Before you say “I do,” there are things about love and marriage no one talks about. In this episode, we react to a viral TikTok on what people wish they knew before marriage and explore how childhood experiences, family dynamics, money habits, and parenting styles influence relationships.

We share why understanding your partner’s past is the foundation of solving problems, growing together, and building a healthy marriage. Perfect for engaged couples, newlyweds, and anyone serious about strengthening their relationship.

🎧 Tune in for practical advice, real talk, and insight into what truly makes love last.

She says she loves her husband. He’s a great father. Nothing bad happened. But after 10 years of marriage and kids, she wants a divorce… because she doesn’t know who she is anymore. This emotional clip from TikTok sparked a thought provoking conversation about identity loss in long-term relationships, midlife crisis, and whether social media is helping or hurting marriages today.

In this episode, we break down:

✅ A reason people want out of “good” marriages

✅ Why posting about your relationship online can do more harm than good

✅ When sharing with others helps—and when it backfires

Whether you're in a long-term relationship, thinking about divorce, or trying to make sense of your identity in your 30s or 40s—this episode is a must-watch.

🔔 Subscribe for real, raw conversations about relationships, self-awareness, and navigating adulthood and relationships.

In this thought-provoking discussion, we explore a controversial question: Should good men be held accountable for the harmful actions of bad men? We unpack the thoughts behind fear-based generalizations, the impact of personal trauma, and how both shape our views of the opposite gender.

🔎 Topics Covered:

Why some people generalize fear to all men or women

How personal trauma influences our perception of everyone

The difference between personal responsibility and collective accountability

Why it’s so hard to fix the “rotten apples” in our communities

And more!

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Share your thoughts and experiences in the comments. Let’s build a space for understanding, empathy, and real talk about the tough topics.

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Why do so many from Gen X and older believe Millennials and Gen Z are "soft," "too sensitive," or "unprepared for life"? And more importantly... are they wrong?

In this video, we explore the growing tension between generations — from parenting styles and mental health to trauma cycles and societal expectations. While it's easy to dismiss the younger generations as "too emotional" or "too fragile," the truth is far more complex. Are they actually resilient for refusing to normalize dysfunction?

👇 Drop your thoughts in the comments. Is this a generational misunderstanding — or is someone actually right?

She’s killing it at work. Degrees? Got ‘em. Promotions? Check.

But behind the grind, a lot of women—especially Black women—are silently struggling.

In this video, we’re getting real about high-functioning depression: what it looks like, why so many women fall into it, and how it quietly affects our ability to build and maintain healthy relationships.

💼 Why do some of us bury pain in work and school?

💔 What happens when we ignore our emotional needs for too long?

🧠 And how can we start healing without losing the drive that got us here?

If you’ve ever felt like you’re “doing great” on paper but still feel empty or disconnected, this one’s for you.

Drop a comment: Have you ever used success as a way to cope? Let’s talk about it. 💬

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#HighFunctioningDepression #BlackWomenHealing #MentalHealthAwareness #OverachieverStruggles #SelfCareJourney #SuccessAndSadness #TherapyTalk #RealTalk

In this episode, we’re diving into the growing skepticism around marriage — especially among millennials and Gen Z. Is it really marriage people are jaded about, or are they simply unprepared for what it truly requires? We unpack why emotional readiness, personal growth, healing, and accountability all need to be in place before the vows. If you’ve ever said “marriage isn’t for me,” this conversation might have you rethinking why.

🌟 Unlocking Happy and Healthy Relationships: The Power of Self-Awareness 🌟

Welcome to BTTS Podcast! In this thought-provoking episode, we delve deep into the crucial foundation of successful relationships: self-awareness. Join us as we explore the profound impact of understanding oneself before embarking on a journey of love and connection.

🤔 Why Self-Awareness Matters:

Discover the keys to cultivating a fulfilling relationship by facing and embracing the less favorable aspects of yourself. In this episode we share insights, personal stories, and expert advice on how self-awareness lays the groundwork for a happy, healthy, and thriving partnership.

🌈 Topics Covered:

-Unpacking the significance of self-awareness in relationship dynamics

-Navigating personal growth to enhance your connection with others

-Overcoming challenges through introspection and self-reflection

🔑 Key Takeaways:

Uncover actionable strategies to assess and improve your self-awareness, setting the stage for meaningful connections and lasting happiness. Don't miss out on this enriching discussion that promises to transform your approach to relationships!

In this eye-opening podcast episode, we tackle the often-overlooked issue of molestation experienced by young males at the hands of women. Join us as we unravel the societal biases, challenge stereotypes, and delve into the hidden struggles faced by male victims. Through a candid discussion, we aim to raise awareness, encourage empathy, and foster a more inclusive dialogue surrounding this important but neglected topic. Listen in for valuable insights that aim to dismantle taboos and contribute to a more compassionate and informed society. #MaleVictimization #FemalePerpetrators #BreakingTheSilence #EmpathyPodcast #SocietalBiases #PodcastDiscussion