In this week’s episode I sat down with Beaonca Ward a certified life coach, to discuss the ever elusive term of finding one's purpose. This one was an interesting one for me, because I believe that we can find and assign purpose in everything we do on a sliding scale from the smaller more intricate everyday nuances, to the larger big picture purpose that we’ve come to know and identify with in our society.
But we live in a society that pushes and encourages us to think that we must find that “one thing” that we’re put here on this earth to do, and that in itself can be detrimental to health and wellbeing if we feel as though we don’t have that one thing, we haven’t yet figured it out or perhaps it’s just not realistic for whatever reason. I often think passion and purpose are also used interchangeably, and the truth is they are quite different. Passion is any powerful or compelling emotion or feeling, whereas purpose on the other hand is the reason for which something is done or for which something exists.
If we look at the concept of multipotentialites (someone with many interests and creative pursuits) and how for example, in the Renaissance period, you were considered a societal success if you had multiple talents that you excelled at. Yet nowadays we’re taught not to be a Jack of all trades - you must have heard that one before? When you’re at school, college or when it comes to picking a career, that we must pick one thing and be good at it, and that can sometimes be debilitating.
I also think that purpose changes at different points in our life, from your 20s, 30s, 40s, 50s and so on. And within that web the tapestry of what makes us “us” from our environment, the countries we grew up in, the culture, the beliefs and value systems we adopt, will all invariably change how we perceive our purpose at any given time.
I certainly enjoyed speaking to Beaonca and sharing our different views on the soul and deriving purpose in our lives. A great episode for someone who’s currently feeling a little at sea, has just finished university/college and is perhaps unsure of which career or job may be suitable for them, or someone who’s seeking a head start on seeking more clarity and direction in life generally.
So, is there one answer to what is purpose? Have a listen and let me know what you think.
ABOUT BEAONCA:
Beaonca Ward is a certified life coach, motivational speaker, and founder of A Sunny Movement which is a personal development business that inspires women to live their purpose and develop a greater sense of resiliency.
Beaonca and her work have been featured in The International Coach Federation, Darling, and Medium.
Her work is rooted in helping individuals better understand themselves through their actions, emotions, thoughts, and soul, by shifting them, leading to positive change in an individual’s personal life, career, and relationships with others.
Onto this week's episode.
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