The beginning of creation God gave man (male and female) the direction to be fruitful and mulitiply, but in a world that is not godly and wants nothing to do with God;  we must learn how to war in the spirit. The battle is not natural, but spiritual. We must become wise and strategic in our bsttles it is not our kids, spouse, employer, or the pastor or the people at church it is the spirit, which controls the actions. We must remember to be wse as serpents gentle as doves.