Ten years ago, Robin Allison Davis left a television career in New York City for Paris, chasing a more expansive life. Less than two years after arriving, she was diagnosed with breast cancer at 34, with no family history and no warning, and had to navigate a foreign healthcare system in a language she barely spoke.

In this episode, Robin and I talk about her debut memoir, Surviving Paris: A Memoir of Healing in the City of Light — walking the city as a form of healing, building community as a single Black woman abroad, and what it really means to build a home somewhere that wasn't guaranteed to hold you. This is a conversation about resilience without the performance of resilience.

Robin's paperback is out September 8th.

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Everyone talks about the hard parts of moving abroad. No one talks about the hard part of moving back.

This week I'm sitting down with my friend Sofía Zanotti (remember the Bergamo park friendship that our moms basically arranged for us?!) as she prepares to leave Italy after years of building a full life here: a coffee shop, an amazing community for women, a family, a home. She's heading back to Paraguay, and she's the first person to tell me that "home" doesn't mean what it used to.

We talk about repatriation as its own kind of culture shock, what it means to go back as a different person than the one who left, what she's bringing with her, and why leaving the place you built might be harder than building it in the first place.

Bring tissues. We did.

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Ambika moved to Naples by accident — a backpack, a birthday party, and a Neapolitan she wasn't planning on falling for. We talk career reinvention, bilingual love, and what it really takes to earn your place somewhere new.

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Amby’s Honest Naples Travel Guide

This solo episode I'm diving into two listener questions that come up A LOT.

One woman has been dreaming of living in Europe since she was nine years old. She had Sicily and Malta booked for next month. Then the current immigration climate made her pull back — not because the dream died, but because she's a naturalized citizen trying to protect herself while the world feels unpredictable.

The other is moving to Milan in December. Her question: is there a Black community there? Will I find my people?

They don't know each other. But they're asking the same thing from different distances: will there be a place for me there?

In this solo episode, I'm answering both of them — honestly, specifically, and without skipping the parts that most expat content pretends don't exist. We talk about the invisible homework Black women do before every international trip, what community actually looks like in Northern Italy, and what I've learned about belonging from living it in Bergamo.

The world is uncertain. The dream is still valid. Both things are true.

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Most people don't realize that building a life abroad is about more than just where you live—it's about who you become in the process. Allison Sager, a true citizen of the world, shares how her journey from the U.S. to Siena to Rome transformed her understanding of community, authenticity, and the soul of a place. Her story proves that stepping out of your comfort zone can unlock a lifetime of connection, purpose, and surprisingly, a bit of the Italian 'Viva!' spirit. In this episode, Allison opens up about her unexpected leap into Italy's travel scene—how a love for language and culture led her to stay in Siena for seven years, and ultimately, to founding Viva Lifestyle PR in Rome. We explore what it takes to thrive in a city that isn't your birthplace, from navigating gentrification and preserving local culture to living authentically despite the influx of tourism. She shares tangible tips for travelers: how to experience Rome responsibly, with respect for its neighborhoods, traditions, and hidden gems.

Timing is everything in her story—and in yours. Whether you're contemplating a move abroad, planning your next trip, or simply seeking a deeper way to relate to the world, this episode offers inspiration and practical guidance on building a home away from home that’s rooted in respect, authenticity, and heart.Perfect for travelers, expatriates, community builders, and anyone dreaming of turning a foreign city into their own haven, this conversation encourages you to embrace the adventure of becoming part of a place—and letting it become part of you.

00:00 Living the Dream in Rome

02:35 Journey to Italy: A New Beginning

05:04 Building a Career in PR

08:04 The Essence of Viva Lifestyle

10:54 Cultural Reciprocity in Travel

13:21 Finding Community in Rome

16:00 Navigating Cultural Differences

18:29 The Impact of Gentrification in Rome

27:43 Gentrification and Its Impact on Rome

33:52 The Balance of Tourism and Local Culture

40:14 Conscious Travel Choices in Rome

45:55 Perceptions of American Politics in Rome

Check out Alison PR company, Viva Lifestyle

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Most moms swear by the chaos — but what if motherhood in a new place actually unlocks a deeper sense of home? In this heartfelt Mother's Day special, I'm going to give you an intimate glimpse into my life as a Black American mother thriving in Bergamo, Italy. And we're going around the world, chatting with mothers that I've had on the pod from Milan to Mexico City and hearing some of their thoughts on motherhood, how they're navigating and getting some sage advice. Blue also makes a cameo. Because of course. Curlers in my hair and Blue by my side, I'm discussing balancing the beauty and chaos of motherhood abroad, revealing how community, culture, and love redefine what home truly means.

In a society where community can be fleeting, missing moments. Celebrating all the incredible mothers—near or far—who are shaping their families and their worlds, this special episode is a tribute to resilience, love, and the powerful role women play in creating a home wherever they are.

Like, Comment and subscribe! It Makes a difference and to hear more from these amazing women, here are the links to their episodes.

Good Craic in Dublin with Molly Mulshine

The Real Life Under the Tuscan Sun: Renovating in Italy with @RootlessinItaly

From Santa Monica to Lima - The Pushy Americana Fighting for Workplace Gender Equality in LATAM While Raising a Global Family with Courtney McColgan

From NYC to Paris - Making Good on a Quarter Life Crisis with Ryan Norville

Across the Atlantic and Back Again - The Third Culture Kid Experience with Caterina Monda

The Gold Star Kids Guide to International Community Building with Allie Canton

From Paraguay to Italy: Pearls of Wisdom and Community with Sofia Zanotti

Today I’m chatting with fabulous journalist and multi-hyphenate Ana Victoria Torres Guzmán, a Dominican fellow bravoholic living in the gastronomy capital, Lyon, France! Today’s convo is a wild ride as we’re reeling from the Summer House Scandal. Ana shares her journey from the Dominican Republic to France, her insights on reality TV culture, and her experiences living abroad. Discover how her Caribbean roots influence her perspective on life, work, and identity, and get insider tips on Lyon's best spots!

Check out Ana and her co-host Jhonayce on the Glossip Girls Podcast

And follow them on Instagram @glossipgirlspodcast

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Chapters

00:00 Kismet Connections: Meeting in the Digital Age

02:00 Reality TV: A Cultural Phenomenon

04:41 The Evolution of Reality TV: From Guilty Pleasure to Mainstream

07:41 Reality TV and Public Perception: A Sociological Study

10:31 The Impact of Reality TV on Politics

13:16 Life in Lyon: A Journey from the Dominican Republic to France

17:48 Cultural Adjustments in France

19:52 Mindset Shifts: Embracing New Perspectives

21:24 Work-Life Balance: A New Approach

22:33 Political Landscape: Comparing Experiences

25:03 Diversity and Integration Challenges

27:03 Navigating Social Spaces: A Cultural Contrast

29:52 Pop Culture and Personal Identity

33:37 Translating Identity: The Dominican Experience

38:13 Resilience and Adaptability in Life's Challenges

41:02 The Hustle Behind Reality TV Stars

43:36 Building Brands and Personalities

46:50 Exploring Personal Growth and Opportunities

49:05 Culinary Connections to Home

51:29 Family-Friendly Lyon: A Hidden Gem

54:34 Traveling Through Lyon: A Gateway to Adventure

Join me today with my dear friend Kabir Awatramani as he takes me through his journey of his chic childhood growing up in Bombay to being lured by the magical pull of the island of misfit toys, NYC. We reminisce about the old days of fashion, our Blackberries, gender studies and politics and how we  found each other across careers, continents and timelines. Such an open, thoughtful conversation and for reminding us how much identity, culture, and connection shape the way we move through the world.  We even get into GLP-1s!

And of course Kabir is sharing his favorite NYC and Mumbai haunts for you to add to your saved places!

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In this episode, Christina — a clinical psychologist who understands the beautifully tangled inner world of expats and digital nomads — opens a window into the emotional landscapes that come with living between cultures. We talk about how trauma, grief and past experiences travel with us, the different ways psychology shows up around the world, and what it really means to build a sense of home when everything feels in motion. Christina shares thoughtful, comforting strategies for navigating the holiday season, reminding us to treat ourselves with compassion and stay connected to the body’s wisdom. She also speaks to the quiet power of community and support, especially when life abroad feels heavy or uncertain.

To reach out to Christina, visit her website

https://www.christinababich.com/

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00:00 Introduction and Setting the Scene

01:39 Christina's Journey to Budapest

04:49 Cultural Perspectives on Psychology

09:20 Navigating Grief and Trauma

14:08 Finding Home and Stability

18:31 Mind-Body Connection in Therapy

23:35 Coping with Holiday Triggers

27:54 Creating New Traditions as Expats

32:42 Advice for Staying Sane During the Holidays

This week is a solo episode where I catch you guys up on how we spent the Thanksgiving holiday. My mom's in town, Michele gave a tear-jerking speech, we had a Jamaican-Italian gala charity dinner that was featured in Vogue Italia and a beautiful stay at The Place in Florence. It was also a week of some pretty special firsts...Wow... what a packed week.

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