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Nick Gray, author of the The 2-Hour Cocktail Party, joins us today to talk about the best way to make friends as an adult, throw a party with new and old friends!

If that sounds scary, Sammie and Michelle can relate. Luckily, Nick literally wrote the book on throwing the perfect party. On this episode we discuss the challenges of making friends as an adult, why cocktail (or mocktail) parties are a great way to create and deepen friendships, and we cover some of the best things to put in place to have structure for your party and to help ease your anxieties. By the end of this episode, we were excited to throw a party and hope you feel the seeds of that as well. 

Nick Gray's Information:

• Book: The 2-Hour Cocktail Party: How to Build Big Relationships with Small Gatherings
• Website: nickgray.net
• Nick Gray's Instagram: @nickgraynews
• Nick Gray's Twitter: @nickgraynews
• Bollywood Music Video

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Sammie and Michelle take a look at the feeling of discontent, how it manifests in our lives and what it could be telling us.

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Sammie and Michelle deep dive into vulnerability and how it is part of making connections and building a community. Despite having a podcast and writing personal essays, Michelle doesn't consider herself a vulnerable person. Sammie is better about being vulnerable in her relationships, but can struggle being vulnerable about her work and at her work.

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Show Notes:

• Vulnerability: The Key to Better Relationships by Mark Manson
• The Power of Vulnerability by Brené Brown
• Learn more about Michelle’s Sundays by checking out Irena’s beautiful newsletter, The Boonly!

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Do you find yourself losing time scrolling on Instagram, TikTok, Twitter or some other social media tool? Sammie and Michelle take another look at the downsides of social media and the best ways to eliminate any social media tools that are no longer serving you in your life.

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This week, we wanted to highlight a podcast we've been enjoying, The Me Bet Podcast! Host Erica Johnson interviews people from different work backgrounds who decided to make a change and make a bet on themselves. On April 18th, you can find Michelle from Build A Wealthy Spirit on The Me Bet where she talks about leaving tech sales to take a sabbatical and eventually move onto more creative projects.

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Dedicated to my long time friend Pooja who I had the chance to celebrate at her Bachelorette this past weekend <3 

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Sammie and Michelle take a look at the little voice inside your head. Your inner voice can come in different forms, chatting 24/7 or even playing like a movie. The downside of the inner voice is it can prevent you from hearing your authentic voice or the gut instinct you have to do something different that's more authentic to you. We discuss what an inner voice is and how to recognize it and instead channel your authentic voice.

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After living in San Francisco for years and then moving to a small town, Sammie and Michelle have the unique perspective of moving from a high cost of living area to a low cost of living area. In this episode, we share some fun stories from trying to be frugal in San Francisco and also share some details of our small town life. Is lower cost of living better? Should you move to a small town? We discuss the advantages of a small town, share some fun stories and break down what to consider like housing costs and phantom costs. 

Show Notes:

• Cost of living: Why you should choose a cheap place to live by J.D. Roth
• Keeping up with Jone-ses not Jonas
• Take a listen to Sammie and Michelle's interview on the The Deconstructed Woman Podcast with Elisa Marie & our cousin, Jojy

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There is a lot of talk about “finding your passion” but how do you go about doing that? Sammie and Michelle put together a step by step guide that helped them get closer to figuring out our passion. When it comes to life, we make the mistake of trying to find a job with trying to find a passion, but in this episode, we cover five steps that will help you identify what's important to you. 

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An unexpected stage of building a wealthy spirit is deprogramming from the “corporate mindset” or “jobbie mindset.” Sammie and Michelle define a corporate mindset as this idea that productivity and value is tied to a paid salary or needs to fall under a 9-5, 40 hour work week. In this episode, we take a look at some common work scripts and give you new ones to "reprogram" for a more meaningful life. 

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Sammie and Michelle take a look at the two popular ways to escape the rat race: sabbaticals and the financial independence retire early (FIRE) movement. Is one better than the other? Is there a better fit for you in your personal finance journey? Should you take a sabbatical?
Michelle was on a sabbatical for two years after leaving tech sales. Sammie, a physician assistant and personal finance enthusiast is on the FIRE path. They discuss the merits of both and help provide insight for which may be the best option for you.

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