he may not take her as serious as he would a Woman with no children. Often times people tend to think theres drama with the other Parent, or a Guy doesnt feel right with the posibility of knowing he may end up taking care of another Man's Child. I've dated Men with children and I never seperate the mans children from him as if they are to be a burden, however I think Men bring this topic up as If its a Huge deal breaker meeting & dating a woman with kids.
Each one of us deserves Love and a strong Family Foundation. But how can we grow as a culture if The men that are too Lead us are not sold on loving you if Youve experienced life, bared a child before him.. Have you faced realizing a man was not serious with you due to his stipulations towards your blessings?
I personally think more people need to look in a mirror and take notice of how they grew up vs what we are dealt with currently in a wordly view,
Children are innocent, and If you want to see a change in your community, support Women, support The Men, and Support the children.
Each One Teach One..Mentor someone you see today.Lets all help each other Build Love & Grow Strength.
-April Brown