In Part 2 of The Return on Investment Myth — Rethinking Youth Sports, Dr. Travis Dorsch returns to Chat By The Pitch to go even deeper into the real work of parenting athletes. From accountability and culture to failure and social media, Dr. Dorsch shares how parents can reflect, recalibrate, and reconnect with the reason they signed their kids up in the first place.

We talk about how good intentions can cross the line, why “culture is king,” and what clubs can do to build a healthier ecosystem for players and families alike. From letting kids fail to redefining success after COVID, this conversation is a master class in perspective, patience, and purpose for every parent, coach, and club leader.

💬 Key Talking Points

• Treating kids as kids — not miniature adults

• Setting boundaries between good intentions and over-involvement

• The power of an accountability partner for parents

• How culture outweighs budget in building winning teams

• Reflection as a missing habit for most sports parents

• Why parents must allow failure to build resilience

• Social media and the “Gucci parent” era

• Bringing back discipline and the value of the name on the back of the jersey

• Inclusion, respect, and cheering for the competition

• Helping parents feel unstuck and regain balance

• Volunteering and being a helper in club culture

• Three keys to supporting your athlete: show up, be present, celebrate both wins and losses

• Parent education that works vs. programs that don’t

• Defining success for communities and clubs

• How COVID reshaped youth sports and perspective

• Coaches as the “missing piece” for family balance

• The importance of humility and apology as a parent

• What today’s generation of athletes is teaching us about resilience

Quotes from Dr. Travis Dorsch

• “Our kids aren’t miniature adults — we have to stop treating them that way.”

• “Accountability partners on the sideline can save you and your kid a lot of pain.”

• “Culture is king — and it’s free if you do it right.”

• “Parents have the potential to be incredibly reflective, but most of us choose not to be.”

• “Failure is a safe space for learning if we let it be.”

• “Social media shows the best five percent of every season and hides the 95 percent of growth.”

• “Let’s cheer for our kid’s competitors the same way we cheer for our own.”

• “Show up. Be present. Celebrate success and failure alike.”

• “Competitive outcomes and character development aren’t mutually exclusive — you can have both.”

• “Be humble enough to apologize when things go sideways. We only get one shot at this as parents.”

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🌐 Families in Sport Lab — Utah State University

▶️ TEDx Talk: “Should Parents Expect a Return on Investment?”

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